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The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.

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AsWithGlad · 20/08/2026 15:44

Welcome to The Bluestocking, the best (perhaps only) online women's pub. Nothing in the food or drink can harm you, everything is served by a very enthusiastic crew of gerbils, who enjoy doing this, and any curious menfolk are welcome at the Staunch Ally down the road.

Previous thread: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5564959-the-bluestocking-womens-pub-in-which-we-wait-excitedly-for-the-next-instalment-of-goseis-adventures

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WearyAuldWumman · 26/08/2026 22:57

NotAtMyAge · 26/08/2026 22:37

Oh, that's a lovely story, Weary.

Many years later, we met DH's biological siblings. (His birth mother was a teenager when she had DH.)

DH was the only musical child in the family. Apparently, his birth mother was very musical and taught herself to play the organ at her local church.
We don't know the full story, but she ceased to be a member of the church when her pregnancy became known.

DH's siblings used to say that only he had inherited the musical gene: he was a decent folk singer as well.

MyrtleLion · 26/08/2026 22:59

EdithStourton · 26/08/2026 21:39

I'll stick to a Schrödinger's Cat, please, bargerbil, but no fur, thank you.

Happy times seeing Rocky Horror as a student. Brilliant film.

I used to run around the local cinema in my underwear as Janet...

MyrtleLion · 26/08/2026 23:02

Does anyone know of any election software that allows for nominations before the actual election. I have tried ElectionBuddy, which is quite good, but it makes it look like the nominations bit is the actual election.

I will probably have to write an email to everyone saying, there will be two "elections" - one inviting you to write in the name of anyone you want to nominate. Then in five days time there will be an election for the position when we know who the candidates are.

ChristmasStars · 27/08/2026 07:33

MyrtleLion · 26/08/2026 23:02

Does anyone know of any election software that allows for nominations before the actual election. I have tried ElectionBuddy, which is quite good, but it makes it look like the nominations bit is the actual election.

I will probably have to write an email to everyone saying, there will be two "elections" - one inviting you to write in the name of anyone you want to nominate. Then in five days time there will be an election for the position when we know who the candidates are.

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Wish I could suggest something helpful. Hope you find something.

AngleofRepose · 27/08/2026 07:54

Bore da, everyone, from the Big Smoke! I do believe it actually, finally rained last night, although how heavily, I have no clue since I haven't been outside yet. The ground looks wet, anyway. Having a better time than I expected this week, but am looking forward to getting home tomorrow as well, early, well before all the Bank Holiday crowd. But, I will miss the food! So many great restaurants!

I've managed to keep up with the gerbils' escapades, and note that they are getting seriously into the espionage now. I do hope they are staying safe, and that That Fenella is not a violent sort!

HAGADAPA! (and hope that, if you've needed rain, you've finally had it)

ps. in case you care and have been following, The Shoes are Officially Missing and I have been refunded. So if you see anyone walking around in size 4.5 black, Ecco Maryjanes with a 2-inch heel, suitable for a funeral, knock her down, take back the shoes, and PM me where and when I can come collect. Thanks. (after 3 weeks missing, ECCO are now out of stock of my size. Naturally. I still maintain these shoes never existed).

EmpressaurusKitty · 27/08/2026 08:24

Bore da, everyone, from the Big Smoke! I do believe it actually, finally rained last night, although how heavily, I have no clue since I haven't been outside yet.

I don’t know about last night but it’s been raining in this bit of London for the past couple of hours!

Magpiecomplex · 27/08/2026 08:52

We've got rain too! And just had a brief power cut.

Magpiecomplex · 27/08/2026 08:59

MyrtleLion · 26/08/2026 23:02

Does anyone know of any election software that allows for nominations before the actual election. I have tried ElectionBuddy, which is quite good, but it makes it look like the nominations bit is the actual election.

I will probably have to write an email to everyone saying, there will be two "elections" - one inviting you to write in the name of anyone you want to nominate. Then in five days time there will be an election for the position when we know who the candidates are.

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Could you use Microsoft Forms or whatever the Google equivalent is for the nominations?

MarieDeGournay · 27/08/2026 09:20

Bore da, maidin maith and good morning all.
First of all, sorry Myrtle but nothing useful to say about the election software you need - I rarely have anything practical to offer but there are so many wise and knowledgeable women here to take up the slack, I hope somebody has some ideasSmile
Glad to hear rain is reaching everybody, eventually, it's been cool and there's been proper rain here for the past week,and every day the grass in the back garden is getting a little bit greener... starting with the weeds😠but hey they're green.

The great unplanned-but-necessitated-by-things-breaking-down-around-the-same-time makeover continues chez de Gournay. One appliance installed this morning, two more to be scheduled. Choreographed, really, that's what's so tiring, having to work out that B needs to be done before there's space for A etc etc.

But these are good problems that I'm lucky to have: a house to put appliances into, enough money to buy them, other people to come and install them ..

Boiledbeetle · 27/08/2026 09:23

Calling all pirates...

CROCS FOR PIRATES HAVE ARRIVED

https://www.crocs.co.uk/p/one-piece-thousand-sunny-classic-clog/212126.html?cgid=new-arrivals&cid=90H

The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.
The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.
AnonyMumAuDHD · 27/08/2026 09:26

Magpiecomplex · 27/08/2026 08:59

Could you use Microsoft Forms or whatever the Google equivalent is for the nominations?

Was thinking that survey monkey for the nomination part might work and then back to election buddy for the vote?

Magpiecomplex · 27/08/2026 09:43

Boiledbeetle · 27/08/2026 09:23

Have you already ordered a pair?

