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Tamoxigang -the 39th thread ***

996 replies

MaryAnnSingleton · 04/07/2013 10:53

cooee ! we're over here - just in case the current thread hit 1000 without our noticing Grin Bring the trolley !

OP posts:
topsyturner · 05/07/2013 16:15

I'm home again !

Irish wake ?
No !
You really don't know DHs family Grin
The only Irish Catholic tee totallers I know ...

Wake was ok . It was nice catching up with everyone .
All the cousins were fine with me .
Aunt kept her distance , but that's ok .

Malt like the others said , the waiting wont harm the treatment plan , but it doesn't make you feel any better does it ?

Right off to change out of my funeral garb . It's boiling here , and all my black stuff was wintery !

Back later x

jchocchip · 05/07/2013 17:16

Its the weekend! Well done tospsy. You don't sound like you are typing sloshed! Have dhs family taken the pledge?
The mirror pool and fountains lovely this evening so I may have slipped off my sandals and walked straight across Grin

jchocchip · 05/07/2013 17:19

Tospsy? Topsy! I haven't had a Wine, yet Grin

kitkat1967 · 05/07/2013 17:38

Malt - agree with all the others that your cancer is all out so the waiting is only annoying but not risky - can understand why you are fed up though.

Betsy and I are different as we still have our tumours so started the chemo asap Wink

Speech day was mainly prize and was nice as it is only juniors. Nice afternoon in the park as there were a few dads to organise games for the boys so the rest of us got to sit and gossip Smile. No more early mornings or 8.5 weeks. Amazingly I will (if it goes to plan) complete 3 more chemo cycles beore they go back to school!

malteserzz · 05/07/2013 17:40

Topsy glad it went ok
Hugs for gigs
Just had another call this time from my surgeons secretary who is also chasing up my appointment, they will be sick of me !
Watching wimbledon exciting match !

malteserzz · 05/07/2013 17:42

X post Kitkat sounds like a lovely afternoon Smile
Copt enjoy the boys tonight lovely night for it too

topsyturner · 05/07/2013 18:32

DHs parents aren't non drinkers , but an even worse subset ....
They believe 1 bottle of wine should be plenty for 6 people at Sunday dinner !!!
(It's taken me 25 fecking years to serve gravy with the aforementioned Sunday dinner , so I don't fancy my chances of getting a 2nd thimble glass of wine any time soon Grin )

topsyturner · 05/07/2013 18:33

Malt good that the secretary is on the case too .
Don't worry about them being sick of you , squeaky wheel gets the oil remember !

topsyturner · 05/07/2013 18:34

Is that the pic of mirror pools you have put up on Facebook Jane ?
I would have been sorely tempted to jump in too Grin

malteserzz · 05/07/2013 19:49

Think I'll have to learn to be more assertive !
That pool did look lovely I'd like a paddle in there too
Need to paint my nails ready for the races tomorrow, advantage of having a teenager is loads of colours to choose from !

Lilymaid · 05/07/2013 20:11

Oncologist appointment today - has found some spread to bones, but many X rays then taken and only one lesion found. He's going to get me on new drug going through NICE at present but which he's managed to get for another patient on BUPA. So not the best news - but very swift action!
Decided not to watch all the Murray game - too stressful and I would like to punch the lights out of one of the commentators (think it may be Andrew Castle).

Gigondas · 05/07/2013 20:23

Grr re lesion but new drug and early action sounds good. I think you may have to join a queue to punch Andrew castle.

trice · 05/07/2013 21:06

Lily, sorry to hear about your update. Silly cells will be squashed by fab new drug I'm sure.

I bought new wool today. I already have wool stash beyond life expectancy so it was quite a positive thing to do. Dh is getting a christmas jumper. I have knitted up the swatch and done my calculations.

BetsyBoop · 05/07/2013 21:51

Sorry to hear that lily, but hopefully the new drug will do a great zapping job.

Phew I'm exhausted after watching the two semis, great matches though and Murray played well so fingers crossed for Sunday. Hoping Lisicki (sp?) wins tomorrow, she is just so lovely. :)

Malt as tipsy aptly put it,you need to be the sqeaky wheel, or as they say in the NE (I lived in Newcastle for 15yrs) "shy bairns get no sweets".

