I do think you sounded pretty judgemental, amelia. I am the last person in the world to be sensitive about how much I eat/drink or how much I weigh and what you said sounded pretty harsh to me. Maybe just try to put things in a more friendly way next time? Few people react well to nagging.
Today:
Breakfast: slice of toast with butter, jam and peanut butter, a banana, a satsuma
Snacks: four tiny fairy cakes, raspberry and yoghurt cereal bar, apple, two strawberries, packet of salt and shake crisps
Lunch: leftover chicken cooked with tomato and fennel and garlic and some rice with butter and lemon juice, leeks, bread and butter
Snacks: a piece of fudge, two satsumas, half a biscuit DD cooked at school
Dinner: chicken and mushroom pie, peas, gravy, chips, Greek yoghurt with jam, gin and tonic (one, large), glass of wine (still being consumed, thinking about another).