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Just had another text saying "we are okay."

I hope your MIL behaves herself and you have a very pleasant visit.

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Hope the sun is out for you OJ. Its playing a game of hide-n-seek here in Hants. Love and hugs to you & yours. xxxxxx

Love, strength and fondest wishes to OJ, Steve and the kids

In my thought

OJ, hope MIL doesn't spit her usual venom. The fact that Steve's wishes have been documented in black and white on a number of occasions doesn't give her a leg to stand on. Hope Steve is ok today and that his breathing stays regular and hope you back is feeling better too. All my love xxx

Hi OJ,

Another lurker here wishing she could say something more adequate than thinking of you and Steve.

You are both a real inspiration.

Hi OJ. I am crossing my fingers that you don't get too much stress from MIL today.
Hope your back is not too painful. Lots of love xxx

I hope you have a quite afternoon and MIL behaves herself.

A quiet day, DN has been and done steve an emema so tht should make him feel a bit comfier.
steve has slept for most of the day.
i am bracing myself for MILs vist.

OJ glad to hear you had a good day yesterday.
Thinking of you all.

too early for rum?

xxx

Thinking of you and wishing you a noneventful visit from MIL

Good luck for tonight, thought this might make MIL easier to handle uk.wrs.yahoo.com/_ylt=A0WTf210jjFICbwAyJJWBQx./SIG=1296g6oof/EXP=1211293684/**http%3A//www.flickr.co m/photos/courgettelawn/191758808/

I have not done a link before so not sure if this is going to work please bear with me!

Hi OJ. Just popping in to say hope all goes well with MIL. Glad you will have some back up.

Take care. Thinking of you as always. xx

My freind has one of those in her front room.

Thinking of you all and sending hugs x

will order one of those suits pronto

Have a stiff drink and deal with her safe in the knowledge you are a better person than she will ever be and you have two bouncers at hand

Good luck with the witch MIL tonight

Love and hugs to you all

Had a call from Mac nurse today she says that they can't get here tomorrow til 12.30 so do i ask steves mum to extend tomorrows vist so the doc and mac nurse can see her?
it is very hard to talk to MIL as she doesn't stop to listen she just walks throu the room on a mission to see steve or to leave the house after her vist.
i don't yet know what to do for the best.

Hang on to the drink and threaten her with the rest, not sure which is scarier
Hope it goes OK tonight, thinking of you X

OJ perhaps you could march with her to Steve's room, and tell her about the 12 30 visit, ask her to stay through gritted teeth

This way you cannot Be Critiscised for keeping her out of the loop [curls lip]

of course it means she will be here much longer, i am stressed enough with her being here for two hours.

Could you text her about it? I'm guessing she wants to talk to them (to complain about you find out all about Steve's care) so maybe you can negotiate for her to come later?

I think you should say that they would like to see her ( so she feels important, and could she wait )

All thru gritted teeth whilst hiding the baseball bat behind your back !!!

' I know you want to have a chat with the doctor and nurse, but they've just told me they can't come till 12.30- i'd hate you to be put out and have to wait around for ages, so maybe you could come a bit later? what time would suit you? why not come just before 12.30 and see Steve later?'