fantasy I know people who have taken study leave at this point and just gone back for the exams - would that be a possibility once she has finished her coursework?
We have had a very quiet evening, dh spent lunch talking to a bereaved colleague, and couldn't get back to open presents and cards till late, ds was a bit low about lack of "birthday bash" (I'm leaving this issue till July to deal with) and was I think expecting some fancy clothes (I cannot buy clothes for an 18 year old and get size or taste right - so I promised him I would buy him something he liked, when he located what he liked (ie he has to do the choosing)
Ds2 has kindly offered to take ds1 to a football match tomorrow. Otherwise his present was a Magnum (ice lolly), I gave him three enamel pie dishes - I don't think he appreciated them much although he loves pie.
Cats good oh that word speaks volumes, a sort of steady honest sort of I don't brag but I am quietly confident and I really don't want to discuss it further, because possibly then I might panic...