OMG this is horrendous. How did it all get discovered in the end? I hope she’s feeling a sense of getting some agency and power back and that she can recover enough to have peace and happiness for the rest of her life. What an absolute shower of bastards.
They aren't ruled by their dicks. The real motivation is to dehumanize and harm women, to exert power over us and get their jollies from sadism. The dick is just the tool they use for that purpose. The motivation is emotional, not physical desire.
I don’t know, I think this is definitely a powerful factor and that men want to feel power over women and in many cases hate and resent them. Many men think they should by rights own and control women and are angry that that’s denied them (as yet, in most countries…)
But I do also think there’s some kind of sex obsession in a lot of men and a prioritising of getting sexual gratification, and wanting novel sexual experiences, above all else causing them to not care about anyone else. The men who will train for years to access jobs where they can prey on children, the men who film themselves masturbating in women’s toilets, upskirting or abusing patients or dead people, the men who drug dates - and sometimes these men’s victims are male. It’s not just about hating and controlling women, there’s often an element of being prepared to do anything to get gratification instead of thinking “no that’s wrong”.