Steve is going into the hospice this afternoon

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i know he needs to be there and hopefully they can get him more stable.

Did it say "To A....Mother"? (No adjectives?)

It's great news that Steve can come home, and that you will be getting the support to help you keep him there.

Now stop biting holes in yourself, please.

XXX

Yes, I bet you don't get many mother's day cards that say f* off

(sorry, that was really dreadful of me...)

You're doing a fantastic job OJ, I am in total awe of you!

Mary I am sure there is a market for your kind of card it was so hard to find a card that didnt say wonderful , best or fantastic. Steve needed to give her a card it will be the. last one. He does for her and will be nice for her to keep. Of course it won't have occured to her that steve wwont be able to nip out andget me a mothers day card. But my mate took the kids out and some secret shoppping and the kids school have sent them home with stuff for me.

Bless your mate and the school, how thoughtful, you deserve it OJ. x

DH was reading the thread over my shoulder last night and asked if you realised what an amazing woman you are OJ? You are handling this with such grace!

Hi OJ - just popping in to catch up. Thinking of you, as always, much love and strength to you.

Oj, it was good of you to buy that card for Steve to give to his mum. I know he will appreciate that you've done it. I hope your kids make a big fuss of you tomorrow. You deserve it. xxx

Ds tells me i am getting coffee in bed in the morning, i got a card throu the post today from steve and the kids so i now have 6 cards plus three more for tomorrow, i am very lucky

oj - for coping with three children you are a good woman

• for coping with children with autism and special needs you are a great woman

• for coping with the above and a husband with a brain tumor you are an incedible woman

but for buying a mother's day card for your mother in law you are F*G UNBELEIVABLE!!!!!

{Lilibet bows her head in awe of the niceness and overall loveliness that is oj!}

OJ - For the first time I had a nosey in your profile - I am so proud of you, I know I dont know you, but I would like to think if I was given the hand in life that you have been given I would be strong.

Your children are sooooo lovley - I also just realised that you are a multiple mummy, I almost live on the multiple thread!

well there are a few reasons i got the card, steve would want his mum to have a card, his mum will always keep the card and at the end of all this when steve dies i don't ever want to feel guilt that i did things wrong or didn't do the best that i could for steve. steve is what drives me our love is what keeps me going and the love of the kids.

You definately did the right thing getting the card for the old bitch your MIL. I hope you have a lovely mothers day tomorrow and find some time for some hugs with your lovely man. xxxx

OJ I have not been around much lately so only seen this thread I'm sorry things are getting to this point.

Many many heartfelt hugs and tell me where your MIL lives and I will send mine to sort her up!
Ch@ndra

Happy Mother's Day, OJ. If you are as good a mum as you are a wife, you must be f*ing amazing!!

Hope you have a lovely day.

Thinking of you as always,

xxx

Just wanted to wish you a very special and happy Mothers Day Oj, your kids have the most amazing, Mum with the biggest heart, they are very lucky xxxxxxx

Hope you have a lovely mother's day with the kids OJ. x

I hope you have the peaceful Mothers Day which you surely deserve. Best wishes.

Enjoy your Mothering Sunday OJ!

I am having a very special mothers day the kids have been fab and I feel very lucky to be their mum, I think their should be a sons and daughters day too.
we are going in to see Steve soon and will be having a picnic with him. His mum is not visting today so it will be nice to just be us all together.
I have some storage for dining table and sofa and have someone coming to measure up for blinds in the morning.

glad you are making the most of mother's day OJ

Happy mothers day OJ, thinking of you xx

Enjoy your day

OJ I've never posted before because there don't seem to be adequate words to say but you and your family are in my thoughts often x

Wishing you a wonderful day OJ Thinking of you xxxx