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Pubic hair

129 replies

Sadcafe · 27/09/2025 11:42

Asking the dads on here and the ladies too if they have an opinion. Pubic hair on men, yes or no, thinking about removing to see if DW likes it and yes it would be simpler to just ask but she probably wouldn’t give an opinion

OP posts:
ChristmasMiracleBaby · 27/09/2025 17:26

AutumnCosy2025 · 27/09/2025 16:36

To YOU, not all of us! Even for your reason 🙄

It's just my opinion, you're getting het up on a thread about pubes. 😂

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 27/09/2025 17:26

When you've been with someone for a long time the last thing you want is a 'ta-da' moment to deal with.

Ask her what she thinks before you set to work.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 27/09/2025 17:31

Have you been watching porn @Sadcafe ?

Wondering why you're thinking about getting rid of your pubic hair "to see if wife likes it"? Surely, as a married couple, you'd know each others opinions on pubic hair already?

If you do this out of the blue without mentioning it to her first, she'll likely think you're having an affair.

I'd be gutted if my DH got rid of his bodyhair. It's manly and I find bodyhair and pubic hair on men a turn on. I'd get the ick if I was faced with a plucked chicken.

SpikeGilesSandwich · 27/09/2025 17:32

I’d recommend a beard trimmer to keep it neat and tidy. Shaving looks weird and grows back super-itchy!

Katherine9 · 27/09/2025 17:36

OP, I think it’s really sweet that that you’re willing to make the effort.

PLEASE let us know what you decide and how it went down (sorry, couldn’t help myself).

MiceAsPie · 27/09/2025 18:03

You’ll look the the last turkey in the butchers shop window

AutumnCosy2025 · 27/09/2025 18:09

ChristmasMiracleBaby · 27/09/2025 17:26

It's just my opinion, you're getting het up on a thread about pubes. 😂

Im not getting het up at all 😘

You stated it as a fact, not an opinion.

tartyflette · 27/09/2025 18:39

Well, I am female, heterosexual and not hung up on bodies at all.
But in photos I've seen of naked women with natural pubic hair, (standing upright, legs closed so not pornified at all) their external genitalia do not much resemble those of women who are deliberately hairless. That is, not neatly trimmed, or with so-called landing strips etc, but totally hairles.
To me they definitely look more like prepubescent girls than adult women.
Pubic hair is a signifier in both women and men of sexual maturity, in the biological sense.
But if that's the look you (or your partner) prefer, by all means go for it.

Anchorage56 · 27/09/2025 18:55

tartyflette · 27/09/2025 18:39

Well, I am female, heterosexual and not hung up on bodies at all.
But in photos I've seen of naked women with natural pubic hair, (standing upright, legs closed so not pornified at all) their external genitalia do not much resemble those of women who are deliberately hairless. That is, not neatly trimmed, or with so-called landing strips etc, but totally hairles.
To me they definitely look more like prepubescent girls than adult women.
Pubic hair is a signifier in both women and men of sexual maturity, in the biological sense.
But if that's the look you (or your partner) prefer, by all means go for it.

Edited

Are you meaning the woman as a whole looks prepubescent or just the pubic region of the woman with shaved pubes?

Butterflybum · 27/09/2025 18:56

tartyflette · 27/09/2025 18:39

Well, I am female, heterosexual and not hung up on bodies at all.
But in photos I've seen of naked women with natural pubic hair, (standing upright, legs closed so not pornified at all) their external genitalia do not much resemble those of women who are deliberately hairless. That is, not neatly trimmed, or with so-called landing strips etc, but totally hairles.
To me they definitely look more like prepubescent girls than adult women.
Pubic hair is a signifier in both women and men of sexual maturity, in the biological sense.
But if that's the look you (or your partner) prefer, by all means go for it.

Edited

I can assure you that I look nothing like a prepubescent girl 😂

TheCurious0range · 27/09/2025 18:58

Trimmed, clean and tidy. All off looks like one of those scrawny looking hairless cats

ComfortFoodCafe · 27/09/2025 19:00

No to the bald, unless you desire to look like a turkey.

BeautifulNights · 27/09/2025 19:03

Protosaber · 27/09/2025 11:47

Couldn’t you have asked in the sex topic?

