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I think it's time to say goodbye

70 replies

Ineedsomebodylava · 16/12/2015 23:59

It's time to end it all. Something that I've been contemplating for months but couldn't bring myself to do it as its not fare on the innocent life inside me!

Expecting first and only child in 2 weeks and will sadly be saying goodbye. Sorry to do this but need to tell someone.

I'm sorry

OP posts:
YvetteChauvire · 17/12/2015 00:02

Hey I need

... do want to talk?

SurroundedByBoxes · 17/12/2015 00:02

Ineedsomebodylava is this you breaking up with someone or are you suicidal? Are you making plans to kill yourself?
Please do talk; I'll listen.

timelytess · 17/12/2015 00:03

OK, sounds bad, tell us.

Marchate · 17/12/2015 00:04

Please, don't stop talking. We'll try to help. xx

YvetteChauvire · 17/12/2015 00:04

Sorry my typing is rubbish this time of night. What I meant to write is 'do you need to talk'?

Like surrounded I am here to listen too..

HandyWiseWoman · 17/12/2015 00:08

Call Samaritans ineed 116 123 then in the morning tell your midwives. They will help.

hownottofuckup · 17/12/2015 00:09

Hey OP, keep talking. We're here.

SugarMiceInTheRain · 17/12/2015 00:12

Please talk to us, and talk to some professionals too. There is help out there for you. You have so much to live for. That little one inside you needs you, and will need you for years and years to come.

munkynutts · 17/12/2015 00:14

OP....please talk to us. You are important.

Imnotaslimjim · 17/12/2015 00:16

I'm here for a little while, please come back and keep talking. Things are never as bad as they feel I promise

You said it isn't fair on the little life inside you, that still stands now. No matter how bleak things are feeling, this too shall pass

wannaBe · 17/12/2015 00:24

I've reported this thread to MNHQ so they will hopefully be along with some links where you can get professional advice op.

In the meantime, please call the Samaritans as linked above.

wannaBe · 17/12/2015 00:24

I've reported this thread to MNHQ so they will hopefully be along with some links where you can get professional advice op.

In the meantime, please call the Samaritans as linked above.

Marchate · 17/12/2015 00:26

Please give us a chance to help. Has someone hurt you? Can you ask someone to come to your home for a wee while?

Imnotaslimjim · 17/12/2015 00:26

I've reported too and asked for them to pop on with some help. Hopefully OP will be back soon

StrumpersPlunkett · 17/12/2015 00:26

Don't go! Is your baby a boy or a girl? It is awful that you feel so sad. Please talk more. Even if it is sad stuff. No need to pretend just type whatever comes into your head. X

Rockingaround · 17/12/2015 00:28

OP I couldn't read and run, are you ok lovely? Please just write how your feeling, I'm here to listen too, please xx

FeedMyFaceWithJaffaCakes · 17/12/2015 00:30

OP- please please phone Samaritans
You can be anonymous and they're truly excellent and can provide a listening ear.
Let us support you in the mean time?
ThanksCakeBrew for you always. X

muggedOnEbay · 17/12/2015 00:30

You are not alone in this and we are here for you. Please talk to us and call Samaritans on 116 123

elliejjtiny · 17/12/2015 00:49

I'm here too. I've had antenatal/postnatal depression so understand a little bit.

horseygeorgie · 17/12/2015 00:51

Hon, you obviously want to talk to someone otherwise you wouldn't have started a thread. Can you tell us anything about your little one? When are you due?

Original poster
Ineedsomebodylava · 17/12/2015 01:03

I can't.

Hiding in my bathroom trying not to give myself away. So lonely! Can't sleep. Can't function. Not going to do anything now. Not fare on innocent.

OP posts:
Original poster
Ineedsomebodylava · 17/12/2015 01:03

Due 29th.

OP posts:
MockTheWeek · 17/12/2015 01:06

Talk to us, ineed. Who are you hiding from?

torthecatlady · 17/12/2015 01:07

I'm here! Hugs x

munkynutts · 17/12/2015 01:07

You're not alone. We've all been to dark places and come through it. You will too.