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What is the most pain you have ever experienced?

339 replies

Rnm62 · 04/10/2022 03:40

Some say tooth pain is one of the worst pains to have.

What would you say the worst pain is you’ve experienced?

OP posts:
bonzaitree · 06/10/2022 01:31

Slipped disk. Literally passing out with pain. Vomiting and beside myself.

Didn't enjoy begging for pain killers like some junkie

Gronkle · 06/10/2022 01:35

Toothache for a sustained length of time. Notable mention, I was coming down the stairs of a double decker bus wearing a sleeveless top, I got the soft underside of my arm stuck to the metal bannister and then fell the mast few steps, Christ the pain was indescribable and the bruise was huge.

AlwaysLatte · 06/10/2022 01:37

Childbirth. Two without any pain relief, luckily the memory of the pain goes quickly!

DaisyChristina · 06/10/2022 01:56

Facial shingles which affected my eye.

The doc thought it was sinusitus so I had few days of torture before being admitted to hospital. My face had swollen up like a balloon.

I thought I was going to die.

ozymandiusking · 06/10/2022 02:12

Excruciating pain trying to pee after a cystoscopy and having my urethra stretched, I nearly passed out.
Dry socket.
And continuous sciatica.
Sympathy to everyone who is suffering now. x

Muddays · 06/10/2022 02:48

@Hollyhobbi -holy guacamole woman, you're one tough broad eh?
I had a horrific no anaesthetic,as in crappy injection, root canal experience by a student dentist (couldn't afford a proper one so endured a freebie at the medical school). I made it screamingly clear that she was in the wrong profession. The other memory is my shin bone being impaled by a spike on a mountain bike pedal, passed out. Still have a weird hole in my shin. Got knocked out by a falling rock when climbing and couldn't walk properly for a few days. One of the worst was when I was showing off diving off a really high cliff and completely misjudging my dive, I landed flat on my back, opposite to a bellyflop, agony, sank like a stone but luckily saved by some locals. Loads more but you're still way tougher than me Holly.,.

Ihatemyroad · 06/10/2022 02:49

Back to back labour. Each contraction felt like my back was breaking.

Mollymaggiemoo · 06/10/2022 03:17

The end of and the aftermath of radiation for tongue cancer. The 17 hour operation where half my tongue was removed, remade from my arm, leaning to speak and eat again all less than two weeks after having a premature baby….nothing compared to the pain of the effects of radiation. 6 months later it’s still painful.

bluefootedboobie · 06/10/2022 06:10

Froodledo · 04/10/2022 04:54

Rheumatoid arthritis pain in virtually every joint except my hips, or at least before I received effective treatment. Horrible horrible horrible.

Sorry you suffer from this. What was your treatment, if you don't mind my asking?

whichwayiwonder · 06/10/2022 06:19

Feeling guilty about not having had more sympathy for my DH's multiple kidney stones and infections.

whichwayiwonder · 06/10/2022 06:24

Hollyhobbi · 06/10/2022 01:26

Hmm. The pain while vomiting all over myself and the bed after an emergency total abdominal hysterectomy while I had very low phosphate levels and undiagnosed primary hyperparathyroidism or after a c-section when the stupid painkilling suppository fell out, are pretty high up there. Maybe on a par with the pain after I had 4 wisdom teeth extracted (the surgeon said one of them was the most impacted he'd seen in his 30 year career!) and the tooth abscess I had before I had root canal treatment done on that tooth. Sciatica from a bulging desk was pretty crap too. Bone pain from primary hyperparathyroidism can be shit as well. It's supposed to be as painful as bone cancer. Damage caused to my knees from pHPT can be crippling too. It's like my kneecaps are being scrapped out with a sharp knife. But I'm having another scan today to hopefully find the offending parathyroid gland or glands and finally have a second operation to cure me of this godawful disease after having a failed operation in June 2017. And yes chronic pain is a nightmare especially when you can't take anti inflammatories because you've had two DVTs caused by pHPT. Sorry for the thesis 😭

I hope the scan and op are successful

Spidey66 · 06/10/2022 06:26

Fractured proximal humerus (shoulder) followed by gallstones

withaspongeandarustyspanner · 06/10/2022 06:43

Thrush. In my nipple. When I was breastfeeding.

mrssunshinexxx · 06/10/2022 06:45

Grief
There is no pain in the world like it

Dingdong90 · 06/10/2022 07:22

I've given birth twice, broken a fair amount of bones and toothache is still at the top of the pain list...root canal is the worst 😫

Sniffypete · 06/10/2022 07:26

It's a toss up between a dry socket, gallbladder pain or kidney infection.

