Where can i get help with my children, i cant cope

[70sbaubles]

Just where will help?
Ive got 3 and no help whatsoever. Yesterday evening I did a random check of their teeth and my 12 year old looks to have slight decay. We go to the dentist shortly but I really cannot cope any more. I am trying my best and failing everywhere. They clean twice a day, no sugary drinks, have electric toothbrushes mouthwash the works.
I can barely get thrpugh each day as ot is, I have depression and my exH has no contact. I was a professional but gave up after divorce so I have nothing and noone. I hate myself and iys never going to get any better, it's just failure after failure on my part. It will never get better.
Ive asked for Homestart young carers SS schools everything. They all say Im coping fine. Ive got to face the fucking dentist as a failure parent im sick of the humiliation of failing I just dont know where to turn. Fillings at 12. Fml I'm shit.

70s I've been seeing you pop up around other threads and it reminded me of this one, as you seem like a different person out there on MN - you come across so sure of yourself. So I was wondering how you're doing now the kids are back to school?

Re the CPN if you don't feel you can be totally honest with this one (due to prior acquaintance or whatever else) you need a new one. I would really suggest you sort that out. They can't help you if you can't tell them you need help.