They know that by posting on dadsnet, it appears on active, so they get to talk about their genitals with more women. The sex board is basically mostly men or men pretending to be women and they know that.

smallsilvercloud · 27/09/2025 19:07

Au natural nothing trimmed

vodkaredbullgirl · 27/09/2025 21:14

OP dropped the bombshell and never to reply again.

HennieGirl · 27/09/2025 21:29

tartyflette · 27/09/2025 18:39

Well, I am female, heterosexual and not hung up on bodies at all.
But in photos I've seen of naked women with natural pubic hair, (standing upright, legs closed so not pornified at all) their external genitalia do not much resemble those of women who are deliberately hairless. That is, not neatly trimmed, or with so-called landing strips etc, but totally hairles.
To me they definitely look more like prepubescent girls than adult women.
Pubic hair is a signifier in both women and men of sexual maturity, in the biological sense.
But if that's the look you (or your partner) prefer, by all means go for it.

Edited

A fully grown and fully developed vulva is different to a child's, After puberty, the labia become more easily visible as their prominence increases. As a woman continues to grow more mature, there is also an increase in labial thickness and length. If you are seriously comparing a prepubescent vulva to that of a grown woman, you are the creepy one sexualising children.

WonderfulSmith · 27/09/2025 21:33

lizziebuck · 27/09/2025 12:12

This.

is it an age thing? If my DH started removing it I’d find it really weird.

women too (however seeing some bikinis it’s an obvious necessity)

it wasn’t a thing when I was young thank god.

I think it is an age or generational thing. I like men to look like men not boys. I know that DH feels the same way about me.

Sadcafe · 27/09/2025 22:10

Well lots of opinions, posted this on dads net because I wondered what other men had experienced if they did it and, I actually didn’t realise it showed up on active because the last thing I wanted was for people to think it’s just a man getting kicks from a sex thread,I’m sure the MN team have some way to transfer it there if it helps. as to why , well, in all honesty it’s a bit untidy, I wouldn’t actually want to go bald,probably look horrendous and regrowth on the face is bad enough but a bit of a trim doesn’t sound a bad idea. Apologies if it’s come over wrong , not what was intended, oh, and did actually ask DW tonight, her response, you could do with a trim all over!!!!

OP posts:
HennieGirl · 28/09/2025 08:53

WonderfulSmith · 27/09/2025 21:33

I think it is an age or generational thing. I like men to look like men not boys. I know that DH feels the same way about me.

Another poster who weirdly sexualises children.

if a grown adult penis that has been through puberty, and a fully grown and developed vulva reminds you of a child, that is creepy, not adult men and women deciding to remove their public hair for personal preference and comfort.

Obeseandashamed · 28/09/2025 09:04

Gone … i dislike body hair

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 28/09/2025 09:57

Last turkey in the shop. That's all.

citygirl77 · 28/09/2025 10:04

Put it this way, grey pubic hair and droopy balls are not in the slightest bit attractive. I am not suggesting this is you, but for the older gentleman…..

Protosaber · 28/09/2025 10:34

Sadcafe · 27/09/2025 22:10

Well lots of opinions, posted this on dads net because I wondered what other men had experienced if they did it and, I actually didn’t realise it showed up on active because the last thing I wanted was for people to think it’s just a man getting kicks from a sex thread,I’m sure the MN team have some way to transfer it there if it helps. as to why , well, in all honesty it’s a bit untidy, I wouldn’t actually want to go bald,probably look horrendous and regrowth on the face is bad enough but a bit of a trim doesn’t sound a bad idea. Apologies if it’s come over wrong , not what was intended, oh, and did actually ask DW tonight, her response, you could do with a trim all over!!!!

Edited

You need to ask mnhq to move it to the sex topic.

The sex topic is excluded from active, unlike dads net.

Gettingbysomehow · 28/09/2025 10:45

I'm not bothered by it as long as its clean but I absolutely can't stand underarm hair on men or women it makes me feel nauseated.

Jc2001 · 28/09/2025 16:52

CandleMug · 27/09/2025 11:59

It’s not bald or bush, there is an in between called trimmed and tidy!

But the OP was talking about getting rid of it completely.

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