Well, she doesn't have to look after anyone does she Em, that's her choice.
Dinner sounds lovely Wrecked.
We are having chicken, marinated with balsamic vinegar and olive oil, oregano and garlic. Then laid on a slice of seeded bread, with a dollop of cream cheese and a mushroom on top and roasted in the oven, with baby toms and asparagus, also marinated in the same. Nom. Strangely, it's another JO recipe. 
Today.
£20 to DH for cash for a funeral.
£25 cleaner.
£29 reindeer. I will post a picture tomorrow and you can name him. I am too busy having a G&T and MN'ing to move. I got soaked on my dog walk then doing the pony and, in an unfrugal manner put the heating up to get warm again, chilled to the bone.
My good deed for the month is to donate to the local food bank. You can drop off at the local supermarket. They are very short of tins and toiletries at present. If I can't afford to buy some of these at Aldi and drop them off then I am a very bad person.