WE ARE WITH YOU--------OJ-------COME AND SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE FOR OJ AND FAMILY

[NotABanana]

Just had another text saying "we are okay."

Love and peace to you all. Wishing Steve a peaceful journey and you and your children all the strength you need to get through this.

My mum rallied in much the same way

OJ be with him and hold him , wishing him a peaceful journey and you strength.

Just having a quiet thought about this awful time, this loving family are all going through, and one positive thing is that so many of us have never met them, yet we all have this common bond of support and love, for them.

There will not be many without a tear in their eye whilst reading this thread.

Thinking of you all at this very sad time but knowing that Steve`s pain will be gone soon can help a little.

You are all very brave for telling us your story and keeping us all up to date. A lot of people would have just shut themselves away from the rest of the world.

You have given us an insight when we are loosing someone very close to us. The lows and the highs times, Just like 2 days ago when you told us that Steve said he loves you. I think you made us all cry then. Not because of sadness but because of the joy of Steve still telling you he loves you. You are both truly in love and this love for each other will never die.

May he fall asleep for the last time hearing the words "I will love you forever"

Thinking of you all.
Love and hugs
Hazel and family xxx

thinking of you all x

I have a candle lit for you in North Yorkshire.

Thinking of you always OJ.
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Thinking of you and Steve and your family.xxxx

OJ, just thinking of you, Steve and your family. I wish I had something useful to say, something I could say to make you feel just a tiny bit better.

So just sending love xxx

Love x Candle here in Kent too.

Thinking and praying for you, steve and all your family...it's so unfair
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Thinking of you all xx

Jo, I hope you and Steve have a quiet night tonight. We will be thinking of you. It will seem surreal when it happens but try not to push yourself into facing it or believing he has gone, give yourself time to adjust.

Hope you are Ok pet xxxx

Wishing you a peaceful night X

Please let us know if you need us. X

OJ, I am heartbroken that you, Steve and the kids have to go through this. You know where I am. I'll also keep my mobile next to my bed tonight. Call me any time. xxx

thinking of you oj, and praying for strength for you and your beautiful children for the days to come.
a candle's burning brightly here in Yorkshire.
love and prayers, D xxxx

I'm another lurker on here - I never post because I can never find the right words, but I promise you OJ, this thread is the first one I read everytime I come onto mumsnet.

I am so sorry to read this latest update. I feel as though we have all had a wonderful insight into the lovely man Steve is by the updates you give us OJ.

Your love for each other shines through in your words and I am so happy that you managed to have some nice time to chat and for Steve to tell you he loves you last weekend. You'll treasure those words forever.

I will be praying for you all tonight and will light a candle for Steve.

Sending my love xx

I bought a chocolate candle recently, for no apparent reason, now I'm so glad I did...it's burning in my window down in Cornwall...you and your family are in my thoughts. Wishing peace and strength at such a devastating time xxx

Thinking of you OJ sorry i cant think what else to say to you.
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Bree, and NAB, thank you for the updates.

It's hard on you as well.

[group hug]

You are in my prayers.

Also check this post whenever I log onto computer I am sooo sad for you all but glad steve told you he loved you

Notabanana - Does she have someone with her?

oj, I was thinking about you all this morning and was so relieved that what sounded like the beginning of the end a couple of days ago seemed to have receded...so shocked and saddened to hear what the mac nurse told you, I was hoping Steve would still be here with you for ages yet.

Although I've never posted on this thread before, as I've never really known what to say, you have often been in my thoughts.

Thinking of you all xx