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MaryAnnSingleton · 06/04/2012 14:39

yikes- here we go...

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SparkleRainbow · 18/04/2012 14:11

How exciting, the photos worked....you look so relaxed and doesn't junior smee look like his dad!

smee · 18/04/2012 14:17

He is v.like his dad - I couldn't get that hoodie top off him - he thinks it's cool, but I have endless pics of him where you can't see his face. Grin

MaryAnnSingleton · 18/04/2012 14:18

lovely pictures smee !! you look fab ! I know they are definitely going to Ground Zero and Empire State Building- ds loves the Chrysler too...

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MaryAnnSingleton · 18/04/2012 14:18

Grin @ junior smee

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KurriKurri · 18/04/2012 14:21

Afternoon all,

for sparkle, - my MIL was great one for passive aggressive remarks, and it's horrible. I think the MN solution to MIL's saying horrid things is to reply 'did you mean to be so unpleasant?' - might be worth a try Smile

Gig - your DC your choice as far as play group is concerned. In my own personal experience, I caught whooping cough as a child after I'd had half the immunization (in those days you had half as a baby and half when you were five I think) anyway I was very ill, and I missed starting school on time. So kids do pick things up before they've finished the course of vaccinations, - tough luck on the nanny if you don't want to risk it.

MAS your blog is very interesting, and brave. And I think you will find it very therapeutic to write everything down. Smile

Smee - I don't think teens care about saving the world so much, - they are to busy arguing with their parents and being stroppy doing other things Grin

Good luck with the work mountain, - eat plenty of FBS - Oh I see you already have Grin

I hope everything is going smoothly for gracie today.

Thank for kind remarks about my friends, - you'd think once you had been approved to adopt one child (which takes a hell of a lot of jumping through hoops) it would be easier the second time around - but no they've had to go through the whole process as if they were starting from scratch again. So it's great that they've finally got their new baby ( or will have her in July)

I have done zumba and yoga this morning. In zumba we danced to Beyonce's 'All the single ladies' and the teacher said 'I haven't finished working out the steps to this yet so just do your own Beyonce thing' - cue a room full of sweating middle aged women shaking their ample booties. Grin

And I managed to drive home - several sets of traffic lights, a couple of junctions and two roundabouts - couldn't quite manage to reverse into our driveway though Sad (although I did it the other day).

Waving to everyone Smile

Gigondas · 18/04/2012 14:29

Hi beyonce kurri . Grin on your response on that aibu Paris thread (seem to be open season here for the more odd posts at the minute).

Your driving sounds amazing! You are shaming me into getting back to it when over treatment.

Smile re mil response- mine is well known for being rude and deaf so not sure how response goes when have to repeat it 4 times.

smee · 18/04/2012 14:30

Missed the MIL problems. Mine is dead so never a problem. Bit of a drastic solution though. Shock I will sit on the box for you all in penance for flippancy

Kurri, I missed the adoption news too. That's brilliant. How v.exciting for them, though I'd bet they won't believe it until they have her in their arms. Well done on the driving. You'll have passed your test before you know it am sure. Smile

KurriKurri · 18/04/2012 14:37

Gig that Paris thread is just mad! - Some people are so strange Grin

Smee - my MIL is dead too, but in truth we never really got on, - she didn't like me because a) I married her son and she wanted to keep him forever b) I was English and c) I was full of uppity ideas about DH doing his share of the washing up, ironing etc. Grin

I'm sure I'll be very nervous doing my driving test - I'm not very good at practical exams, - much better at written ones.

SparkleRainbow · 18/04/2012 15:00

I am off to have a quick look at this paris thread....

Hmm how wicked am I for contemplating a solution to my MIL problem, which both smee and kurri already have solved Shock My MIL hates me because a) i married her son b) I am English c) her daughter and I get on quite well d) she doesn't think I am posh enough, well this one was true until she saw my mothers house, when she started talking to my mother in a much more civil manner. She has asked dh what he gets from our relationship, beacuse she didn't thunk I was clever enough, or well educated enough (hmm met dh when at Cambridge with him) She told my sisiter God only gives children to those who deserve them, when my sis was unsuccessful after years of IVF, she also wished my dad good health like her when he was dying of cancer.....I told you she is horrid. Have had 20 years of this, really should be better at dealing with it than this.

Kurri - super progress with your driving, you are going to be taking that test successfully and soon! Grin @ your zumba class!

SparkleRainbow · 18/04/2012 15:09

Ehhh what is that thread all about then! Better stop this procrastination and go and get the dc...right on cue the heavens have opened again....soggy dc at hometime I think!

MaryAnnSingleton · 18/04/2012 15:41

crikey sparkle she sounds like a charmer- mine is nice and seems to like me,phew ! (even if I have fancy southern ways)
Am off to look at Paris thread

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Gigondas · 18/04/2012 15:51

Sparkle she sounds a gem (which college btw - am also alumni but my mil also forgets this. That may well be genuine as her memory is shot - stroke or age).

mas didn't realise you were fancy and southernWink

MaryAnnSingleton · 18/04/2012 15:56

arf !! and bows to the academics in our midst Grin

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NedSchneebly · 18/04/2012 15:58

Got wet on school run - boo! Have had piece of millionaires shirtbread to recover. . . Have some spare if anyone fancies a bit?

