Good post zippi.
lanismum, you say your dd had measles and was lucky enough not to get complications. All of my friends and probably my entire primary school, all my family, all my relatives and virtually everyone I knew as a child had measles and, funnily enough, I didn't hear a single report of complications from any of them either.
I'm not denying it's a nasty illness which can lead to complications in susceptible individuals. I do though feel that people who have been allowed to contract and process the measles virus have natural, life long immunity to measles and related conditions.
It's well known that measles is best caught in childhood. Vaccination denies people the opportunity to get it at the right time leaving them open to the virus in adulthood which is much more dangerous.
Quite apart from that the vaccine often doesn't work anyway. During the recent outbreaks the children getting the measles had been vaccinated.
I really, really, really resent the allegations that I'm selfish and putting others at risk for my beliefs. I could say those who vaccinate are putting my kids at risk because vaccinations diminish the possibility of my child getting measles (and the others) at the correct time. However, I don't make such judgements about others because I realise we're all doing our very best in a very difficult subject area with lots of misinformation to contend with.
Also sandradee, you say it would have been so easy for you to choose not to vaccinate. Believe, I'm on this path and it is by no means easy.