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MaryAnnSingleton · 02/12/2011 12:28

blimey- we're almost up to our limit...so brand new shiny,sparkling thread.

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amberlight · 08/12/2011 09:51

I've not done any time inside, but goodness me I've a good understanding of dangerous depression and anxiety and OCD and etc, and most of my friends have had similar bouts of such things in life too.

Think I'll put a Brew on for everyone.

topsytinselturner · 08/12/2011 10:17

On the bus on the way home after rads .
Rain has stopped (thank goodness as I left my brolly in DHs car this morning) but we are currently experiencing gale force winds .
They must be strong as they managed to blow me down the street Grin

DS has a day off school today , some kind of inset day I think . So he and I are going to snuggle up on the sofa and relax for the rest of the day .

Have decided that these rads appointments are a good thing as it makes me walk for at least 30 minutes every day (to and from bus stops) which means I can eat fbs !
Genius Grin

Love to all today and good luck to kk for her confinement !

MaryAnnSingleton · 08/12/2011 11:09

hope you are getting on ok kk !
Walking is good topsy but not being blown over..have a nice,cosy snuggle with ds.
Brew would be lovely amber
I was thinking that I lost a whole chunk of my mid twenties to OCD which is very sad. I don't regret the time inside as I certainly learned and experienced a lot, but it wiped out a time when things were going very well for me. Righto- enough of this dwelling in the past !

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cakesandale · 08/12/2011 11:16

MAS - thanks so much for getting on with the disc for DH - he is now banned from going to New York so as soon as it arrives we will put it on and get cracking. No sleep at all last night, he is hyperventilating and having anxiety attacks and at the emergency doctors appointment this morning the GP has put him on Lorazepam, and banned him from driving or flying. Client not pleased but understanding, which is more than we had hoped for so I am pleased we are moving forwards. If these pills get him some sleep, and he slows down a bit, we are in with a chance I think.

I read of the various mental health issues on here with awe - thank you for sharing them, and all power to you all (and DHs) for getting things manageable. Brave, brave lot.

Summat and ONeinEight - well bloody done for getting this far. The pain and tiredness are to be expected, as is the hunching - my surgeon told me this is very common and you need to stretch your chest out and raise your arm every day for months or years to counteract it. Especially after the radio when apparently, the muscle fibres in the chest contract a bit and make you start to hunch more.

RightTit - best possible news in the circumstances. Get into the Xmas spirit and enjoy yourself.

Amber, very Envy of your XFactor tickets. Enjoy!!

Jane - hope you get sorted and home.

KK - thinking of you for this afternoon. x

I have missed people, I know - sorry, it's all a bit rushed here today. I have read everything and am rooting for every one of you.

MaryAnnSingleton · 08/12/2011 11:17

will try to get to post office after taking the boy for his hair cut this afternoon !

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cakesandale · 08/12/2011 11:53

Thank you x

SparkleRainbow · 08/12/2011 12:54

I will pop back later and get the kettle on. Just read through for now. Love to all. x

smee · 08/12/2011 13:14

Phew, so much on here.

Summat, GA always knocks me for six. I think it's worse than the scar/ pain iyswim. I reckon two weeks before I feel normal after one.

OneinEight, you're sounding good in the circumstances. Jammy doughnuts should be on the NHS Grin

Righttit, that's good bad news then! Bad it's bloody cancer but you're very definitely in the treatable bracket. Excellent. Smile

Jane and MAS, I am in awe at how you've got through your mental health issues. Interesting to hear your thoughts on it all too. You are both incredible to manage to move through it all and to keep a lid on things.

Cakes, blimey poor DH. That must have been scary for you both. Does he feel a teeny bit relieved? really hope so. Treats all weekend I reckon for all of you. Smile

Amber and Topsy, yeay for another rads done. I quite liked the rhythm of it every day too, Topsy. I used to cycle on the free Boris bikes from the hospital for a few miles every day. Went v.slowly, but it meant I could get a fbs and a huge latte when I'd dropped the bike off. Grin

Amber, I'm v. Envy of your XFactor tickets too.

Got to run. Sorry if I've missed people, but I've so much work to do. Got to take DS swimming later too. Am so not looking forward to getting all wet and soggy..

MaryAnnSingleton · 08/12/2011 14:33

lots of my friends don't know about my hospital episode (obviously my closest do,but not the new friends) or indeed the OCD -they know I get anxious -it seems easier not to have to go into it all. Am glad I said it on here though,it feels ok to be very honest here.

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smee · 08/12/2011 14:44

Definitely okay to be honest here. I think you're amazing the way you've come through everything. I know you still have to manage things, but still. This thread is ace and it's mostly down to you! Smile

topsytinselturner · 08/12/2011 15:15

That's what I love about this thread .
If you can't be honest here , then where ?
You have all pushed through many hard things , and are still standing .
Bloody good for you !

MaryAnnSingleton · 08/12/2011 15:20

aw,stop it ! I so love this thread and would be lost without you all.
Ds has come in grumbling about having to go out again - he;ll be cross too that I want to walk rather than go by car...

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KurriKurri · 08/12/2011 16:19

Hello all - its sad to hear that people have struggled with mental health problems - they are so hard to cope with, jane and MAS - your hospital episodes must have been very difficult - but you've both done so brilliantly in dealing with our problems. - I think I've mentioned before that my DS has mental health problems and I am on AD's - it is such a common thing, but often so misunderstood.

RightTit - hooray for clear margins and lymph nodes - definitely worthy of champagne , and OneInEight - keep taking it easy, jammy doughnuts are essential to your recovery - well done your mum!