Boiledbeetle · 27/08/2026 09:51

Magpiecomplex · 27/08/2026 09:43

Have you already ordered a pair?

I've banned myself from buying new Crocs so I plan to live vicariously through whichever one of you lot are prepared to buy them!

AngleofRepose · 27/08/2026 09:57

Boiledbeetle · 27/08/2026 09:51

I've banned myself from buying new Crocs so I plan to live vicariously through whichever one of you lot are prepared to buy them!

Just don't order them from ECCO! (kidding... bitter, moi?)

AngleofRepose · 27/08/2026 10:03

EmpressaurusKitty · 27/08/2026 08:24

Bore da, everyone, from the Big Smoke! I do believe it actually, finally rained last night, although how heavily, I have no clue since I haven't been outside yet.

I don’t know about last night but it’s been raining in this bit of London for the past couple of hours!

I'm staying Shoreditch in a hotel, so couldn't see any rain earlier, but then it poured for about an hour, now clearing from the east.

Think we're off to the British Museum today to see the Egyptian stuff (and avoid the Bayeaux Tapestry crowds if we can)... Not MY idea of a good time in London in August, but must entertain the American visitors.

Wish me luck. Once more unto the breach. If you never hear from me again, that will be why! 🙄

(I am an old grump, yes)

EmpressaurusKitty · 27/08/2026 10:25

You don’t want the British Museum, @AngleofRepose, you want Sir John Soane’s House in Lincoln’s Inn Fields. It’s got an Egyptian sarcophagus & it’s FAR more fun.

www.soane.org/sarcophagus-seti-i

PastaAllaNorma · 27/08/2026 10:34

Boiledbeetle · 27/08/2026 09:23

Christ, those will be on DS2's Christmas list, no doubt. He's got shelves and shelves of One Piece, watched the animated and live action series, has the Lego model

PastaAllaNorma · 27/08/2026 10:43

Oh Angle, the British Museum is wonderful. I go roughly every other time in London. Lewes chessmen, Rosetta stone, Mold gold cape (found 2 miles from where my Dad grew up), human sacrifice knives from central and South America, a Inuit raincoat made of walrus intestine, Sutton Hoo, the mighty Assyrian gates... I'm sure it will be as magical for you once you've had a nice restorative drink from the gerbils.

(I know we nicked most of it, but by god it's amazing every time.)

Kitty, I agree with Soames as well.

EdithStourton · 27/08/2026 10:51

A very little rain overnight (sheltered corners slightly damp), and then a slow and beautiful drizzle that started just before 9 and still continues.

Sutton Hoo
To hark back to cathedrals, St Edmund of Bury St Edmund's fame was the last of the royal line of the Wuffingas ('descendants of the wolf') who were buried at Sutton Hoo. It's not known if he was killed in battle against the Vikings at Hoxne, or captured there and martyred when he refused to renounce Christianity.

ChristmasStars · 27/08/2026 10:52

It's raining so much here that twice already this morning I've sat in the car on the drive waiting for the massive downpour to stop so I can get out and back into my house.

Only yesterday or the day before Bristol finally had to call a drought/hosepipe ban. I hope they're getting a big downpour too.

PastaAllaNorma · 27/08/2026 10:56

We're driving to MrPastaSnr 's house so DH can do DIY at his mum's and I can do more boxing of Feckless Pair's shite. Apparently they will be arriving with a van to collect 'some' of it on Sunday.

Dad claims he's going to tell them they have a month or it's going to the tip. This will not in fact happen.

DauntlessDamson · 27/08/2026 10:57

I love the British Museum too Pasta. I used to attend work meetings not far from there and always tried to have a quick look before catching my train home. My favourite exhibit was Lindow Man - also known as Pete Marsh, as he was found in a bog at Lindow Common, near to where I lived at the time 😁

EdithStourton · 27/08/2026 11:23

I know I talk a lot about buzzards, as we have quite a few in the vicinity. They also tend to make themselves obvious by loitering with intent on the top of telegraph poles and playing around elegantly on thermal currents. But we also have red kites - not as many, possibly only one pair. They apparently drove out some buzzards to claim their nest site somewhere round behind the church, which was where I took B&B yesterday afternoon.

I saw a sizeable raptor flying fairly low across a field. It didn't look quite like a buzzard, but the angle wasn't good enough for me to sure it was a kite: I know from experience that the angle of view can be very deceptive. It then flew into a small poplar copse with the agility of a buzzard - for big birds, buzzards are incredibly deft and quick through timber. There was another one already in residence and they started calling before both taking off and circling round - but still too low for a proper look, plus they were slightly downhill, where the Ladybird landscape slopes away to the level land at the bottom.

The calls didn't sound like buzzards ('Kee-ararar!), and were more of a 'Wee-eee-eee-er! Kee-weee-ee-eer!' They kept it up, on and off, for twenty-plus minutes, until I was more than halfway round the circuit and flogging back up to the hill towards the church.

So, wrong call and wrong flight pattern for buzzards, and in what I think of red kite turf... Probably red kites. I have consulted Dr. Google. Red Kites.

Other than, spud lifting continues. From my window I can see a tractor with potato crates on its trailer, so it's either carting them off, or heading back to the enormous machine that's doing the really hard work of lifting them. They were at it before 7.15 this morning, when I went to get the bins in. The arable farmers are putting their feet up a bit at the moment (mowing verges, ditching, perhaps starting to cultivate the stubble) but the ones who have any root crop are still hard at it: spuds and onions, and then sugar beet, which will drag on for months.

Chickadeeinme · 27/08/2026 11:55

Morning all (afternoon to you lot). No rain here, and now my DD and family have gone home it feels weirdly quiet. Lots of sheets to wash and tidying up to do.

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