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How many kids do you know definitely leaving private for state?

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Quodraceratops · 04/09/2024 15:45

I'd be very interested to know how many children people know of who are definitely leaving their private school for a state school - not people with plans to do so in future years, solely those definitely going now / in 2025.
For myself - large Scottish all years school, I only have knowledge of my early primary kids's classes - no-one leaving so far (but I'm guessing early primary may be less affected as Labour have been signalling this policy for a while so you wouldn't start if you couldn't afford VAT).

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ichundich · 25/09/2024 21:03

pintofsnakebite · 25/09/2024 20:50

@ichundich plenty of our state school matches are played on a Saturday morning.

Also, nothing stopping private schools choosing to play matches on a weeknight either.

Please name UK state schools where the participation in Saturday fixtures is compulsory.

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:04

SabrinaThwaite · 25/09/2024 20:57

Similarly: does the fact that measures were brought in during the 19th century to prevent educational charities from misappropriating funds imply that there is still significant misuse of funds in educational charities now? No.

And yet we have a Charity Commission to ensure that charities clearly define their charitable objectives and can be held accountable - and provides specific guidance to private schools to ensure that the public benefit provided is more than minimal or a token.

And we also have the Electoral Commission whose stated aim is to "work to promote public confidence in the democratic process and ensure its integrity". Who go to significant, on-going efforts to prevent fraud.

Silly me. The existence of governing bodies are only proof of wrong-doing when they govern Evil Private Schools. Absolutely nothing-to-see-here when they govern The Good Guys.

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:06

pintofsnakebite · 25/09/2024 20:55

No obviously I haven't checked with every school in the country.

But the poster claiming that private schools only play each other because state schools won't play them hasn't either.

Innocent until proven guilty?

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:12

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:06

Innocent until proven guilty?

Note that none of the private school parents jumped to the condemnatory conclusion that it might be the state schools not willing to play with the state schools (and made that accusation without verifying it)

Just that that might be a good reason for a lack of matches.

SabrinaThwaite · 25/09/2024 21:15

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:04

And we also have the Electoral Commission whose stated aim is to "work to promote public confidence in the democratic process and ensure its integrity". Who go to significant, on-going efforts to prevent fraud.

Silly me. The existence of governing bodies are only proof of wrong-doing when they govern Evil Private Schools. Absolutely nothing-to-see-here when they govern The Good Guys.

Well, quite. Previous wrong doings and malpractice often lead to the establishment of independent bodies to provide guidance and oversight.

It’s hard to argue that’s a bad thing.

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:20

SabrinaThwaite · 25/09/2024 21:15

Well, quite. Previous wrong doings and malpractice often lead to the establishment of independent bodies to provide guidance and oversight.

It’s hard to argue that’s a bad thing.

Literally nobody has argued that's a bad thing.

You were the one who brought up the existence of the Charity Commission, snidely said that it was created due to misappropriation of funds by educational charities in the 19th century, and implied that this meant that there was still wrong-doing.

When that obviously doesn't remotely follow.

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:22

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:12

Note that none of the private school parents jumped to the condemnatory conclusion that it might be the state schools not willing to play with the state schools (and made that accusation without verifying it)

Just that that might be a good reason for a lack of matches.

Edited

none of the private school parents jumped to the condemnatory conclusion that it might be the state schools not willing to play with the* *private schools.

Mistyped.

OhCrumbsWhereNow · 25/09/2024 21:39

ichundich · 25/09/2024 21:03

Please name UK state schools where the participation in Saturday fixtures is compulsory.

I was at a state boarding grammar. We had school on Saturday mornings and then Saturday afternoons were matches.

Iirc we played the private schools on Saturdays and the other state schools on Thursdays.

