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Don’t donate Frey bentos pies to food banks

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isitworthit124 · 02/07/2024 15:52

They need a special can opener to get into them

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LadyCrumpet · 02/07/2024 19:53

BeachParty · 02/07/2024 19:49

Sometimes you want a bit of shite though

Exactly 😁
I had a vegetable balti one a while ago, well nice.
(Suitable for vegans too if anyone's interested)

I really only want the chicken curry one but I know my shop won't have that, it'll be steak & kidney, steak or chicken & gravy, which will have to do.

Am really tempted to chuck it in a crusty roll re: a previous poster, with lashings of butter so I may as well have a bottle of wine the night before to really appreciate the full dirtiness 😂

B0G0F · 02/07/2024 19:53

Thanks. I try to give things that cook quickly or don't need cooking, and I thought chickpeas were cheap-ish and versatile, compared with say tinned sweetcorn.
I don't eat biscuits so hadn't thought of donating them.
I have donated sweets and mince pies but it was near Christmas.

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/07/2024 19:55

B0G0F · 02/07/2024 19:53

Thanks. I try to give things that cook quickly or don't need cooking, and I thought chickpeas were cheap-ish and versatile, compared with say tinned sweetcorn.
I don't eat biscuits so hadn't thought of donating them.
I have donated sweets and mince pies but it was near Christmas.

I love a good chick pea. It's just people who only give worthy things and they eat other things. Mince pies are lovely! I make a shit ton for the homeless shelter and they get snapped up.

StankyMeg · 02/07/2024 19:57

BlowDryRat · 02/07/2024 19:50

I loved a Fray Bentos as a kid. The funky pastry was the best bit.

I bought some as Brexit supplies, then COVID hit and DH refused to eat them, the spoiled so-and-so. I currently have about 10 in the loft and no idea what to do with them as they're past their BBE so the food bank won't be interested.

Nah they'll be fine in 2075! I'd have a go now.

OonaStubbs · 02/07/2024 19:59

Can the pies be eaten cold? Are they pre-cooked?

PinkCandles · 02/07/2024 20:00

OonaStubbs · 02/07/2024 19:59

Can the pies be eaten cold? Are they pre-cooked?

No

LiterallyOnFire · 02/07/2024 20:07

Is there any canned meat that’s not terribly processed?

Well all ham is processed but I have to say tinned ham - to my surprise - doesn't taste at all processed.

LiterallyOnFire · 02/07/2024 20:08

BeachParty · 02/07/2024 19:38

This thread is making me think about going to buy some tin openers and taking them to the local food bank. Wouldn't have thought of that before!

Me too.

AD1509 · 02/07/2024 20:10

By “special can opener” do you in fact mean just “a can opener”?

stressedespresso · 02/07/2024 20:10

LoveSandbanks · 02/07/2024 19:40

Is there any canned meat that’s not terribly processed?

unfortunately it’s a hard fact is that people need to get the calories. I don’t agree that there should be a need for food banks but we are where we are and I’ve supported food banks through donations and volunteered at our local one.

lots of people that use food banks are also in fuel poverty so a canned pie that needs the oven on is far from ideal but they are calorie laden and that’s necessary.

food banks give out tins, jars, dried pasta, rice, cereal. They can’t store fresh bread, it’s long life milk and juice. It’s an emergency pack and everyone involved does the best they can. They rely on donations and if it’s a fray bentos pie or nothing, thank you for the pie

There is canned meat that contains actual meat. People having very little in terms of food is an even better reason to give them donations of actual nutritional content.

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 02/07/2024 20:12

I was an embarrassingly advanced age before I discovered where the name Fray Bentos came from.

I just always assumed it was a made-up fancy-sounding brand name; didn't know it was an actual city, where they originally made/processed the products!

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/07/2024 20:13

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 02/07/2024 20:12

I was an embarrassingly advanced age before I discovered where the name Fray Bentos came from.

I just always assumed it was a made-up fancy-sounding brand name; didn't know it was an actual city, where they originally made/processed the products!

WTF? I was today years old.

isitworthit124 · 02/07/2024 20:13

There is no need for the overwhelming number of replies. I won’t be responding to any questions directed at me and can’t be bothered with this thread any more

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Sgtmajormummy · 02/07/2024 20:14

In 1985 I was backpacking around Europe and decided I didn’t need to pack a tin opener, everything was ring pull.
I had an unopened mini tin of tuna in my luggage for weeks!
So they’ve been going out of style for at least 40 years.

Mine is now in the “single use tools” basket in the kitchen as I’ve used it once in 4 years to open pineapple slices for an upside down cake.

AD1509 · 02/07/2024 20:15

isitworthit124 · 02/07/2024 20:13

There is no need for the overwhelming number of replies. I won’t be responding to any questions directed at me and can’t be bothered with this thread any more

Yes this is often my mentality when I post on large public internet forums. Never understand why people reply…

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/07/2024 20:16

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 02/07/2024 20:12

I was an embarrassingly advanced age before I discovered where the name Fray Bentos came from.

I just always assumed it was a made-up fancy-sounding brand name; didn't know it was an actual city, where they originally made/processed the products!

My next holiday location. Worth it just for the Facebook pictures of me with the sign.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 02/07/2024 20:16

I manage a food bank. Apologies if repeating, have only read first and last pages.

