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can anyone help me?

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mosp · 20/05/2012 12:34

I want to cancel my skype and also facebook. I have googled. Sorry, I can't work out how to do it. I need to get rid of them both. Please, can anyone guide me what to do?

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dictionarydiva · 20/05/2012 14:58

Just reported this too.

OP I think a lot of people on here have felt desperate and like there's no way out at times BUT even though we have all been through different things and been in different sticky situations, we are all here, all surviving. Ring the samaritans, they are amazing. If you need someone to take charge of things go to A and E. Don't do anything stupid. Nothing is worth that. You deserve life.

RetroMom · 20/05/2012 15:01

She was writing coherently and keep up with instructions on how to go about deleting, so if she has taken anything it hadn't yet kicked in.

She did say she's got a friend coming round and that she had to pull herself together before then.

Maybe that's why she's now gone to sleep?

FamiliesShareGerms · 20/05/2012 15:06

Mosp, please tell us you're OK? I can't believe that you've done anything so shameful that one or other of us in here hasn't done something similar in our time.

When is your friend coming round? If you need someone before then, tell us roughly where you are and we can see if anyone on here can help

MrsSnaplegs · 20/05/2012 15:08

Reported Sad

insanityscratching · 20/05/2012 15:23

mosp wrote at 12.56 Nottingham, hope someone nearby can help x

PeanutButterCupCake · 20/05/2012 15:26

mosp I hope you are just sleeping now everything's deleted. Your children need you Sad

NotGeoffVader · 20/05/2012 15:27

Just seen this thread and I too am very worried about Mosp. :(
Also reported thread - I really hope her friend comes over/has come over and helped her to calm down.

BlackAffronted · 20/05/2012 15:28

Didnt she say she had her DD and her DDs friend in the house? I am concerned for them :(

futuredream · 20/05/2012 15:43

Watching too ... so many of us have reported but what can be done if OP doesn't feel she deserves help ? Sad You so do , mosp

BuntyPenfold · 20/05/2012 16:22

Please mosp, get some real life help.
I had an insane and vindictive ex; he pursued me and terrified me for years, but I got through it - with help.
He told everyone I am mentally unstable, which I am not, but he wanted me to kill myself, to justify his version of events, and he tried very hard to bully me into it.
Please let someone help you. A lot of people will have been through similar, you'll be surprised.

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mosp · 20/05/2012 16:27

Just woke up. Please don't worry. I don't deserve anyone's head space. I'm so so grateful for the technical help.

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BuntyPenfold · 20/05/2012 16:30

Yes you do deserve head space :) be strong.

perplexedpirate · 20/05/2012 16:36

I'm glad you're back.
Do you feel any better for your nap?

MrsSnaplegs · 20/05/2012 16:37

mosp

I am glad you are back. I was concerned hence why I reported the thread.

You are a strong woman, you have 2 beautiful children - I can say that with confidence as all children are beautiful and anyone who has produced 2 children is strong.

This lowlife does not deserve any attention, I hope you have managed to sort out the computer stuff and feel a bit more settled now.

I know you don't want to speak to anyone in RL but you may be surpirsed if you open up to your friend, that's what friends are for and if I thought anyone i knew in RL was going through this I would do everything I could to help.

There is always someone to speak to here, you are safe here as no-one knows who or where you are.

If not then please take some time when the children aren't around to phone the Samaritans, they will listen and will not judge you in anyway. They are there to help.

I hope you find some peace now your computer stuff is sorted.

Take care of yourself

Mrs S

rhondajean · 20/05/2012 17:39

Hi mosp

I am happy to give you a little bit of headspace; I do think you deserve it. I'm glad you got sorted and had a rest.

Take care and please please remember that none of it is your fault, x

iamme43 · 20/05/2012 17:43

Have you sorted out the skype and facebook?

Are the kids ok?

Are you feeling stronger now?

molepom · 20/05/2012 17:46

How are you feeling Mosp? Any better? Any calmer?

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mosp · 20/05/2012 17:55

Sorry. Fell right back to sleep straight after posting again. Still in bed. Still so so tired. Not sorted fb yet but I know how to do it. Just need to find a time slot to do it.

You really can't say if something is my fault or not. I upset someone and then I deserve to pay for it. I know I'm the one who is wrong. But thank you for caring.

I was not actively suicidal today. Too scared and then too tired to do it. I just like to keep my options open.

I feel so sorry I made people here worried :(

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molepom · 20/05/2012 18:02

Don't be sorry that people are worried about you, that's what MN is here for...well that and bun fights.

Don't be sorry that you fell asleep again, you must need it. Don't worry about FB and everything else online, it can always be done another day.

You have plenty of options open to you and you know that, it's just taking the first step, which you have done before. Have you been to your GP recently? Even if you dont think they can help it may be worth going to see them just to get "it" out in the open to a real person face to face. Your GP is confidential so there is no worry about them talking to anyone else without your permission.

JustFab · 20/05/2012 18:14

You really really need to get some proper help.

You sound desperate and not coping at all.

If you are really worried that he will come after you then you should be ringing the police.

perplexedpirate · 20/05/2012 18:14

Don't be sorry about being in bed, I've barely been up today myself!
I second the idea about going to the GP. Best thing I ever did, I wish I'd got some help years before.
You can get through this mosp. You WILL get through it with the right help. Promise.

RetroMom · 20/05/2012 18:16

"I'm was not actively suicidal today."

You sound a little calmer. Please, come back to the thread for support and advice before doing anything silly. And remember, you will be handing your children emotional issues if you take your own life. You don't want to do that to them. You want to sort out the issues you have.

futuredream · 20/05/2012 18:16

Please don't worry that people here are concerned for you ! Even if it was your fault someone was so upset , there are pretty firm boundaries as to how far you should "pay" for it , and you could probably do with sources of support reminding you when you're takking too much responsibility for situations .
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So glad you've felt able to talk openly ( though not good for you if it was due to any guilty feelings about worrying MNers !!) , but hope you have sources of support for the hardest times ? Very best wishes .

SarahStratton · 20/05/2012 18:19

I'm glad you're back mosp. And I would reiterate what everyone else is saying to you.

NOBODY, but nobody is so bad that they deserve to die. Please see your GP tomorrow, explain that it is an emergency and you MUST see him. You have 2 beautiful children, for their sakes please get help.

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mosp · 20/05/2012 18:27

Eugh, I'm so gross and dirty and have no boundaries and can't hate or harm anyone, so I just let them hurt me instead. I can't talk about it here, it is just too horrible. But I need to get it out.

:(

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