So aggressively protective of anything which affects your DD @KendricksGin .
All parents are defensive of their children. Private school parents too.
Now try to imagine this. I'm putting it in terms which may resonate.
Imagine that the government decided to cut hospital budgets / doctor's pay by 20%, and additionally made hospitals start paying business rates. Not to balance the budget, but because they think it's unfair that doctors earn more than the UK average of £31k and it's their pet project to replace all GPs with nurse practitioners. They tried to bring that law in a couple of years ago and failed - so this is the back route. And they're doing this knowing that it will be worse for patients... and knowing that it will actually cost them more in law suits... so it will cost more than the status quo...but they're doing it anyway out of ideological desire to take doctors down a peg or two.
Imagine the government were using divisive language, saying that doctors were bleeding the country dry, taking 10% of our entire GDP for themselves (and the government will give that money 'back to the people'! ) Which is exactly as true as private schools being a tax break (ie not).
Imagine that patients fell for that rhetoric, and made thread after thread saying hateful things about doctors. That doctors are so arrogant. That nurses can do anything they can. That doctors are lazy and if they cared about their patients, they would work more hours for free to bring down the shocking waiting lists.
Imagine that you went on those threads for months, to defend doctors and to try to explain the harm it would cause to medicine in the UK - because it was so blindingly obvious that all patients would suffer - and you heard so many hateful things said about your DD, by people who you knew will be helped by your DD.
Imagine that now, the law has been passed. You're watching doctors being made redundant from hospitals, units closing, patients not getting care.
But people still come on here, saying that job losses are normal, and it's a natural adjustment in the industry. No care for the patients failed, or the doctors losing jobs. Failed for no reason, no benefit to anyone.
Can you imagine how angry you'd feel? How disillusioned?
Probably not. I'm sure you'll find some detail in what I've written to fixate on, and insist that it's all totally different.
But if you're able to allow yourself to actually imagine this, you'll get a slight idea of how angry I am and why. Only a slight idea, because until it happens you can't really believe that the government and some of the population are so stupid and so vindictive.
Until it happens to doctors (which affects your DD) rather than private schools (which doesn't) you won't really understand how that would change your entire relationship to our society. We're mothers. A society which deliberately tries to bring down our kids loses us entirely.
So bitter, yes. Angry, yes. Blame Labour for that.