FWIW, DD's comp is part of the Southwark Schools Learning Partnership and there is a huge amount shared with the nearest private schools. From teaching sessions, full day workshops, sharing facilities. It works really well.

https://sslp.education/

Southwark Schools' Learning Partnership – Connecting Schools, Connecting Teachers, Connecting Students

https://sslp.education

SabrinaThwaite · 25/09/2024 21:40

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:20

Literally nobody has argued that's a bad thing.

You were the one who brought up the existence of the Charity Commission, snidely said that it was created due to misappropriation of funds by educational charities in the 19th century, and implied that this meant that there was still wrong-doing.

When that obviously doesn't remotely follow.

I didn’t imply anything at all about the current financial affairs of private schools - that’s entirely your own interpretation.

The events that led up to the establishment of the Charity Commission is a matter of historical record.

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 21:44

SabrinaThwaite · 25/09/2024 21:40

I didn’t imply anything at all about the current financial affairs of private schools - that’s entirely your own interpretation.

The events that led up to the establishment of the Charity Commission is a matter of historical record.

Then why did you bring the Charity Commission into the discussion?

SabrinaThwaite · 25/09/2024 21:45

And my comment on the origins of the Charity Commission was in response to a PP saying:

Historically the 'public schools' were set up for boys whose parents couldn't afford private tutors, which was the norm for the elite. So it was charitable. Now an exclusive education is claimed to be 'charitable' because it is education - no matter how much it excludes.

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 22:14

So why exactly was it "worth noting" that the Charities Commission was originally set up due to reports of "the poor state of charitable education and the misappropriation of funds"

following a comment that present day private school "is claimed to be 'charitable' because it is education." Italics mine. Quote marks part of the original comment (casting doubt on charitable nature of current schools).

What possible other reason is there for your comment unless you're linking historic wrong-doing with imagined current wrong-doing?

SabrinaThwaite · 25/09/2024 22:34

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 22:14

So why exactly was it "worth noting" that the Charities Commission was originally set up due to reports of "the poor state of charitable education and the misappropriation of funds"

following a comment that present day private school "is claimed to be 'charitable' because it is education." Italics mine. Quote marks part of the original comment (casting doubt on charitable nature of current schools).

What possible other reason is there for your comment unless you're linking historic wrong-doing with imagined current wrong-doing?

Edited

Given that:

(a) it was on the back of discussions on the fulfilment (or otherwise) of the charitable obligations of private schools

(b) the PP had commented that public schools had originally been established to educate the poor as a charitable endeavour

(c) the mismanagement of those original charitable public schools (although some were deliberately excluded from scrutiny) led to the establishment of the Charity Commission and this is a statement of historical fact

I made no comparisons to current private or public schools and any implications about the financial affairs of current private schools are entirely your own interpretation.

I’ll leave you to ponder on it.

strawberrybubblegum · 26/09/2024 05:56

Exactly.
"we think private schools are just pretending to be charities"

"they initially were charitable. But now they're 'claimed' to be charitable just because they're education"

"its worth noting that they were misappropriating funds in the 19th century"

Obvious implication: even then they weren't decent charities. No wonder they're 'claiming' to be charities now.

All I'm pondering is that I'm completely fed up of people setting up private schools as the bogey man. If you could make an effigy of private schools, they'd probably burn it in the streets on the 5th.

Engage your brain. It's populism. Stop making up justifications after you've had an emotional response to a dog whistle.

Shambles123 · 26/09/2024 06:47

strawberrybubblegum · 25/09/2024 20:57

In response to the pp charmingly saying "they could never lower themselves to play against the local plebs"

My girls at a private school played a state school at netball last week. HTH with some random anecdote. I think this is the way this thread works?

strawberrybubblegum · 26/09/2024 07:14

Shambles123 · 26/09/2024 06:47

My girls at a private school played a state school at netball last week. HTH with some random anecdote. I think this is the way this thread works?

You're probably lying @Shambles123

And if you're not, it was a once off

And if it wasn't, they did it for their own good anyway.

You can always find 'reasons' why the private school is the bad guy.

