HilarysMantelpiece
Sometimes, I do wonder if it's just me? and am I now the "old dear who's out of touch".
But, then reality bites again....... humans cant change sex.
I will not be adding pronouns to my email handle.
I am already exceedingly kind, and have no need to publicly demonstrate it by colluding in a lie.
I agree, and I have had moments of 'am I going crazy?' or 'what's the harm, is it really that bad?' etc. but actually every time I come back to the truth, which is that it is really that bad. It's a lie, and it has a shit load of negative consequences (which we are now seeing, even though the media and government tries to ignore them) because of upholding this lie.
I can't think of any other situation (happy to be corrected) when the public as a whole is compelled to lie and participate in someone else's self image or delusion - compelled by law, by language, by policy and when that fails, by shaming and punishment.
It's completely ridiculous and ultimately unsustainable.
And I can't get past the glaringly obvious - that it is women and girls who are losing out big time because of this. I don't believe gender ideology would ever have gotten this far, had it disadvantaged men the way it does women and girls. No way.
Which is fucking depressing in itself.