BetsyBoop · 05/07/2013 21:52

tipsy topsy Blush Freudian slip or what Grin

BetsyBoop · 05/07/2013 21:58

Just thinking we haven't heard from EMIN in a while, hope she's ok. (EMIN if you are reading and not posting )

NedSchneebly · 05/07/2013 22:06

betsy topsy frequently known as tipsy on here. Can't imagine why. . . Grin

lily bugger for lesion, but good for prompt action and new fancy drug. Bet it'll sort you out.

smee how's things with you? Hope you are doing ok.

gig sorry you're feeling so rotten. Must be frustrating - not surprised you're fed up. Thinking of you lots and lots x x

tipsy'glad today went ok. Wine needed I'm sure.

malt keep chasing and keep nagging. Waiting is shit, so best not to have to wait any longer than you have to.

Knackered here - so glad it's the weekend. Friends fe supper tomorrow then off to Old Sarum on Sunday to meet a uni friend who's over from USA.

Hope lots of you have nice plans for weekend x x

topsyturner · 05/07/2013 22:13

Still stone cold sober .
HND nearly keeled over in shock when I attended pub night , armed with a can of coke !

Sorry about the bone lesion Lily , but great news re the drug .
What are they going to give you ?

topsyturner · 05/07/2013 22:15

Trice I'm a bit Envy of your wool horde .
I neeeeeeeed more wool !

Think I'm off to bed now .
Today's shenanigans have worn me out .
Just got to finish fighting pig/dog for my prawn sandwich .... Grin

jchocchip · 05/07/2013 22:19

Bugger for lesion lily but hurray for drugs.
Yes the mirror pool is outside my office, and swimming pool quality water, drained down overnight. They don't always put water in but it was a good day to fill it today :)
Watched the end of the Murray match, but will be out tomorrow so will miss the Lisicki match :( Tennis Tennis

smee · 06/07/2013 00:08

v.late.. we're watching Glastonbury highlights and I'm feeling old..! The weird reaction to anti-biotics is making me so bloody hyper.. Reminds me of steroids on chemo.

Gigs, not surprised you had a weep on DH. I wish we could make it all go away for you. Easy for me to say, but Rads were bound to knock you down. Now the only way is up. Huge hugs from me xx

Topsy, not surprised you're worn out. Wool is the least of your needs. Grin

G'ah for that lesion, Lily, but one's not so bad, as it sound like it's only just there, which means there's so much they can do and bone is the place to have it if you have. They're ever so good at keeping the pesky cells on bones these days.

Waving to MAS, Betsy, KitKat, Jane, Ned, Malt, Ruby, copt.. blimey so many people and I'm sure I've missed a few so apologies. Might try and sleep in a bit. I must look like a mad panda as have been like this since the op on Monday. Grin

jchocchip · 06/07/2013 06:28

Morning all! Did you sleep? Looks like it was quite on here overnight. I have to get up and make lots of buns as my contribution to a picnic...

notJenkins · 06/07/2013 06:36

Good misty morning from me.

I am in shock. My dh has shaved the dogs. I cannot take them out they look shocking. Will put some pictures on fb.

We did some sea swimming again last night. It seems to be my new obsession.

Sorry to hear you news lily but as the others have said the drugs are wonderful now and it looks like it has been found really early.

What are we all up to this weekend ? We have the usual taxi duties for dcs activities this morning but we are being wined and dined tonight at my in laws which will be nice. (I have lovely in laws). Tomorrow will be housework / jobs and dinner in the camper at the beach in the evening after the tourists have gone home with more sea swimming.

Throwing croissants on the trolley.

malteserzz · 06/07/2013 06:52

Lily sorry to hear that but good that they have caught it early and you seem to be getting great treatment
Have also been wondering about Emin and hope she's ok
Must wake dd up she's off to a theme park with her friends today so be back later

malteserzz · 06/07/2013 07:38

Right have waved her off with lots of warnings about staying hydrated in the sun !
NotJ saw the dogs they did look funny bless them !
Jchoc I slept well thank you and good luck with the buns
Smee did you get any sleep ?
Trice what's the jumper like does it have reindeer ?
Waves at everyone else

I'm back in bed too early for me on a saturday ! Lovely day for ladies day at the races, human league and the blow monkeys. Hope everyone has a good day x