IKWYM Wilkie, but when dh & myself discussed it, we talked about all the possibilities.
What if we are all in the car & we have an accident? What if Dh & I aren't conscious when permission is needed? This way there is no doubt, as I have signed the register for him.
What if me & ds/dd are in an accident? What if dh doesn't get there in time for our organs to be useful to someone elses child? Or what if some mother could survive with my organs & dh is too distressed to comply with my wishes?
I know it's extremely hard to think about, but I just want to make sure that if some woman's son or daughter can be saved when mine can't, I want don't want them to know the pain I will know at the time.
Does that make sense?