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Pubic hair

129 replies

Sadcafe · 27/09/2025 11:42

Asking the dads on here and the ladies too if they have an opinion. Pubic hair on men, yes or no, thinking about removing to see if DW likes it and yes it would be simpler to just ask but she probably wouldn’t give an opinion

OP posts:
didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 27/09/2025 12:50

Wax it all except the balls. Leave those hairy.

HennieGirl · 27/09/2025 13:10

It always makes me laugh when grown arse adult women moan about others wanting to be hairless. Comparing it to 'prepubescent' or 'child like' is much more twisted than anyone wanting to be hairless. I am completely hairless and I can tell you now, my 31 year old vulva looks VERY different to a child's vulva. You know this. But you just have to make it weird.

i want to remove my pubes. Not once have I ever thought 'ah. I want to look like a child.'

weird os

HennieGirl · 27/09/2025 13:11

Freeme31 · 27/09/2025 12:43

Neatly trimmed i think hairless on both is bit creepy bit too much like a child for my taste

If you are comparing a fully grown adults genitals who are post puberty, to a childs, then you're the one who's being creepy.

as I said above I have no hair. My vulva doesn't compare to a childs in the slightest.

BatchCookBabe · 27/09/2025 13:12

AutumnCosy2025 · 27/09/2025 12:44

I much prefer it smooth & hair free. Trust me, it looks nothing like a child's vulva, nor s fools.

Don't be so vile about other peoples preferences.

its currently as hairy as it gets post menopause as current squeeze prefers if & im happy to indulge for now, i don't like men manscaping. So @Sadcafe I'd prefer you not to. But im not your wife!

This. ^ It doesn't take long on this type of thread for the inevitable and ludicrous 'why would you want to look like a pre pubescent child' comments to crop up! 🙄I can't believe anyone in real life actually has this weird mindset!

Anyone who thinks a grown man or woman looks like a child, purely because they have shaved their pubic hair, needs to give their head a good wobble!

That said, DH has never gone bald down there (and I do prefer it just trimmed,) but I have shaved down there completely in the past, and I love it. It's not for DH, it's for ME, although him enjoying it too is a bonus. I have always found sex more enjoyable, (especially oral,) when I was clean shaven 'down there.' Still good without of course, but more intense with no pubes, and it's more sensitive!

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 27/09/2025 13:15

Don't do it!

Tried it once, never again, itched like a motherfucker for a week.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 27/09/2025 13:15

Protosaber · 27/09/2025 11:47

Couldn’t you have asked in the sex topic?

You realise Dadsnet doesnt have a dedicated sex topic?

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 27/09/2025 13:30

Interestingly, I believe you may be able to make some money by selling your shaved hair to voodoo doll makers.

I don't how but I would first suggest that you put an advert in a newsagent's advertising board.

Becareful, as there are some weirdos about who may want to inspect the goods before pruning to ensure they are genuine.😳

Branleuse · 27/09/2025 13:34

I always get a rash if dh shaves. I imagine if someone was committed to keeping it smooth then it would be fine, but tbh, i dont see the point. I quite like pubes.

uglyswan · 27/09/2025 13:36

Dye it.

SeaAndStars · 27/09/2025 14:12

Yes, dye it and grow it as long as possible. Perhaps bleach it at Christmas and wear red pants. You could rattle can your balls silver for an extra festive touch.

Most women like to see it plaited too. Especially horsey types.

AutumnCosy2025 · 27/09/2025 16:33

BatchCookBabe · 27/09/2025 13:12

This. ^ It doesn't take long on this type of thread for the inevitable and ludicrous 'why would you want to look like a pre pubescent child' comments to crop up! 🙄I can't believe anyone in real life actually has this weird mindset!

Anyone who thinks a grown man or woman looks like a child, purely because they have shaved their pubic hair, needs to give their head a good wobble!

That said, DH has never gone bald down there (and I do prefer it just trimmed,) but I have shaved down there completely in the past, and I love it. It's not for DH, it's for ME, although him enjoying it too is a bonus. I have always found sex more enjoyable, (especially oral,) when I was clean shaven 'down there.' Still good without of course, but more intense with no pubes, and it's more sensitive!

No, it never takes long for that stupid comment to be thrown out.

I find sex more enjoyable too when I'm 'smooth' (prefer getting it waxed to shaved/creams) as I'm more sensitive but as I said current squeeze prefers it 'au natural' and if he enjoys it more it's win/win 💁🏻‍♀️

He only gave his opinion as I asked him & he wouldn't be negative if I did get waxed. But why spoil a (currently) good thing?!!

Ex's have varied in their preferences, sometimes I've adapted due to their preferences, but not always. None have been strongly against either option! 🤣

vodkaredbullgirl · 27/09/2025 16:36

OP is not coming back.

AutumnCosy2025 · 27/09/2025 16:36

ChristmasMiracleBaby · 27/09/2025 12:24

Shaved is better on men for reasons I'm not going to list.

To YOU, not all of us! Even for your reason 🙄

YourWinter · 27/09/2025 16:37

My ex-husband demanded mine was removed, and expected me to find his shaven bits appealing. I didn’t.
That’s only one reason he’s my ex, though.

AutumnCosy2025 · 27/09/2025 16:40

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 27/09/2025 12:50

Wax it all except the balls. Leave those hairy.

IMO that looks absolutely ridiculous!! I probably wouldn't stop laughing & that would probably be the end of anything fun!

AutumnCosy2025 · 27/09/2025 16:45

YourWinter · 27/09/2025 16:37

My ex-husband demanded mine was removed, and expected me to find his shaven bits appealing. I didn’t.
That’s only one reason he’s my ex, though.

Anyone 'demanding' would be told it didn't matter what I now choose to do as 'Access Denied'

glad you're rid of him!

Butterflybum · 27/09/2025 16:47

Protosaber · 27/09/2025 11:47

Couldn’t you have asked in the sex topic?

Why the sex topic? Grooming your pubic hair?

Butterflybum · 27/09/2025 16:48

@Sadcafe do it for you, not your dw.

Blushingm · 27/09/2025 16:50

I like nothing -or neat

BilbaoBaggage · 27/09/2025 16:50

Ew. I would be completely turned off by hairless cock and balls. Glad I am old and this was not a thing for men when I was younger.

TouchOfSilverShampoo · 27/09/2025 16:52

Protosaber · 27/09/2025 11:47

Couldn’t you have asked in the sex topic?

He’s in dadsnet AND the title is pretty self explanatory. Don’t click if you’re so easily offended about body hair.

Boogiemam · 27/09/2025 17:00

Shaved and even shaved as short as possible looks weird on men. Like a hairless guinea pig 🤮

But ultimately what everyone else does with their bush is no one else's business but yours and your partner's.

PrimeTimeNow · 27/09/2025 17:04

Eew. If a man did this I’d think he watched too much porn. MASSIVE ick.

MooncupMinger · 27/09/2025 17:06

Nope… my partner did it once and he looked like a turkey.

Sunflower459 · 27/09/2025 17:21

OP, you’re going to get all kinds of fascinating insights on this thread. Sadly none of them are going to be much use because your partner will have her own opinion. Genuinely, I think you should ask her about it if you want to know what she thinks. Women don’t all feel the same way about this (or about much at all, honestly).

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