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A list of seemingly unbelievable not-rapes (according to the CPS and juries)

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AdamRyan · 05/10/2022 08:05

Inspired by this news where someone who reported a rape and was told they might have sexsomnia

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-63116989

So these are other notable cases I can think of:

The man who tripped and penetrated someone
www.google.com/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/millionaire-ehsan-abdulaziz-who-said-he-accidentally-tripped-and-penetrated-teen-is-cleared-of-rape-a6774946.html%3famp

The man who got the hotel room muddled up
www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1360801/amp/Haydor-Khan-cleared-rape-climbing-wrong-bed.html

The man who thought a girl who was moments before having sex with his friend must also want it with him, even though he was so tired he had to go to bed while his friend was getting viagra
www.irishmirror.ie/news/world-news/black-student-cleared-night-time-7951757

The man who thinks asking a friend "can I have a go [on her]?" is enough consent www.google.com/amp/s/thesecretbarrister.com/2016/10/14/10-myths-busted-about-the-ched-evans-case/amp/

I'm so tired of it.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 19:32

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/06/2024 19:29

The nature of the cases are completely different.

If somebody made a complaint of rape, that happened 5 years ago, in the context of a fairly messy relationship (lots of abusive messages flying back and forth between them), how would you go about proving it?

Whereas fraud etc is easier - you have bank statements there in black & white (for example)

If the nature of the cases are completely different, why did you bring them up on a thread about rape?

It is precisely because of the differences wrt rape that we require a different approach.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/06/2024 19:35

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 19:32

If the nature of the cases are completely different, why did you bring them up on a thread about rape?

It is precisely because of the differences wrt rape that we require a different approach.

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Because the same principles have to apply to all areas of the justice system.

Innocent until proven guilty
A right to a fair trial by your peers
Habeas corpus

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/06/2024 19:35

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 19:32

If the nature of the cases are completely different, why did you bring them up on a thread about rape?

It is precisely because of the differences wrt rape that we require a different approach.

Edited

What would that approach be?

Bluescissorsbluepen · 23/06/2024 19:38

What id love to see is the prosecution going through the defendants phone and asking him about messages to his mates saying he loved that club cause the girls were always pissed, saying because he carried condoms he was obviously determined on having sex, dragging their friends in and asking him how often he bragged about sexual conquests, how often they have been tested for stds. But their past acts and reputation seem to be off the table.

Oohooh · 23/06/2024 19:40

Bluescissorsbluepen · 23/06/2024 19:38

What id love to see is the prosecution going through the defendants phone and asking him about messages to his mates saying he loved that club cause the girls were always pissed, saying because he carried condoms he was obviously determined on having sex, dragging their friends in and asking him how often he bragged about sexual conquests, how often they have been tested for stds. But their past acts and reputation seem to be off the table.

They do.

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 19:42

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/06/2024 19:35

Because the same principles have to apply to all areas of the justice system.

Innocent until proven guilty
A right to a fair trial by your peers
Habeas corpus

Surely the main principle of justice is, erm Justice. Victims of sexual assault are not receiving justice. This must be rectified.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/06/2024 19:43

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 19:42

Surely the main principle of justice is, erm Justice. Victims of sexual assault are not receiving justice. This must be rectified.

How?

If anyone here thinks there is a much better system out there, then what is it?

Hateam · 23/06/2024 20:02

Bluescissorsbluepen · 23/06/2024 19:38

What id love to see is the prosecution going through the defendants phone and asking him about messages to his mates saying he loved that club cause the girls were always pissed, saying because he carried condoms he was obviously determined on having sex, dragging their friends in and asking him how often he bragged about sexual conquests, how often they have been tested for stds. But their past acts and reputation seem to be off the table.

What about the past acts and reputation of the women who claims she's been raped?

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 20:19

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/06/2024 19:43

How?

If anyone here thinks there is a much better system out there, then what is it?

That is being worked on in legal circles and women's rights organisations. We're a long way away, but getting closer.Smile

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 23/06/2024 20:28

@Hateam

That already is intensely scrutinised at every step , from the initial police complaint, to the CPS decision to prosecute, to going to trial. It often is the reason for not being believed to begin with and the complaint not going any further, or not prosecuting in the first place. And if it does go to trial it is often used as part of the defence, down to what kind of underwear the victim was wearing. What more do you want?

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/06/2024 20:29

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 20:19

That is being worked on in legal circles and women's rights organisations. We're a long way away, but getting closer.Smile

What a politician’s reply.

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 20:34

I'm definitely not a politician.🤣🤣🤣

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 23/06/2024 20:36

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 20:34

I'm definitely not a politician.🤣🤣🤣

No, but you’re very good at dodging questions and not answering directly.

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 20:44

I have answered directly and truthfully.Hmm

I am not qualified to state what specific changes will come about to get justice for rape victims. Nor am I party to the discussions happening in legal circles. Do you want me to lie, or pretend I know? Because I won't.

Hateam · 23/06/2024 20:47

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 23/06/2024 20:28

@Hateam

That already is intensely scrutinised at every step , from the initial police complaint, to the CPS decision to prosecute, to going to trial. It often is the reason for not being believed to begin with and the complaint not going any further, or not prosecuting in the first place. And if it does go to trial it is often used as part of the defence, down to what kind of underwear the victim was wearing. What more do you want?

Do you think that's fair?

SeatonCarew · 23/06/2024 21:15

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TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 21:26

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What?Confused

AdamRyan · 23/06/2024 21:57

Dearie me. Some men really do hate women talking about this Confused

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SeatonCarew · 23/06/2024 22:47

There was nothing wrong with my post that required deleting.

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/06/2024 23:34

AdamRyan · 23/06/2024 21:57

Dearie me. Some men really do hate women talking about this Confused

I doubt they are all men. Some women will prioritise rapists' rights over women's rights to justice.😒

Hateam · 24/06/2024 06:18

Nobody hates women talking about this. Nobody man or woman is defending rapists. Everybody has agreeded that things are not good enough and should change. That does beg the question what should those changes be and nobody on this thread has come up with any changes that I think would be viable.

I think some people are confusing not agreeing with them with against them.

Hateam · 24/06/2024 06:28

...with being against them..

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