Help me, i have just had one of those phone calls you dread.

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DD has seen a consultant for tests recently, she is behind at school and seems emotionally immature. We had lots of academic tests done, took about 2 hours. She seemed to do ok.

We were then sent to the hospital for blood tests. I have no idea what for. The hospital just phoned me and said can the consultant come to the house one evening this week and speak to me about the results. They said they need my husband to be home too.

I am terrified. Has anyone else had a consultant come to the house? Am shaking and cant get hold of my husband or my mother.

She is coming tonight.

Thinking of you this evening. I hope it all goes OK.

It never ceases to amaze me how much you can care and worry for someone you dont even know, this has been on my mind all day and i feel as nervous for you as if you where one of my RL friends. All my thoughts are with you and your family tonight and i wish you a good outcome.

everything crossed that it goes well

Thinking of you tonight. Please let us know how you get on xxx

Fingers crossed that all is okay this evening.

Hope it goes ok too, I'll be thinking of you.

Will be thinking of you-hope everything is ok.

Have also been thinking about this for most of the day. It reminds me of when I got a message from dp that my consultant had phoned and wanted me to phone him asap - and gave her his mobile number for me to phone him on. Working in the NHS I know how weird that was and was instantly panicked - I knew it would be about the results of my brain scan.

Turned out it's all OK - I do have a lump but it's benign and they're not worried about it and it's monitored, but he didn't want me to get the ordinary letter without talking it through.

What I'm trying to say is that fingers crossed it's something that the consultant will be able to reassure you about and explain in a way that a standard letter can't.

Fingers and toes crossed for you all xxx

Not Long now sweetie, I'm sure you are in the midst of feeding, bedding and settling 6 dc's.

Have been thinking about you all non stop. xx

Thinking of you all LGT

I would be a jibbering wreck, thinking of you this evening.

Hope everything is ok, thinking of you.

Thinking of you here too

On tenterhooks here for you.

oh god, just read the thread and know you will be having that meeting now as we speak. Gulp. Fingers crossed for you.

hugs to you, thinking of you.

hope its all going well, thinking of you all.

also thinking of you and wishing you good thoughts..

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Thinking of you

Finger crossed for you

Fingers crossed for you

Hope its all going ok.