Hi all, sorry username change as I haven’t been on here for about a year, can’t remember which one I posted under.
There may be none of you here now who remember, but in 2018 I was the victim of a brutal rape, under the guise of niche, violent and sick BDSM. Which I had no interest in and did not agree to.
Over the time it happened, and the years after you guys were here for me, after having the case rejected on very spurious grounds, evidence lost, the rough sex and silly woman thrown at me constantly someone on here referred me to the Centre For Women’s Justice and I really wish I could remember the username of the member but I was traumatised at the time.
Anyway if there are any who remember, with their enormous support all the way, and that of my local MP I have fought this for 4 years.
This week, after review by the independent CPS body, I finally have the validation I’m not insane, complying to survive was not my fault, being hospitalised with various injuries and having months of physio is not the normal outcome of a date.
They have chosen to charge this man with 6 counts.
I won’t say anymore because I don’t want to give any details that could jeopardise, but I do want to say thank you.
It’s a long road from here to remove this man from the streets he shouldn’t have been on for 4 years and there are no guarantees. But from your support hopefully a tiny change will be made in the system, maybe some lessons will be learned.
So if any of you remember then thank you, thank you for being there during one of the darkest moments of life.
If any of you are seeking a charity to support to help women who have no where else to turn then please consider the CWJ because I can’t repay them for all they have given me in practical legal fights but also in kindness and understanding.