Dh very ill, will be going into the hospice on Wednesday

[Blandmum]

Dh is now very poorly. He is very thin, has no appetite, sleeps most of the day and is up most of the night.

The Macmillan nurse visited today and has told him to stay in bed, and he will have a bed in the hospice on Wednesday.

I don't know if this is 'it'. but he is getting very ill very quickly. At least he got to do his balloon ride yesterday, and got the formal news of his MBE a little while ago.

We have been lucky to have the extra time that we have had, and we have built some fine memories, but this is very hard. He is such a good man and doesn't deserve this. I don't know if I can post updates, I may well just use MN as a distraction.

Just want you to know that I'm thinking of you, I am fairly local to you (I think!) and would gladly help out in any way that I can, (although I know you like your privacy) x.

So sorry MB

Oh MB, I'm so sad to read this. Wishing you all much strength over the coming days.

Sorry to hear this MB.

So sorry MB

Oh MB I had so hoped that this wouldn't be your thread. So sorry to hear this news.

Make sure that you look after yourself as well.

xx

Thinking of you and your family MB x

Thinking of you all.

Thinking of all of your family, MB

love and best wishes to you all. x

thinking of you mb and hoping you feel ok x

I'm so sorry MB

Thinking of you MB xxx

so sorry MB

Thinking of you MB xxx

So very sorry . Thinking of all the MBs.

So very sorry for you and your family - can suggest Bach flower remedy Recovery Plus (Ainsworth's) as being useful to help you through it - we used it to good effect last summer when sitting with Mum as she slipped away; just takes the edge off and helps you to cope.

I am a complete stranger to you but am going to bed wishing the best for you and your family.

Thinking of you MB.

So sorry, MB.

Sending you and Mr MB all good wishes from New Zealand. I think of you often.

I have good memories of hospice care.

So sorry to hear your news MB. Wishing you all the strength you need.

So sorry MB. Stay strong.

I'm so sorry to hear this MB, you were so kind to me when my dad was diagnosed at the start of the year.
I often wonder how your dh is doing, and was upset to see this was your post.

I really hope this is just a set back, and your dh will bounce back again, who knows ???

Wishing you lots of love and strength at this hard time xxx

Thinking of you and your family, MB.

You and your family are in my thoughts.