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Don’t donate Frey bentos pies to food banks

334 replies

isitworthit124 · 02/07/2024 15:52

They need a special can opener to get into them

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EmmaGrundyForPM · 03/07/2024 04:36

I'm not sure the OP knows how MN works.

Beautiful3 · 03/07/2024 06:51

The cheap tins of beans and soup always need tin openers. The ones with ring pulls are more expensive. It's worth getting a cheap tin opener. Those fray bentos pies are lovely. You're very lucky if you got one from the food bank. If you don't like it, bring it back for someone else in need.

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 03/07/2024 09:56

IamaRevenant · 02/07/2024 22:14

Gosh and such a traditional South American food!

Weird, isn't it? They don't even do a guinea pig variety!

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 03/07/2024 09:57

Mammyloveswine · 03/07/2024 00:16

Core memory unlocked of when now DH and I were students and I'd gone round his student house and all he had left to feed us was a frey bentos pie but he didn't own a tin opener...

Reader he managed to get into that pie and I married him! Grin

Did your eyebrows survive the blow torch?!

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 03/07/2024 10:02

EmmaGrundyForPM · 03/07/2024 04:36

I'm not sure the OP knows how MN works.

Reminds me of a brilliant Mitchell & Webb sketch, where David's character moves into a house on the high street that was very recently a shop.

He keeps the the sign, the large window (still full of stock) the bell and the "Come in, we're open!" sign - but then gets angrily perplexed at all of the 'crazy' people who keep intruding in his home!!

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 03/07/2024 10:04

Beautiful3 · 03/07/2024 06:51

The cheap tins of beans and soup always need tin openers. The ones with ring pulls are more expensive. It's worth getting a cheap tin opener. Those fray bentos pies are lovely. You're very lucky if you got one from the food bank. If you don't like it, bring it back for someone else in need.

There are exceptions, though. Branston beans - the best beans ever (no debate) - aren't especially cheap, but you still need a tin opener to get at the lovely beany goodness inside.

LadyCrumpet · 03/07/2024 10:24

Branston beans are nasty. They are too big and don't break down a bit after cooking.

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 03/07/2024 10:29

LadyCrumpet · 03/07/2024 10:24

Branston beans are nasty. They are too big and don't break down a bit after cooking.

We shall have to respectfully disagree!!

LadyCrumpet · 03/07/2024 10:31

Of course.

I do think we should be able to buy tins of bean juice, without the beans though.

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 03/07/2024 10:55

LadyCrumpet · 03/07/2024 10:31

Of course.

I do think we should be able to buy tins of bean juice, without the beans though.

It's weird that you can't, isn't it?!

LadyCrumpet · 03/07/2024 11:01

It is. There are loads of things I'd pour that all over.

MibsXX · 03/07/2024 11:05

isitworthit124 · 02/07/2024 15:52

They need a special can opener to get into them

That's not a nice piece of advice, apart from actually liking them ( and yes it is possible to cook the pastry nicely) I can make one of those feed 4 with some frozen veg and boiled potatoes added. That would be a rare real treat right now! They might be a little awkward to open sometime, but so is staring at empty cupboards and plates!

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 03/07/2024 11:07

LadyCrumpet · 03/07/2024 11:01

It is. There are loads of things I'd pour that all over.

I'd better not ask Grin

LadyCrumpet · 03/07/2024 11:08

😂

I was thinking chip shop chips etc

Beautiful3 · 03/07/2024 11:39

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 03/07/2024 10:04

There are exceptions, though. Branston beans - the best beans ever (no debate) - aren't especially cheap, but you still need a tin opener to get at the lovely beany goodness inside.

I love Branston beans! You're right they are the best, even better than Heinz. But I buy the cheapest ones now due to budget.

willWillSmithsmith · 03/07/2024 12:27

BeachParty · 02/07/2024 21:59

Lol, take the tin lid off! 😁
That's what all the time opener debate is about 😁

I thought that was for after it was cooked. 😁

QuickFetchTheCoffee · 03/07/2024 12:48

PinkCandles · 03/07/2024 01:34

I hope you served fray bentos at the wedding. In fact, I hope your wedding cake was 3 tiers of fray bentos tins.

