This^
had she told the truth instead of trying to embellish it for more attention she would have been believed.
i suffered the kind of abuse she claimed, my ex was in a senior position, he was powerful, charismatic, attractive and well liked,
at first I believed her, as stuff came out I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt, but it’s clear now she was lying.
when I was being abused even when I had bruises nobody believed he had done it,
I had videos of him abusing me and people didn’t believe me, I must have set it up, I must have pushed him to the absolute brink.
I really wanted to believe her.
i completely believe he was a terrible husband, an alcoholic drug addict who was volatile and verbally abusive, I believe that their marriage was ridiculously toxic, but I do not believe he abused her physically.
i believe she has damaged the reputation of DV victims everywhere and we will be believed even less because of her.