im going to kill myself right now

[Misshousehunter]

that is it.,

Why not get into bed with the kids and cuddle up to them for a bit

I understand the urge to self harm, really I do, but please please think of your children.

please call someone. You need help and so do your children. Get help now

saynoto0870.com/numbersearch.php hope you get help you need people do care and are there for you

08457 90 90 90

The email takes around 4 hours for a response and you need an immediate kind of help that MN cannot give you, for many of the reasons that have already been mentioned.

Please talk to your health visitor about how you are feeling there are people who work with mums with mental health issues they will not take your kids from you if you ask for help they want to keep families together. There is no crime in asking for help and accepting you have issues that need dealing with they may be able to pay for some childcare whilst you gain professional help. YOU ARE NOT A BAD MOTHER FOR NEEDING HELP

You don't say what area you are in but maybe some mumsnetters could meet up if you are lonely

If you're planning on killing yourself, you wouldn't be concerned about the cost of an 0845 number, would you?

You've successfully secured everyone's attention. So, no more booze tonight. Call the Samaritans. Breathe a huge sigh of relief that it was just the booze typing, in the morning.

ease up people this woman could be generally distressed and you are all on a witch hunt if you don't want to support her then hide the thread. If you do then think of sensible replies. Quite frankly even if this woman was a troll her cry for help might give others the courage to seek help

Agree LM1.....very odd replies by some people.

im not a troll.
ffs

not saying you are a troll was saying even if you were I would support you I trying to help and tell the selfish people to disappear

if im alive common sense, then iwould have to deal wiht the costr of qn 0845 number.

seeing as im only attention seeking, fuck it. all i have ever done is attention seek. iv got the scars to prove it.

we no you not op!

please get some help though!

talk to me tell what is going on in your head, tell me what you want to do!

please. im not a stranger to this and want to help you

Exactly! You're envisaging that you'll be alive to face the phone bill.

No more booze tonight. Go and sleep it off.

attention seeking or not you need help and there are people here who will try and help I know me and dusty will listen even if nobody else wants to in fact if you need to get help without the pesimists you can join our local thread we all support each other there link here www.mumsnet.com/Talk/local_portsmouth_isle_of_wight/949848-come-on-pomepy-people-lets-get-together

commonsensesuze fuck- off you are not helping

LesbianMummy, it's not pessimistic to point out that a 'suicidal' person is actually making decisions based on the premise that they will not, in fact, be killing themselves!

Yep, lots of people will listen, including professionals. It seems as though MissMouse knows all about this.

no-one is saying they won't support the OP.

but posting like this, with this title and a message saying "that is it" is out of order!
sorry, but it is

i've BEEN THERE. i've done it. i've had several failed suicide attempts. i've done the "i'm going to kill myself" on internet forums

it DOESN'T HELP. and the op needs to see that.

as i've said further down, it's FINE to attention seek if you need it! it's ok to ask people to talk to you, to advise you if they can... but regular people on a regular forum are NOT equipped to deal with someone who is genuinely suicidal and may be about to take their own life.

i don't think anyone needs to pussyfoot around the OP. she is a grown woman not a child

she can get all the help she needs- but not much can come from us can it?
if she just needed a friendly ear and some words of advice on how to deal with her situation she just needs to say so

evweryone pointed the OP in the right direction for peoiple who are actually suicidal.
either a&e, call 999 or call the samaritans

she doesn't want to do any of that.

I think CommenSenseSuze and thisisyesterday are talking a lot of sense.

Please call the samaritans now - they will call you back.

Please please please

maybe she is genuinely scared for her children but needing support suicidal people are desperate people too

If you are telling us that you are seriously about to kill youself and you are not prepared to seek help from either samaritans or medical services then we need to think about the safety of your children.

yes, they are LM... and what they need is help from someone who is trained to do so!

if the OP has been drinking, say she decided to go to bed, or just fell aslepe

what happens then? she's said she's going to kill herself, she suddenly disappears.... all hell breaks loose on here with people thinking she has done it, and being scared shitless about her and her 2 young children

it just isn't the place for it

anyone on here will give support if you ask for it. this just wasn't the best way to do it, that's all i am saying.

The Samaritans will call you back and won't take your kids, see if they can help you to feel better