My family blew my life up on lies, do I...

[BucketHatWoes]

blow it up for them with truths?

It's hard to say. This is one of those posts where more info is needed.

What are the lies?

What are the truths?

This

Can you go into more detail?

Yes yes. Next!

What are the lies ?
What are the truths?

Is it a real truth or "your" truth?

No idea.

But I voted YABU for the annoying lack of information.

I'll give you long odds on us getting any sensible answers 😜

Come on OP!

God, amateurs, I assumed ye would have advanced searched me by now lol

I'm great, they are mad, my asd adult son is being manipulated

Do I keep taking deep breaths and getting on with shit

or do I mirror the shit they do to me?

It depends on what they're doing to manipulate him 🤷‍♀️

Rather than expecting everyone to advance search you, it would be better to actually type the problem since you've started a thread.

We're supposed to trawl through everything you've ever posted and try to distil out of it what you might be referring to here?

Ain't nobody got time for dat

Based on the limited and dull info provided thus far I imagine most people won’t be interested enough to advance search

I thought it was considered rude to AS posters. Blissful ignorance is the goal.

In what way is your son being manipulated? How old is he, and what does he think?

If someone is hurting you then stop contact with them. By all means tell them the reasons why you're doing so. But then stick to your guns and keep your distance.

Too much drama op. Ditch them and be free

Aint nobody got inclination for that at 00:33 OP

I've been sticking to my guns for 20 years, but failing obvs

Would've been handy if you'd answered the first 3 questions in that quote.

Yeah, you're not enlightening us any more with that response sadly. You need to be much more specific, please?

Ok, my family manipulate my autistic son, hes 25

They joined forces with my abusive ex

I have an eating disorder and I am regressing so much now I can feel my heart beating outside my chest

I am a good person, they are not good people

I need to stop being such a doormat

Tell me not to be such a doormat :)

How are they with your 27 year old son?

Do they manipulate him too?

You're asking for help, but you expect us to do the research?

I gave up and did some.

I'm still none the wiser really.

i can’t be bothered putting any effort into playing this game.