DH says my vagina is ridgy

[Kelpienvag]

Name change, for obvious reasons.

AIBU to wonder whether this is normal?
I know that most vaginas have ridges (rugae??)
But he says mine is very ridgy and I agree, when feeling myself.
I'm worried that it makes me feel strange or looser?
Is it unappealing for men when someone's ridges are more prominent?
Sorry, Google didn't really help me.

@RealBecca

Who gices a shot what men think!? Its a fucking privilege to be allowed access!

Ha ha I love this!!! Laugh out loud moment for me!

I was today years old when I learnt that minges have ridges
Who knew??

Just like all cocks are wrinkled!

Tell him his balls look like walnuts and you don’t want them near you. You’ve developed a nut allergy overnight.

[quote OhGiveUp]@mostlyGuesswork I just asked him and he says he couldn't ever shove his cock into a hoover called Henry.[/quote]
It’s that farm Hetty again isn’t it!

As long as it doesn't feel like a cactus I can't see the issue.

@Benjispruce5

Tell him his balls look like walnuts and you don’t want them near you. You’ve developed a nut allergy overnight.

Ha ha

What so? What do u mean he doesn't like putting his fingers there does he think they are teeth? There are deeper issues if he doesn't like doin what you like it's nowt to do with ridges

@JunoMcDuff then you are missing a trick.

[quote Trixiefirecracker]@JunoMcDuff then you are missing a trick.[/quote]
No I'm not. Tried it. Don't like it!

I'd have thought it would be odd to have a perfectly smooth vagina. I mean, it needs to expand at times, so needs some extra. Weird that he won't touch you though - I can't imagine being with a man who wouldn't touch my vagina!

Tell him if he can feel ridges, he's not arousing you enough and he needs to try harder
That’s probably true actually. An aroused vagina feels sort of pumped up inside and smoother.( ime anyway!)

@Ionlydomassiveones

I’m just absolutely made up that people are using the word vagina correctly for once

You get a special “advanced fanjo” badge if you can use the words “vestibule” or “introitus” in a sentence 🤣

@juno But you have tried it so you do know your vagina has ridges, unlike many women on here, which was my point.

[quote Trixiefirecracker]@juno But you have tried it so you do know your vagina has ridges, unlike many women on here, which was my point.[/quote]
That's not how I know my (and other) vagina has ridges though!

Does he not like putting his fingers there because of the ridges, or just doesn't like it? Not wanting him to put his fingers near my vag at all would actually probably be a bit of a deal breaker for me!

I meant him not wanting to put his fingers near my vag...

@RestingPandaFace She's a right trollop is that Hetty. She'd suck anything for a free meal.

https://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/inside-my-vagina-should-it-feel-smooth-or-bumpy/

I'm not sure if the link will have copied across properly but....

I can't imagine being able to find a relaxed position in which I could insert & open a speculum in my vagina then inspect it with a torch & mirror!

Top marks to the woman able to do this

(Surely a speculum would block the view of the sides of the vagina so you wouldn't be able to see it all properly?
Any gynaecologists/vagina specialists available to comment on this?)

Hettie looks quite cheeky and pleased with herself.

Probably knows people are talking about her.

@RealBecca

Who gices a shot what men think!? Its a fucking privilege to be allowed access!

Agreed 🤣

@NewlyGranny

In other breaking news, water is wet, ice is cold. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I think the ridges are less noticeable if you are older, very overweight and have borne many children. Perhaps that was actually his preferred dating pool but he didn't know it?

You could start pointing out suitable candidates when out and about: "Bet hers isn't ridgy!" That should put a stop to it. 😉

Hahaha that's made me laugh out loud... And also I definitely need to loose weight. Fuck.

Get a new husband...

@ElectraBlue

Get a new husband...

This. It would be a deal breaker for me.

Well my Hoover is gender neutral, I still would not be impressed if I caught dh with his cock in the hose.