WelcomeMats · 06/10/2022 07:30

Childbirth
Period pain which has at times felt like being in labour

Unexpecteddrivinginstructor · 06/10/2022 07:34

FruitPastilleNut · 04/10/2022 13:46

Childbirth without a doubt. Well, not the actual birth but the contractions.

The fact that more women haven't given this as their answer to me is a good indication of just how good our brains are at making us forget.

I think it all depends on what else you are comparing with, plus pain is in part psychological, which is why people are offered therapy as part of pain management.

I think for the sheer uncertainty of outcome fracturing a vertebrae in my back and being on bed rest for a week before an operation was probably the worst, despite all the morphine.

Having said that a prolapsed disc with sciatica was also very painful, though again - free drugs. The recovery time was longer, so it raises more questions in your mind as to whether you will return to 'normal', likewise a frozen shoulder.

Tooth abscess and labour were never more than a couple of days and with somewhat more certain outcomes, so easier to deal with mentally.

Psychologically I have found humour the best approach, obviously try to avoid laughing yourself with a fracured spine, but if everyone around you is looking glum and worried it makes you feel worse. I think it also makes the hospital staff more positively disposed towards you. Obviously only once it is clear to them that you are genuinely in pain and you have a diagnosis. You can't do a full standup routine with a fractured spine, just the odd joke here and there.

Alibongo0001 · 06/10/2022 07:58

Forceps birth with zero pain relief!

Alibongo0001 · 06/10/2022 08:03

I had 2 back to back labours. 1st was horrific as he was a big baby who required forceps. 2nd was a little better as she was a lot smaller and I started (but had to have removed because of low blood pressure) an epidural.

Throwawaytoday · 06/10/2022 08:06

I had a tricky birth with DD, I've broken my leg (in 4 places), as a child I regularly broke fingers and toes, and the occasional rib (sport), but the very worst I've ever experienced was recovery form my tonsillectomy (age 37). Awful business.

JoanThursday · 06/10/2022 08:17

Another one for gallstones.
Followed by a detached ligament in my ankle.

PunchedTit4ASoul · 06/10/2022 08:43

An episiotomy. Normally they give you local anaesthetic or wait until you're at the height of a contraction but they had been trying to pull him out for a long time after the head had been delivered and we were both fading fast. It felt like somebody had thrown boiling hot water over my fanny. Dh has been by my side during 3 labour's, 3 miscarriages, gallbladder attacks, sciatica episodes where I was crying with the pain and various migraines that left me spinning out of control but he has said the scream I let out when the episiotomy was performed will stay with him for life. I had to have over 100 stitches. 15 years later I still have soreness down there but have been too chicken to do anything about it.

DangerousAlchemy · 06/10/2022 09:00

CrampMcBastard · 04/10/2022 05:26

Coming round from a general post an operation to put a pin and plate in a broken ankle. I came round without any pain relief and for a couple of minutes, which felt like a lifetime, it was proper 9/10 writhing in agony, gasping, crying pain. The anaesthetists were really sweet and dryly funny so I wasn’t actually that pissed off about it.

After that it’s:

  • having a coil fitted (8.5/10)
  • recent mystery pain/cramps (8.5/10. Nearly passed out). Ovarian torsion initially suspected, then OHSS. It disappeared, remains a bit of mystery.

My nurse keeps trying to persuade me to have a coil fitted @CrampMcBastard & I keep refusing. I've heard such horror stories & I find even a smear test VERY uncomfortable. Think worst pain I've had (I've been very lucky & never broken anything etc) was having a sweep to bring on labour for my 2nd child. Agony plus felt like I'd been assaulted. Just awful! Much worse than either birth & I managed on gas & air for them both.

DangerousAlchemy · 06/10/2022 09:01

PunchedTit4ASoul · 06/10/2022 08:43

An episiotomy. Normally they give you local anaesthetic or wait until you're at the height of a contraction but they had been trying to pull him out for a long time after the head had been delivered and we were both fading fast. It felt like somebody had thrown boiling hot water over my fanny. Dh has been by my side during 3 labour's, 3 miscarriages, gallbladder attacks, sciatica episodes where I was crying with the pain and various migraines that left me spinning out of control but he has said the scream I let out when the episiotomy was performed will stay with him for life. I had to have over 100 stitches. 15 years later I still have soreness down there but have been too chicken to do anything about it.

100 stitches! Your tale has brought proper tears to my eyes!! Sounds horrific!

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