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The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.

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AsWithGlad · 20/08/2026 15:44

Welcome to The Bluestocking, the best (perhaps only) online women's pub. Nothing in the food or drink can harm you, everything is served by a very enthusiastic crew of gerbils, who enjoy doing this, and any curious menfolk are welcome at the Staunch Ally down the road.

Previous thread: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5564959-the-bluestocking-womens-pub-in-which-we-wait-excitedly-for-the-next-instalment-of-goseis-adventures

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Chickadeeinme · 25/08/2026 22:00

AsWithGlad · 25/08/2026 21:52

Is -7 an advance?

You’re 3 years younger than me :-)

NotAtMyAge · 25/08/2026 22:10

AsWithGlad · 25/08/2026 21:16

It’s also always linked near the end of the previous thread in my experience, usually more than once, as it was in the last thread.

That’s how I find it, but I have learned not everyone does it that way. 😢

(runs away fast so Boily can’t find me)

When it's linked in advance like that I always click Watch Thread which keeps me in touch, regardless of where the thread happens to be posted. I just click on Notifications and there you all are.

AsWithGlad · 25/08/2026 22:11

@AnonyMumAuDHD , do you live anywhere near Kings Cross? There’s virtually no difference in train travel times between KX and Cambridge, and King’s Lynn and Cambridge, with more choice of routes from London if there’s disruption on the line.

If you’re driving for either journey there’s lots of parking at Jesus College, I think.

I want to make a clever remark about Fellows of Jesus and Nuns of St Mary and St Radegund (whose priory was on the land first) but it’s beyond me at the moment.

It has been traditionally believed that the nunnery was turned into a college because the nunnery had gained a reputation for licentiousness
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/St_Radegund%27s_Priory,_Cambridge

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Boiledbeetle · 25/08/2026 22:19

I recieved a belated birthday present yesterday.

May I introduce you to Trevor and Michael.

They have legs and a tail!

The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.
The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.
AnonyMumAuDHD · 25/08/2026 22:22

AsWithGlad · 25/08/2026 22:11

@AnonyMumAuDHD , do you live anywhere near Kings Cross? There’s virtually no difference in train travel times between KX and Cambridge, and King’s Lynn and Cambridge, with more choice of routes from London if there’s disruption on the line.

If you’re driving for either journey there’s lots of parking at Jesus College, I think.

I want to make a clever remark about Fellows of Jesus and Nuns of St Mary and St Radegund (whose priory was on the land first) but it’s beyond me at the moment.

It has been traditionally believed that the nunnery was turned into a college because the nunnery had gained a reputation for licentiousness
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/St_Radegund%27s_Priory,_Cambridge

Flat is in Southwark (so jubilee line to KX) If I could hybrid work, I’d manage it, easily, I think. Apparently it’s only 49 mins if you get a fast train! Totally doable.

Ooh, that’s exciting!

NotAtMyAge · 25/08/2026 22:23

Thanks for the Wiki link, Glad. The triple Early English lancets at the east end of the chapel show just how old it is. I really had no idea there were such old buildings still in use in a college.

EdithStourton · 25/08/2026 22:28

Chickadeeinme · 25/08/2026 21:14

@EdithStourtonyou might enjoy the book “Mozart’s Starling” - I did! They can actually sing, and copy tunes they hear.

Thank you - that's one to look out for.

AsWithGlad · 25/08/2026 22:40

AnonyMumAuDHD · 25/08/2026 22:22

Flat is in Southwark (so jubilee line to KX) If I could hybrid work, I’d manage it, easily, I think. Apparently it’s only 49 mins if you get a fast train! Totally doable.

Ooh, that’s exciting!

Plenty of people live around Cambridge and commute to London, you’d just be doing the journey in reverse.

Totally doable. 😀

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AsWithGlad · 25/08/2026 22:58

NotAtMyAge · 25/08/2026 22:23

Thanks for the Wiki link, Glad. The triple Early English lancets at the east end of the chapel show just how old it is. I really had no idea there were such old buildings still in use in a college.

I didn’t realise that, either.

If you scroll down to Chapel here it tells you a bit more about it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jesus_College,_Cambridge
(I’ve sung Evensong in there, too)

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ChristmasStars · 25/08/2026 23:14

AsWithGlad · 25/08/2026 17:32

Intriguing as always, @MyrtleLion . Many things to enjoy or ponder on, but I particularly like

*Obviously,” said Swashbuckled, “I sent Gangplank ahead for a reason.” She picked up her tea. “There are two types of people in this world. Those who can extrapolate from incomplete information.”

She stopped there.

The room waited for the second half which did not come.*

Yes! This made me smile.

ChristmasStars · 25/08/2026 23:38

MyrtleLion · 25/08/2026 18:23

We have created a system that is hard to remember and easy to crack, and we need one that is easy to remember and hard to crack. Here is my methodology

  1. select a phrase you know and love from maybe a song or a poem, for example, knowing you aha from Dancing Queen by Abba.
  2. put it together without spaces, knowingyouaha
  3. Add a capital letter, Knowingyouaha
  4. Add a number, Know1ngyouaha
  5. Add a symbol, Know1ngyou@ha
  6. You now have a "root password"
  7. For every website or app you use, add the first and last letter of the website to the password as the first and last letters
  8. Gmail - GKnow1ngyou@hal
  9. Facebook - FKnow1ngyou@hak
  10. BBC - BKnow1ngyou@hac
  11. Easy to remember, hard to crack because it's long and has a capital, a number and a symbol
  12. Now go and create your own.
  13. No, I'm not telling you my phrase, or the song it's from
  14. No, it's not the example above.
  15. I don't recommend using this example in case a hacker is reading.
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Blimey that's clever!