Shambles123 · 26/09/2024 07:17

strawberrybubblegum · 26/09/2024 07:14

You're probably lying @Shambles123

And if you're not, it was a once off

And if it wasn't, they did it for their own good anyway.

You can always find 'reasons' why the private school is the bad guy.

Lying? WTF? Im not - jeez this thread is crap.

strawberrybubblegum · 26/09/2024 07:24

goodluckbinbin · 25/09/2024 18:28

Quite frankly, I don't believe you. But it's not unusual for schools to imply generosity when it's not actually true and they're charging...

Of course I believe you @Shambles123 And I know that it was just a normal, mutually beneficial and fun, match.

I'm being sarcastic about how this thread - and this whole debate always goes. As evidenced by this post yesterday.

You're right, it is crap.

pintofsnakebite · 26/09/2024 07:34

I think you're getting slightly hysterical now as you are the one escalating the nonsense and jumping on people's points as irrelevant. If you think they're irrelevant, let them go, don't write 8 posts about them and and break out the bold fonts.

The state school matches point was about private schools including it as community outreach which I think is disingenuous. My point began with actual figures from Independent schools on how many schools did this and how many didn't. No need to for random anecdotes.

I have no idea why the charity commission aside has touched such a raw nerve but you seem intent on derailing this thread because you don't like to be challenged.

Every single one of these threads involves people resorting to patronising insults and cries of foul play. It's really not a good look.

pintofsnakebite · 26/09/2024 07:36

I'm not claiming private schools are the bad guy, I am merely disputing that they are the heroes you claim.

strawberrybubblegum · 26/09/2024 08:16

When the crap is left to stand unchallenged, people internalised it and then repeat it as fact.

Private school parents have tried pointing things out rationally. The type of justification cascade I gave above gets spouted. Because none of this populist vilification of private schools has anything to do with rational facts.

And no, your figures didn't say 'how many schools did this and how many didn't''. Go back and read it. It said how many state schools self-reported experiencing that. Which given that there are 13 times more students in state schools than private completely changes the meaning of the numbers. But who cares about facts, right? Much more fun to be morally superior.

I'm just fucked off with the bullshit, and I really don't care whether it's a good look or not.

Hattieho · 26/09/2024 08:31

When you unfairly attack a certain group of people (come on, nobody has justified why this tax shouldn't be based on income so that those wealthy state school parents pay for the state benefit they're using), then don't expect them not to lash out and fight. Having read many of these threads, I really will take some comfort from private school parents taking the best state school places at the next natural entry point.

pintofsnakebite · 26/09/2024 08:56

Araminta1003 · 23/09/2024 18:47

@goodluckbinbin - and I cannot believe there are people who do not actually bother engaging with the actual statistics!
https://www.isc.co.uk/media/uukn4r3i/isc_census_2024_15may24.pdf

Here you go, for example, 1 in 5 SEND, almost 40% identify as ethnic minorities, over 30% came from state schools.
Only 62k are non British and of those only a small minority are foreign boarders.

@strawberrybubblegum the figures I quoted were from this report that Araminta cited where Independent Schools reported their own evidence of outreach.

pintofsnakebite · 26/09/2024 08:59

Hattieho · 26/09/2024 08:31

When you unfairly attack a certain group of people (come on, nobody has justified why this tax shouldn't be based on income so that those wealthy state school parents pay for the state benefit they're using), then don't expect them not to lash out and fight. Having read many of these threads, I really will take some comfort from private school parents taking the best state school places at the next natural entry point.

And if you'd read the thread you will know that those children will be welcomed with open arms.

So I'm delighted with your comfort.

Barbadossunset · 26/09/2024 09:07

Pintofsnakebite
Every single one of these threads involves people resorting to patronising insults and cries of foul play. It's really not a good look.

Accusing a poster as you did of becoming ‘slightly hysterical’ is a very patronising insult.

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