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WE ARE WITH YOU--------OJ-------COME AND SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE FOR OJ AND FAMILY

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NotABanana · 17/05/2008 19:42

Just had another text saying "we are okay."

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KerryMum · 19/05/2008 07:57

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kayzisexpecting · 19/05/2008 08:06

I'm glad Steve had a good night. I hope you have a good day.

ScoobyDoo · 19/05/2008 08:11

Morning oj, am so glad Steve had a peaceful night & got lots of sleep as well as you.
I hope you have a lovely day, will check in later xx

fifisworld · 19/05/2008 08:13

I'm glad yesterday and last night were better for you all, i hope today is the same
x

WingsofaAngel · 19/05/2008 08:14

Morning OJ not posted for a couple of days but I have been thinking of you all. I'm glad Steve had a peaceful night.
I hope MIL can be nice for once and that everything remains calm for you all.
Take care x

Buda · 19/05/2008 08:34

REally glad that Steve had such a good night. And after such a good day too. Hoping for a huge trifle count today!

Good luck with the visit - glad you will have bouncers!

YeahBut · 19/05/2008 08:36

Glad you had a good night.

CurrantBM · 19/05/2008 08:38

Good morning OJ, so glad to hear that you had a good day yesterday, and that you and Steve slept well. It's amazing how a good nights sleep can make you feel.

Hope all goes well with "The Visit" later, I will be thinking of you. Are your friends a bit tough looking, or look as if they can " 'andle themsmselves"?

YouNeverKnow · 19/05/2008 09:33
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Solitaire · 19/05/2008 09:36

Been working for the last few days so have not been able to check in.
Gkad to hear you had a good night OJ, thinking of you all at chez OJ
Hope all goes with with monster-in-law, sending you positive vibes

sphil · 19/05/2008 09:37

Morning OJ - so pleased you had a good day and night.

paddingtonbear1 · 19/05/2008 09:40

Morning OJ. V pleased to hear Steve had a good night! Hope all goes OK today.

NotABanana · 19/05/2008 09:48

So glad that Steve had a good night and I hope you managed to sleep too.

Have a lovely time with your friends.

Take no notice of your MIL. If she starts just tell her to leave.

I thought you were cancelling her visit today until tmw though?

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LilRedWG · 19/05/2008 09:49

So glad that you all had a good night OJ. Thinking of you today, especially this evening when the old bag descends. x

tullytwo · 19/05/2008 09:49

Hello OJ - Another one who has never posted on your threads before but I have followed them for a while as my best friend was diagnosed with breast cancer and then brain cancer @ 18 months ago, so your threads helped me a lot.

Sadly we lost her in March and whilst it is very hard and I often cant believe she is no longer here, I do reiterate what shabster said - that I am so glad I got to tell her what she meant to me and that does give me some comfort.

I have aways been thinking of what your family is going through whilst Steve has been ill and you are all always on my mind.

Enjoy this time as much as you can. I am so glad he got to come home - something my best friend didnt get to do unfortunately.

With a lot of love and empathy, I hope Steve and yours final journey together is as positive as the rest of the experience has been.

LemonTart · 19/05/2008 09:59

morning OJ. (Another Big lurker and rare poster as so many people have expressed everyone?s views so much better and more eloquently than I can.)
Just wanted to let you know that someone else is here too, following your story and sending very heartfelt and genuine feelings of support and love at this very special time.
Truly hope today proves to be another good day for you and Steve together xxx

onlyjoking9329 · 19/05/2008 10:15

is it just me that gets the cancer research advert on the right of the page
i will let steves mum come tonight, she can't then claim i am stopping her seeing her son, in a way i hope she does kick off tonight as the Mac nurse and consultant are coming here to see her in the morning and are going to be speaking to her about how she is dealing with things.
SW has emailed me and said she has it on file 4 times that steve has said he wants to be here with me she also has it on file that his MIL said twice that steve wants to be here but only to be with his kids.

claricebean · 19/05/2008 10:25

OJ,

Morning from Cordoba, Spain. You and your family are in my thoughts, as you are every morning. How wonderful that you got a chance to see your 'old husband' yesterday. What a gift to treasure. Wishing you a peaceful day and an uneventful evening visit. Glad that the powers that be are on your side and doing their job well.

bossybritches · 19/05/2008 10:28

Well done Oj - take the moral highground then the old witch is only showing herself up in her true colours even more.

youknownothingofthecrunch · 19/05/2008 10:29

Morning OJ,I hope you have another good day today.

You are an utter saint when it comes to your MIL, I don?t know how you have the spare energy to deal with her. I hope she behaves herself tonight and your ?bouncers? mates are well versed in how to ?kick-- her out gently remove her the second she starts.

My thoughts are with you still: There will be a candle lit by the sea in North Yorkshire tonight.

calsworld · 19/05/2008 10:54

Just a little note to let you know I'm still thinking of you, glad you've had some fun with Steve and good restful time for you both.

Hope this afternoons visits go well,

Cal

MrsJonnyDepp · 19/05/2008 10:54

Hello OJ - have fun with the old bat! - let us know an arrival time and we will all attack our mil voodoo dolls in sync!

mobileslostisitinthefreeze · 19/05/2008 11:21

car hire ad here.
I hope you have a peaceful fay with trifle. God bless and best wishes to you, steve and the kids.

cali · 19/05/2008 11:36

morning OJ, pleased you and steve both had a good night. Hope you have another good day today, thinking of you both, xxx

ProfessorGrammaticus · 19/05/2008 12:01

Sending you hugs, OJ

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