Bigs hugs sparkle you definitely do not need her being a cow. My MIL is bonkers and rather selfish in a "not interested in anyone else" way, but not rude at least. She is however quite hard work and tries to tell me how to bring up DS, which is irritating. DH is fully aware of what she's like and is less tolerant of her than me! Would love to pop her in the MIL box, but she's away on holiday. Will therefore offer my ample arse to sit on others MILs.

Great pics smee you all look really chilled out in the sunshine!

kurri o you have a date for your driving test? Sorry if I missed that Blush

Does anyone know how soon after my last chemo the rads are likely to start? DH and I are trying to sort out what we might be able to do in the summer, but I don't know about the timescale. Am I likely to be in a fit state say, 2 weeks after rads end to go to scotland for a few days? My last chemo is on June 11th, all being well. DH is on hols from 6th August. Will they wait 3 weeks til after the chemo to start rads, or could I get going sooner, after 2 weeks, if I felt well enough? Any ideas?

NedSchneebly · 18/04/2012 16:09

What Paris thread??? I want to see too! Please can someone do me a lovely linky so I can see what the fuss is about? Thanks! X x

KurriKurri · 18/04/2012 16:15

Ned - I've got a theory test date (15th May -PANIC!), - I can't book the practical test until I pass the theory apparently. And they said you generally have to wait about 9 weeks for a slot. So will be a while - but I need plenty of time to prepare!

My rads started a month after my last chemo IIRC. But that was just me - it maybe varies in different hospitals.

All being well you should be fine to go on holiday two weeks after rads, - problems you might have are soreness (skin breaking down on the treatment sight) which can range from no problem to mild to quite nasty - there's no way of telling how or if you'll be affected unfortunately. Also tiredness - but IME the tiredness set in about six weeks after I'd finished.

Smee - lovely photos - you look very cool and sophisticated, I love your new hairstyle. Why aren't you grey and wrinkled like me Envy?

Sparkle - My MIL had to go into hospital when I married Dh because she was so upset - there was F* all wrong with her. DH's Dad wrote to him asking him to leave me because he'd upset his Mum so much. Mad as badgers the pair of them.

I think the only positive from these awful MIL's is hopefully it teaches us not to be awful MILs ourselves because we know what it's like for DILs. Grin

SparkleRainbow · 18/04/2012 16:58

Wrote a long response and promptly lost it!!!!

Thank you for your moral support and MIL box sitting...it is much appreciated and I am feeling less upset already!

Kurri - you will sail through the 15th May theory test I am sure. (Shock she really had to go to hospital.....!!!!! mad as a box of frogs is another analogy that would work)

Gig I went to Homerton and Trinity and DH went to Emma. Where did you go?

SparkleRainbow · 18/04/2012 17:00

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1452417-For-being-annoyed-with-SIL?pg=3 not a smart linky thing...but it might work...

NedSchneebly · 18/04/2012 17:14

Thanks sparkle you're a legend. Very funny reading! Smile

KurriKurri · 18/04/2012 17:50

Sparkle my cousin was at Trinity - early eighties IIRC, he was reading maths and philosophy.

smee · 18/04/2012 18:57

Blimey that thread's beyond silly. Surely people aren't that petty..

Where's Topsy? Not like her not to be on here.

Ned, I got soaked too. I started rads about 3 weeks after chemo, but they gauge it dependent on how you're feeling I think. The only problem you might have (apart from exhaustion!) is with your skin, but even if it does break down I'd say by 2 weeks past you'll have it under control.

Grr for MIL, Sparkle. Making me feel v.lucky. I did know mine, but she died when I was pregnant. She was lovely, but I'm not sure we'd ever have been great friends. She was quite glamorous and refined, which I am most definitely not, so I always felt a bit inadequate whenever we met.

Kurri, the theory test's an unknown to me as I never did one, but I think it's multi choice, so that'll help. I have never been called sophisticated. Grin

  • MAS is most definitely fancy. She's the Queen of the Thread, so sets the tone which is notoriously low Grin

No news from Gracie. Hope she's okay.

jchocchip · 18/04/2012 20:09

Hi everyone. Long day at work and phone calls to hosp and big brother mean I haven't started tea yet :( Mum likely to be discharged tomorrow, nurse said they were trying to sort out her pain meds. Personally I think she coped better with the pain before she knew she had a broken hip...

Talking about driving, managed to reverse dh's car into a lamp post yesterday, oops.

lol at the Paris thread.

Very wet day here. 'spose it is April, though :)

Gigondas · 18/04/2012 20:31

Nice photos smee. I might put some of mini gig up if work out profiles.

my rads still not confirmed. Probably next weds but tbc. That cuts it very fine on our holiday (4 days later...was meant to be 3weeks).

I was at Pembroke sparkles

Tesco had no mini twirls !!!

Kurri theory test was fine- there are apps you can get to help.

Gracie hope you are ok my love.

Gigondas · 18/04/2012 20:32

j your poor mum - pain is bad but drugs that don't work or agree with you compound it

topsyturner · 18/04/2012 22:08

I was educated at the University of Google
Grin