They my force too. They helped me in that I probably be dead if they hadn't come out several occasions. Only bad thing for me was they never interviewed witnesses who called them several times. Would have helped cos it's a lie that you don't need police evidence for help to leave. Injuries you can't prove who did them.
Some councils don't care less if you in danger beaten or raped. I sound like bad person and maybe I am but I sort of hope I am killed so the places that aren't helping get found out in investigation. No way possible to get help from councils without support. Councils have you for breakfast.
Sorry so maybe I'm bad and deserve everything but don't care anymore. I don't blame my local Met police cos think they not enough funding. They always came out very quickly.
Police cared more than my local domestic abuse service. They tried to help. I been through so much more abuse cos wasn't helped by the domestic abuse service.
Sorry to post inappropriate here but today again tried to get help. Only get so many opportunities not always possible to make calls or try to leave so limited window. Disinterested shrug attitude.
Definitely one hundred percent not all women's aid. Most been so kind. One women's aid out of my area been so kind. They understand my situation and want to help but not in my area. Literally left tonight another day on phone and online round in circles.
Horrible awful experience again and again and feel so sick seeing people talk about violence against women but then if no help when you try to tell people you treated like bad person.
I'm sorry inappropriate thread just cos what last poster saying about the police is so relevant also to domestic abuse service's when it goes wrong. It's torture cruel being told get help being told it's you making excuses or lying that not being helped and so then just stuck at risk maybe will be killed or raped again or maybe never again but prefer to be helped to be safe so not hanging over me the risk.
Sorry again. It's just again posters making me feel like it's ok to speak about problems with police but not when it's domestic abuse organisation. They not all good people working in them. Most so good but some bad.
What can be worse than an organisation meant to help women suffering violence bit helping. Psychologically worse than if police don't help.
Thing is so relevant cos the places that don't help tell you to call the police so only people I'm told to turn to are the police.