Thanks for this. I have just sorted with laughter and can't possibly explain myself to my DH and DD 🤣🤣🤣

B0G0F · 03/07/2024 13:59

Only 3 layers! Shock You cheapskate.
I hope you're giving 'special' tin openers as wedding favours.

Pastimperfection · 03/07/2024 14:04

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 02/07/2024 18:30

Yes, this is what I don't understand either. Aren't people usually only allowed to use a foodbank for a very limited time?

I totally get that anybody can hit the skids financially, so all their food stocks (and other consumables) quickly get used up and they can't afford to buy more, hence they need to be provided with it; but wouldn't most clients have had the wherewithal to acquire a £1 tin opener at some point in the previous 10-20 years?

Many of out food bank clients really don’t have the money for a tin opener. After an appeal we did get some to give out, but once gone they are gone forever. At my food bank in East London most clients are in one room accommodations in hotels. The last thing they thought of packing when they fled their homeland was a tin opener.

Food boxes are packed before clients arrive so we do not know their living arrangements or what facilities they have. If you are donating , be guided by assuming that they have the minimum facilities. Our clients are appreciative of canned fish, canned meat, milk, breakfast cereal and soup. Using a night light candle to heat a tin a soup is quite common.

Those that have found themselves at a food bank may have had to sell possessions before they come to us. These ones may have an Air Fryer as suggested earlier but not many I suspect. As to last last question the answer is “no”

SummerTimeIsTheBest · 03/07/2024 16:42

stressedespresso · 02/07/2024 16:31

My rule of thumb is to never donate something to a food bank of a quality that I/my kids wouldn’t want to eat. Canned pies are one of those things!

Yup, same here. If it would gross me out then I’m not buying it (apart from baked beans!) Everyone else loves them but I don’t so I just buy DS’s favourite brand 🤷‍♀️

NiceCutRoundDomeDormice · 03/07/2024 22:55

stressedespresso · 02/07/2024 16:31

My rule of thumb is to never donate something to a food bank of a quality that I/my kids wouldn’t want to eat. Canned pies are one of those things!

This reminds me of a thread a few years ago from someone saying she thought it was “sad” that so many people donated own brand items to food banks, and that surely these poor people would like nice things sometimes?

I think it was borne out of cluelessness rather than malice, but it didn’t seem to occur to the OP that donating four 25p tins instead of one “nice” £1 could help someone eat at four mealtimes instead of one, or that four people could be helped. As an extension of that, there was no acknowledgment that many people who donate to food banks aren’t exactly dripping in diamonds themselves; that maybe the reason they donate own brands is because that’s all they can afford to buy themselves, or at least that it means they can afford to donate without negatively impacting their own food budget. Often people who aren’t that well off can be more generous donors, as the prospect of being in the same position is more real.

B0G0F · 03/07/2024 23:01

Qu'ils mangent de la brioche!

stressedespresso · 03/07/2024 23:08

NiceCutRoundDomeDormice · 03/07/2024 22:55

This reminds me of a thread a few years ago from someone saying she thought it was “sad” that so many people donated own brand items to food banks, and that surely these poor people would like nice things sometimes?

I think it was borne out of cluelessness rather than malice, but it didn’t seem to occur to the OP that donating four 25p tins instead of one “nice” £1 could help someone eat at four mealtimes instead of one, or that four people could be helped. As an extension of that, there was no acknowledgment that many people who donate to food banks aren’t exactly dripping in diamonds themselves; that maybe the reason they donate own brands is because that’s all they can afford to buy themselves, or at least that it means they can afford to donate without negatively impacting their own food budget. Often people who aren’t that well off can be more generous donors, as the prospect of being in the same position is more real.

I’ve got nothing against own brands, my opinion is not down to snobbery or naivety. Unfortunately i have lived in poverty before. I simply just would never donate a ‘meat’ pie that hardly contains any actual meat or nutrients to a person in need. If I wouldn’t feed it to the dog I certainly wouldn’t give it to another human!

B0G0F · 03/07/2024 23:15

So no raisins or chocolate in the foodbank then.

stressedespresso · 03/07/2024 23:30

B0G0F · 03/07/2024 23:15

So no raisins or chocolate in the foodbank then.

Don’t act deliberately dense.

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