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I'm going away soon but before I go I just wanted to say

143 replies

Memoo · 09/02/2012 22:36

Good bye and thak you to all those who have shown me such kindness and compassion over the past few years.

Its been a bumpy road but I'm at journeys end.

See you on the other side xxx

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EachUisge · 10/02/2012 00:01

Memoo, it's okay, this can be sorted.

No matter how bad things are, people on here care deeply and are wondering if you're okay.

Speak to someone, please sweetheart. It will get better.

x

loopylou6 · 10/02/2012 00:06

Memoo, where abouts are you? I could come round with chocolate? Or pm me your number, is be very happy to chat with you :) YOU AIN'T ALONE LADY.

HeadyEddie · 10/02/2012 00:32

Posted on the Memoo thread in Chat in case you haven't seen it:

Plonker Fri 10-Feb-12 00:28:54
Hello everyone

I just want to let you know that I've just spoken to Memoo - she's asked me to tell you all that she's absolutely fine and will come on and update you all in the morning.

She had posted and gone to bed.

Thank you all for your kindness, I know she really appreciates it xx

FoofFighter · 10/02/2012 01:06

Thank you for the update

ThePinkPussycat · 10/02/2012 01:16

sigh of relief, I was so worried, don't post much here, but MH has been a godsend to me, and I remember you, though not your story. Even though you are just a name to me, that's the name of a person I care about.

Thumbwitch · 10/02/2012 03:06

Glad to hear that memoo is safe and hope that she can let people help her through this patch.

leftmymistletoeatthedoor · 10/02/2012 06:13

She's absolutely fine?

Ok well that's a relief but a bit strange.

Hope you get the help and support you need Memoo.

PacificDogwood · 10/02/2012 07:36

Oh, thank goodness!
Thanks for updating.

BeckyBendyLegs · 10/02/2012 07:55

I hope you are ok Memoo x

Original poster
Memoo · 10/02/2012 08:00

I'm so sorry for all the alarm I caused with this. I took my sleepers and then got in bed with the intention of posting again but must have just fallen straight asleep. The next thing I knew Plonker was phoning me.
I'm not in a good place at all but see my psychiatrist on the 29th so I'm trying to hold on til then.
I will be back later but have to go into ds's school today so in a mad rush.
Thank you to you all x

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rubyrubyruby · 10/02/2012 08:06

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Pancakeflipper · 10/02/2012 08:11

Glad you are alright and holding on in there. Ta for letting us know you are okish

JaxTellerIsMyFriend · 10/02/2012 08:11

morning memoo, once you have been into school, please try to pop back on MN and have a chat. I will be on and off all day, but if you want to PM me to chat I will have my phone with me all the time.

Is there any way you could get an earlier appointment with your Psychiatrist?

Shenanagins · 10/02/2012 08:34

Glad to see you have posted. take care.

PacificDogwood · 10/02/2012 08:53

Glad to hear from you, memoo.

Just keep putting one foot in front of the other Smile.

worzelswife · 10/02/2012 09:28

Glad to see that you're posting again.
Sorry to hear things are so very awful at the moment, it's not easy. Just remember if you are feeling as bad as last night you can go to A and E. There is help out there, it's just accessing it.
I hope you have a much better day and are looking after yourself.

Marne · 10/02/2012 09:36

Glad you came back and posted memoo, i don't know your story but i know what its like to feel very low, things can get better (however much you think they won't), i hope you have close family and friends to support you, maybe some of us live near you and can pop over for a chat and a coffee?

SearchSquad · 10/02/2012 09:40

Memoo, could you please leave your contact details with MNHQ, so that in future if you need any hand holding, you can receive the right help and support.

madmouse · 10/02/2012 09:51

Search I don't think MNHQ get involved like that and frankly I don't think they should. They cannot take responsibility for posters in that way.

SearchSquad · 10/02/2012 10:03

Hmm... you have a point madmouse. Maybe there is another way that can be devised.

All I know is that by the time Plonkers knew about this and contacted her, quite a lot of time had passed.

I just wish that Memoo would confide about last night to someone in RL and get the correct support and advice.

Matches · 10/02/2012 10:06

Memoo - please try and see your psychiatrist, or someone in a MH, before your appt on the 29th Feb.

What you wrote last night was very serious.

You need help now

geniuswater · 10/02/2012 10:55

Thinking of you, hope you get some support, you won't feel this way forever I promise, many of us have known the overwhelming darkness but there will be light again, your babies will always need you they love you so much and would be lost without their Mummy. Please don't hurt yourself so many people care about you. Take care xx

BlackLashes · 10/02/2012 11:23

Memoo, so relieved last night when I read Plonker's post to say she had spoken to you. We were all so concerned for your wellbeing. When you feel you are in that dark place, please just look at your beautiful children and think of the devastation you would cause to them. They love you very much and need you and you can see from all the posts last night, that alot of people out there sympathise with you and feel what you are going through. You are not alone. I hope you now get the support and help you need. You are in my thoughts and prayers..x

FoofFighter · 10/02/2012 11:31

Good to hear from you Memoo, please please take the advice above and stay safe x

kizzie · 10/02/2012 11:46

Hi memoo im really sorry that things are difficult again. Please take care and be realy honest about your feelings and whats been happening when you have your appointment.
29th feels too long to wait. Do you have a CPN you could talk to in the meantime? If you cant get an earlier appointment and you start to feel desperate -turn up at A and E.
Take care x