Cakes - poor DH, how scary for him, I'm glad the NY trip is off and he can concentrate on getting well. I've lorazepam and find it works quite well, and helps you get off to sleep and feel calmer without making you feel too groggy the next day.

Amber and topsy - well done on getting todays rads out of the way - another one ticked off the list Smile

Don't work too hard Smee

Well I've had my radio active iodine. First thing that spooked me was that I had to go to the place where I had my bone scans - which felt weird. Then I had the injection of dye, waited twenty mins. and had a thyroid scan - they put the scanner thing really low over your face for about five minutes - so a bit claustrophobic - I did my deep breathing! Grin

Then Dr Chernobyl gave me my stuff - it comes in a little bottle which is inside a big thick lead container, which he holds because its so heavy Grin and I had it drink it through a straw.

Apparently my thyroid is very overactive on the right side, but less so on the left, and the most over active part tends to hog the medication, so he said I might have trouble with the right side in future as it won't be able to take up much Rad.Iodine.

The best thing was that I set off the radioactivity alarm as I walked out of the room Grin Grin which DH thought hilarious.

I have ginger nuts, mint imperials and a double decker. Diet starts tomorrow!

Love to all - sorry for length of post.

MaryAnnSingleton · 08/12/2011 17:44

kk what did it taste of ? well done for getting that bit done Xmas Grin

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KurriKurri · 08/12/2011 17:52

It was tasteless MAS, and only about a mouthful of liquid, then he put a bit of water in and got me to drink that to make sure I had the full dose.

Fortunately he's given me a card with the dates I can do thing like 'go on public transport' and 'share a bed' written in, because I wasn't allowed to eat since breakfast, and I was so hungry I couldn't concentrate on what he was saying.

topsytinselturner · 08/12/2011 18:09

Have you had your bell fitted and the red cross outside your bedroom door ? Grin
Hope you have a tv , a laptop , and plenty of reading material aswell as the fbs .
Maybe you should try a little on line shoe shopping ... ?

KurriKurri · 08/12/2011 18:16

Yes I have bell, red cross, sign saying 'unclean', laptop, books and FBS - no TV though, - although Dr C did say I can go through and watch for half an hour at a time as long as I sit well away from the others. (Not allowed to be with people for longer than that). I'll watch iplayer though.

Hmmm shoe shopping, now there's an idea, no one would know if I went shoe crazy, and if they found out I'd say 'the medicine made me do it' Grin

jchocchip · 08/12/2011 18:21

hurray for 1in8's mum doing the school run and the jammy donuts Xmas Smile and another day of rads done for Topsy and Amber and kk starting her radioactive confinement with plenty of fbs.

Oh dear Mrcakes. Hope he has a better nights sleep tonight. Maybe a warm bath and a milky drink and lots of reassurance.

Hope smee enjoys swim in spite of wet and soggy!

I'm on the train now just reaching Sheffield. Nice to sit down and relax for a bit as I didn't stop all day at Mum's. Apart from a quick bus ride to hit M&S for a jumper for my big bro. (total time out of house 1 hour)

smee · 08/12/2011 18:37

Kurri, switch off the light and see if you glow. Grin Must have been quite a moment, going back to where you had bone scan. Double Decker sounds good though. Haven't had one of those for years..

I skulked in the shallow end, moaning about the cold swam. DS has declared me boring, though his friend M thinks my handstands are 'awesome'. Grin Scarily windy out there. We were cycling and nearly got blown off. Hoping you're all safely home. Smile

jchocchip · 08/12/2011 18:47

Quite a lot of people at work know that I am bipolar. I was quite a bit more fragile when I started at work (as a temp) and on one memorable occasion during a panel interview for an admin job I broke down in tears when a manager told me I was over-qualified. However, I to my amazement was offered the job and I got a promotion within the year. My new gorgeous senior was in on that interview and I have had a number of chats with him about it. My cuddly but gay manager just thinks it makes me more interesting Xmas Smile

jchocchip · 08/12/2011 18:52

Wet and windy Wakefield Westgate, warm within (what's a word for train carriage that begins with w?)
wagon...

KurriKurri · 08/12/2011 18:52

I'm not glowing yet sadly, but I am doing blue wees from the dye injection - so that's good Grin

Do you do handstands in the pool? - that is impressive (actually handstands on dry land is impressive too)

I went to yoga this morning and two new people have started, - a middle aged married couple. Very pleasant people, except that the man keeps farting (seriously about six times in a hour), - every time he moves into a new pose. Now farting is a common hazard during yoga, but this guy keeps saying 'OH SORRY!' really loudly every time he does it.
Which made it very hard for me some people in the class not to giggle.

jchocchip · 08/12/2011 19:15

:) at smees awesome handstands and kks farty yoga. I'm going to dig some chocolates out of my bag - anyone like one?

MaryAnnSingleton · 08/12/2011 19:31

Grin @ yoga man !! Very impressed by underwater handstands smee
Blue wee kk -exciting !
Took ds for hair cut then persuaded him into the lovely Italian cafe which has fab foodie things -we chose an Alessi parmesan grater for his dad's present from him-he also bought some Montezuma giant choc buttons as a treat for us all and a croissant.
cakes - it's in the post !!!

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jchocchip · 08/12/2011 20:07

Walked home from the station across the park. The moon is so bright, there are dark shadows from the trees. Dh came to meet the train, I'm not usually brave enough to walk that way in the dark :)

Good to be home, dd2 doing tea.