More diminishing of racism and the impact on the victims. How is this situation, the inherent injustice and continued exclusion anything like a child reporting a man with a penis, etc.
Something happened, enough to make the black boy feel bad. Should he not have said anything? Should he have sucked it up or should the teachers not have taken him seriously. Because that is what this is boiling down to.
Little Black boy complained about an incident where he felt his race was used against him. Teacher believed him and believed that something amounting to racism occurred. Yet this thread seems to be all about "little white girl cannot possibly acted in a racist way" after all nice white people cannot be racist, little black boy should not be believed. Little white girl is the victim in all of this. It is bonkers that the teachers gave any credence to complain by little black boy.
Truly shocking and disturbing.
We do not have the right to act in ways or say thinks that can be construed as racist by the recipient and then jump into the seat of judge and jury and say we cannot be racist and that the problem lies with the complainant. We cannot think it is morally right to continue to have our cake and eat it with impunity. Nice white people can be racist. Racism is now largely covert. Through unconscious biasness. Racism is now more dangerous than it ever was. Lurking in shadows and revealing itself through things like Brexit debates, etc.
It is right that the little black boy was listened to and that the OP's daughter was pulled up for it. How serious the incident was, is anyone's guess. Good on the school for not brushing aside the boys complaint.
In the US we see tune and time again black people denied justice when a white person, usually a cop, harms them in some way.
BAME stands for Black, Asian, other minority ethnic groups. I didn't know what it meant until recently.