  1. ASK THE FOOD BANK WHAT THEY NEED - it's no good my telling you that my client base is Rastafari following an Ital diet and we're swimming in can openers if you're in north Wales.
  2. We'd love donations of tin openers (we get them from the charity shop, who don't want them) - but again, ask the one nearest you for what they need.
  3. Some people like/look forward to/tolerate a Fray Bentos pie, or Spam, or instant noodles, or whatever else, some don't.
  4. I'd never buy something like Fray Bentos if it was our charity money we were spending; in that kind of range I'd be looking at eggs, tinned soups, tinned mackerel or sardines.
  5. We do store and distribute a lot of fresh produce; it isn't a universal no.
BertieBotts · 02/07/2024 20:18

I think it's probably Gen Z who don't know what a can opener is, isn't it? Most things seemed to need a can opener when I grew up and I am a millennial. I was surprised recently to think that I hadn't used one for ages, and then realising that the only cans I need a can opener for are tinned ravioli. I have no idea when that shift happened because a can opener was definitely a normal/essential thing when I moved out of home.

Mind you I do think modern ones are utter rubbish, my mum has had one can opener since before I can even remember, she never washes it, the cogs are all gunked up with decades of god knows what (cat food probably) and I remember her using it daily and it still works. I've bought about five in my adult life because they break or lose grip and just start spinning loosely round and don't work properly. I think it's because her old one is all stainless steel and the ones I've had have plastic parts, which wear out. The last one I bought is one of those weird ones that does around the edge instead of inside the top so perhaps that's what people mean. But no you can't really turn it around because it doesn't work that way.

However I did cause great hilarity among my Gen X and older friends on FB when I posted this picture wondering if other people were aware of what it was, because I was not. (I came across it in an episode of Back In Time For Dinner, which was a brilliant series - the Gen X mum and Gen Z daughter were baffled by this, but her husband knew how to use it.)

Don’t donate Frey bentos pies to food banks
LiterallyOnFire · 02/07/2024 20:18

isitworthit124 · 02/07/2024 20:13

There is no need for the overwhelming number of replies. I won’t be responding to any questions directed at me and can’t be bothered with this thread any more

Grin

There's "no need" for MN at all.

Are you going to tell us where you got the idea that "special" openers were needed?

OonaStubbs · 02/07/2024 20:20

I think tinned food was invented several decades before the tin opener.

BertieBotts · 02/07/2024 20:20

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 02/07/2024 20:12

I was an embarrassingly advanced age before I discovered where the name Fray Bentos came from.

I just always assumed it was a made-up fancy-sounding brand name; didn't know it was an actual city, where they originally made/processed the products!

I thought it was a person Grin

MassiveOvaryaction · 02/07/2024 20:22

isitworthit124 · 02/07/2024 20:13

There is no need for the overwhelming number of replies. I won’t be responding to any questions directed at me and can’t be bothered with this thread any more

Why tf did you start it and not explain what you meant then? Confused

OnAndOnAndonAgain · 02/07/2024 20:23

BertieBotts · 02/07/2024 20:18

I think it's probably Gen Z who don't know what a can opener is, isn't it? Most things seemed to need a can opener when I grew up and I am a millennial. I was surprised recently to think that I hadn't used one for ages, and then realising that the only cans I need a can opener for are tinned ravioli. I have no idea when that shift happened because a can opener was definitely a normal/essential thing when I moved out of home.

Mind you I do think modern ones are utter rubbish, my mum has had one can opener since before I can even remember, she never washes it, the cogs are all gunked up with decades of god knows what (cat food probably) and I remember her using it daily and it still works. I've bought about five in my adult life because they break or lose grip and just start spinning loosely round and don't work properly. I think it's because her old one is all stainless steel and the ones I've had have plastic parts, which wear out. The last one I bought is one of those weird ones that does around the edge instead of inside the top so perhaps that's what people mean. But no you can't really turn it around because it doesn't work that way.

However I did cause great hilarity among my Gen X and older friends on FB when I posted this picture wondering if other people were aware of what it was, because I was not. (I came across it in an episode of Back In Time For Dinner, which was a brilliant series - the Gen X mum and Gen Z daughter were baffled by this, but her husband knew how to use it.)

I think it's gen Alpha , my millennial and gen z kids are fine with them, the Alpha looks at it like it's some alien thing

QuickFetchTheCoffee · 02/07/2024 20:23

BertieBotts · 02/07/2024 20:18

I think it's probably Gen Z who don't know what a can opener is, isn't it? Most things seemed to need a can opener when I grew up and I am a millennial. I was surprised recently to think that I hadn't used one for ages, and then realising that the only cans I need a can opener for are tinned ravioli. I have no idea when that shift happened because a can opener was definitely a normal/essential thing when I moved out of home.

Mind you I do think modern ones are utter rubbish, my mum has had one can opener since before I can even remember, she never washes it, the cogs are all gunked up with decades of god knows what (cat food probably) and I remember her using it daily and it still works. I've bought about five in my adult life because they break or lose grip and just start spinning loosely round and don't work properly. I think it's because her old one is all stainless steel and the ones I've had have plastic parts, which wear out. The last one I bought is one of those weird ones that does around the edge instead of inside the top so perhaps that's what people mean. But no you can't really turn it around because it doesn't work that way.

However I did cause great hilarity among my Gen X and older friends on FB when I posted this picture wondering if other people were aware of what it was, because I was not. (I came across it in an episode of Back In Time For Dinner, which was a brilliant series - the Gen X mum and Gen Z daughter were baffled by this, but her husband knew how to use it.)

We bought one out of desperation for backup when yet another modern can opener broke. Ours is made of entirely stainless steel though so it will live forever. Unless we accidentally throw it away like we did our original one 😂

diddl · 02/07/2024 20:24

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 02/07/2024 19:25

Wasn't lying....bloody gorgeous! Peeled the lid off and dumped everything in there 🤤🤤

The lid looks fab-always my fave bit!

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