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can anyone hold my hand about to take my first ADs and very scared

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43mumof2 · 18/07/2015 09:51

doctor wants me to take them for y anxiety and depression , but im so scared about taking them ...anyone can help me through it , hold my hand ...shes prescribed citroparm (cant spell it ) not sure weather to take day time or night ?

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hotandbothered24 · 23/07/2015 08:36

If you are feeling this rotten ask your GP for something to help you through, I nearly gave up early on before I had diazepam, so glad I didn't now

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 08:39

thanks , if i know theres light at the end i can do it it just gets so confusing in my head as the anxiety takes over ..its just horrid ...

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Redglitter · 23/07/2015 08:51

Please keep taking them don't skip any. I started on 20mg and the side effects lasted only a few days.

keep going even if the side effects are horrible they WILL pass and you'll start to feel better. If you stop taking them you're not going to feel any better at all. Just remember the side effects are temporary

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LIZS · 23/07/2015 08:57

Something has to change for you to feel any better - the ads are your first route to that. You cannot control what illness you may, or may not, have but you can use the cbt and pills to enable you to cope better with whatever may, or may not, be wrong. Focus on getting to the next appointment. If you don't take the pills your gp won't be able to assess if they suit you and advise whether to continue.

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Bakeoffcake · 23/07/2015 09:06

just remember the side effects are temporary

That is very good advice Redglitter!

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 09:08

thanks , i know your all right i just cant see the woods for the trees right now all looks so over grown and out of control ....
talking is helping and others support and experiences so thank you for listening to me Flowers

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 09:40

ok iv taken no 3 tablet .... Sad hope will turn a corner soon ...please keep posting your encouragment does help so much as in RL i feel so alone ..you mention the word ADs and get an odd look ....

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YouFargingIceHole · 23/07/2015 14:07

Hi 43,
Hang in there! I felt dreadful when I started taking them, I was really sensitive to the side effects. After about 1 week they started to lessen and by 3 weeks I really turned a corner.
Just remember that this is a means to an end to feeling that horrible anxiety all the time. "The only way out, is through".

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Bakeoffcake · 23/07/2015 16:09

Mrs, we are all here for you. What are you up to today?

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Bakeoffcake · 23/07/2015 16:10

Sorry I meant Mumof2!

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temporaryusername · 23/07/2015 16:59

Stick with it 43, it may not feel like it but you're doing the right thing and you're doing really well. It isn't a good idea to take the odd day off or skip doses, because often the side effects are not so much caused by the drug as by changes in the drug. When I was on Citalopram I had 2 or 3 weeks of side effects (not bad, mainly dizziness) when I first went on, when I came off, or when I changed the dose. Then it stabilises. So if you skip doses you don't give your body a break from the effects, you just have even more of an up and down effect on the amount of medication in the system and don't get to stabilise things.

I know some people find low doses helpful, but technically I don't think 10mg is really a dose that is going to get results, it is a stepping stone to 20mg or more which should be more effective. In fact now Citalopram isn't prescribed much in doses higher than 20mg, so you'll probably end up on that. So to really see results you will probably need to work up to taking 20mg, and also give it some time. I have never found any effects from ADs before 2 or 3 weeks at the least. I'm just being honest, but don't worry because some people do find they help faster. You will get through this either way, I promise there is light at the end of the tunnel, whether from these drugs or from other factors. You won't always feel like this.

It can make you feel worse at first. You have to keep an eye out, as there are limits to what you should tolerate before going to the doctors, but in most cases you just get through that bit and wait to see if the drug is for you once you stabilise. If the side effects continue or if they disappear but the drug isn't helping, there are others that probably will suit you. Most likely citalopram will be fine for you though. When it does start to work, it can be subtle, you don't always notice the gradual effects but then you realise you're managing better.

Don't worry about the leaflet. I once took a drug that had sudden death listed as a side effect Grin

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 19:34

thank you everyone , doing ok ........tired today few pulps but ok ....bit shaky
meet a friend today for a coffee , which got me out , told her about my ADS not sure was a wise move she changed the subject quite quickly ..... Hmm

what ones were you on farging ?

im seeing the doctor monday so if i can stick with this , she did say she may want me to be on 20mg so will see , bit scary side effects .......iv not read all the leaflet ...will set me off if i do i think and see that ..



Flowers

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Redglitter · 23/07/2015 20:58

If you read any leaflets with tablets they're all scary so don't let that put you off.

I'd expect your doctor will up the dosage. I'm currently on 40mg but started on 20. I didn't feel any side effects at all when I got increased. Only when I started them

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 21:00

thanks , what ones are you on ?
i do get pulputations ...but worried ...

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 21:01

bit worried i mean ..

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Redglitter · 23/07/2015 21:05

I'm on Citalopram too

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 21:33

ok what dose are you on ? im on 10

just read leaflet , scary as the heart rytham thing on all side effects , and reactions ...so now slightly worried ...i seem to have all the "very common symptoms " but unsure if my heart fluttering feeling is in that bracket or the reaction bracket and i should stop .....bit concerned now ....
anyone els get this feeling on same ADs ?

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Redglitter · 23/07/2015 21:43

I'm on 40mg a day.

Everything you're feeling is totally normal. Please hang in there

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 22:04

ok thanks did you get similar when you started them

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Redglitter · 23/07/2015 22:14

Yes but thankfully only for a few days. I'm so glad I stuck with it though

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43mumof2 · 23/07/2015 22:50

thanks , i havent felt so sick today i must say so hoping thats good sign ....

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Redglitter · 23/07/2015 22:59

That's great. It's so worth it. They make such a difference Smile

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43mumof2 · 24/07/2015 06:48

wobbbly this morning debating to stop really dont want to feel like this ...will i get side effects if i stop now after 3 days ?

i just feel odd , low , pulputations just rough ....

so confused and dont know what to do

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EmpressKnowsWhereHerTowelIs · 24/07/2015 07:32

Could you try taking them before bed instead, just see if that's better for you?

You're doing really well and you've had a lot of good advice. Do try to hang in there until Monday if you can.

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43mumof2 · 24/07/2015 07:41

thanks , im trying to keep thinking it will get better , its just the anxiety talking i guess , im going to be anxious no matter what arnt i ....if i stop im going to be anxious about stopping and be back to where i was ....but feel anxious about being on them ...so i cant win ..

if i take them at night will i get bad dreams ...?
will i feel better in day ?

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