@Itistimeandiamscared so sorry you are struggling with everything. It is really hard, i get exhausted by the end of the day. Even though when h was living with us he didnt do anything at all around the house, i feel it all taking me twice as long now he has gone. Which is weird, i think maybe i had got to the point where i was doing bare minimum of jobs and we have had and still have school holidays and i never accomplish as much with the kids at home all the time.
Sending you 🤗 you are strong, you can do this, one day at a time. If you are like me you put too much pressure on yourself.
Thanks for asking after me. 🤗 H is currently talking to me. Dont trust him at all. Things fairly tough with kids and puberty hormones and elderly parent issues.
I know his behaviour is a control thing, even now he is trying to 'put me in my place'. And scare me into submission.
@Tiddleypops sorry to hear of money worries. It is so tough when on top of everything else is the legal fees. I have currently paid my solicitor double she quoted and still more to go. I try not to think abt it as still have conveying fees at some point.
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Does her boyfriend live with his parents? If so is there anyway you can contact them?
@DishingOutDone oh no. Thats all you need. I hope that funding is available for her 🤗
I too would like h to find a new woman dont know how long she would put up with him though. And he has lots of online relationships as well.