MyrtleLion · 25/08/2026 23:58

ChristmasStars · 25/08/2026 23:38

Blimey that's clever!

Aside from the fact that Knowing you, aha is from Knowing Me, Knowing You, and not Dancing Queen.

😂

ChristmasStars · 26/08/2026 00:18

MyrtleLion · 25/08/2026 23:58

Aside from the fact that Knowing you, aha is from Knowing Me, Knowing You, and not Dancing Queen.

😂

🤣🤣

AsWithGlad · 26/08/2026 00:26

@AnonyMumAuDHD I imagine you have seen this, but just in case not:

https://www.careers.cam.ac.uk/junior-research-fellowships-jrfs

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EdithStourton · 26/08/2026 07:05

NotAtMyAge · 25/08/2026 22:23

Thanks for the Wiki link, Glad. The triple Early English lancets at the east end of the chapel show just how old it is. I really had no idea there were such old buildings still in use in a college.

School of Pythagoras, c1200.
Out at the back of St John's.

EdithStourton · 26/08/2026 07:08

I was out last night when someone happened to glance at his phone and said, 'Oh no, Dolly Parton has died!'

There was a lot of 'Oh no!' and 'That's so sad!' and 'But she looked so young!' One of those present said he'd met her a couple of times and that she was lovely, warm and friendly and genuine.

What a woman she was, and what a voice she had.

AnonyMumAuDHD · 26/08/2026 09:44

EdithStourton · 26/08/2026 07:08

I was out last night when someone happened to glance at his phone and said, 'Oh no, Dolly Parton has died!'

There was a lot of 'Oh no!' and 'That's so sad!' and 'But she looked so young!' One of those present said he'd met her a couple of times and that she was lovely, warm and friendly and genuine.

What a woman she was, and what a voice she had.

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Apparently one of the chat show hosts on US Tv last night described her as the ‘last and possibly only American that everyone liked’. She was an incredible person in terms of her achievements, but what made her special was the fact that she remained a genuinely lovely, warm and likeable person. That would be the epitaph that I would want.

Chickadeeinme · 26/08/2026 12:53

Why is there no gerbil nightie?

MarieDeGournay · 26/08/2026 13:38

Found it!! I knew somebody had posted somewhere that they were taking up the accordion again, but I couldn't remember who, and where the post was, and then there was interference from a concertina..
It was WaW.Smile
That's brilliant Weary, I hope you enjoy the classes and get back to playing well enough to enjoy it.
Is it button or piano?

And finding the post shows me that the concertina was played by Not's sister. It's such a valiant little instrument, it's hardly there at all and instead of keys or buttons it has these little pins, but what a sound it produces!
In Irish music, it was always known as a 'lady's' instrument, but Mrs Crotty [née Lizzie Markham in 1895 - not a name you'd expect an Irish traditional musician to have, but we're a mixed lot here on this island!] took that as a challenge not a putdown!

Mo cheol thú, Weary!

Magpiecomplex · 26/08/2026 14:52

ChristmasStars · 26/08/2026 12:19

We appear to be trendsetters!

ChristmasStars · 26/08/2026 15:01

Magpiecomplex · 26/08/2026 14:52

We appear to be trendsetters!

Naturally!

AnonyMumAuDHD · 26/08/2026 15:08

ChristmasStars · 26/08/2026 12:19

Think there is a distinct lack of a sense of humour there.

I actually have a Christmas reindeer onesie that I wear in December for no reason other than it is quite cosy, confuses the hell out of the dogs and causes my kids to piss themselves laughing. I like stylish clothes more than most, and shoes and boots especially ( @MyrtleLion I treated myself to some knee highs the other day after our posts to wear with some above the knee boho dresses I snagged in a menopausal/ADHD spree in the sales… plus DH said he loved them and I was in no way to old for them[don’t care if he was lying])… but I also like daft sleep and loungewear (lots of harry potter pjs and marvel avenger tees knocking around). So does my DH - he has millions of cricket ad star wars ‘best dad’ tees.

If you can’t have a bit of bloody fun with your clothes from time to time, you need a sense of humour transplant. That Colin the Capybara top looks so much fun!!

AsWithGlad · 26/08/2026 15:13

EdithStourton · 26/08/2026 07:05

School of Pythagoras, c1200.
Out at the back of St John's.

I considered that, but Wikipedia says “For a period it was a ruin” which made me wonder if it counted.

The Leper Chapel (1125) is often described as being the oldest surviving building in Cambridge although most of it was rebuilt in the 13th century, so perhaps it does.

This takes me back to a post I made last week in our previous location, where a young man working in M&S in Cambridge described their building to me as very old because it had been built 80 years ago. We were discussing the lift at the time, so I think he meant that the lift was also 80 years old.

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AnonyMumAuDHD · 26/08/2026 15:17

@WearyAuldWumman @MarieDeGournay the concertina is one of those instruments that looks easy, because musicians kind of just lounge there moving their hands and fingers rhythmically with no more thought that if they were waving, but is seriously bloody hard and requires real coordination? I play woodwind and, if I’m honest, I do think it’s because it’s easy to master than the piano or stringed instruments. Posture and technique is so crucial before you can even focus on the flipping music.

I tried the violin as a child and after 2 years, the scrape of the bow still sounded like I was torturing a cat. But give me a recorder or flute and I sounded like a pro within months. Okay, not quite months with the flute, but people were stabbing their ears to end the pain of me practicing page 32 of Tune-a-day 30 times.

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