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Vaccine or not?

295 replies

vaccineornot · 01/04/2025 19:46

I’m not sure if it’s possible to have a rational conversation about it but I’ll post!
I’ve had vaccines, missed my last as I was unwell and couldn’t rebook in time

I am doubting myself massively about whether I should have more or not
My doctor and consultant say basically “duh, yes, why wouldn’t you”

Social media seems to be (before anyone tells me not to listen, it’s every single person I see) that it’s a scam, a con, the vaccines don’t do anything, the more I have the higher the risk and the push NOT to have it is so strong that I’m thinking am I wrong to have it?
I just can’t seem to work out if I’m more at risk from Covid (which people are saying is a load of shit anyway) or more at risk from the vaccine (which everyone is saying is dangerous to health)

NC as I don’t want people thinking I’m an idiot for questioning myself

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Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 08:46

Cornettoninja · 03/04/2025 08:45

well we were very close to being forced

I know what you mean. I was very close to being run over the other day, walking on the pavement right by a busy road.

honestly, what makes anyone think it’s appropriate to come on a thread started by someone debating their current medical situation and start harping on about a decision they took over four years ago? How is anything you’re saying relevant?

someone said no one is forced , so it's relevant to say we nearly were. ( which we were).
Sorry you had a scare with traffic

Cornettoninja · 03/04/2025 08:47

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 08:45

sorry, I was asking why not having this one injection makes a person anti vax?
You seem to have typed random nonsense and capitals.
Maybe start a thread on measles vaccination if that's what interests you/

Why are you asking that on this particular thread? Do you believe it benefits someone who has medical issues that have carried on longer than the initial vaccine programme and has more things to consider than years old grievances?

verysmellyjelly · 03/04/2025 08:47

Emma543 · 03/04/2025 08:46

It’s a very personal choice
I have an autoimmune condition and immunosuppressed and I haven’t had any further vaccines since the first two. I’ve had Covid multiple times and had no worse than a headache, didn’t feel for me personally it was necessary.

How is this relevant to the overwhelming data showing the vaccine is safe and Covid itself carries many risks of complications?

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fourelementary · 03/04/2025 08:48

HCAokay · 01/04/2025 19:52

Well, covid killed my vulnerable spouse last year, despite them being fully vaccinated and having iv antivirals.

My friends DH was in intensive care on a ventilator at the beginning before vaccines, he’s now a shell of a man with long term health conditions he never had before, and has again been hospitalised with Covid this winter, despite being vaccinated, because he is now in the vulnerable category.

If you are so vulnerable that you are eligible this spring, despite the shrinking eligibility criteria, then ime you’d be crazy not to.

I obviously know of many others who have suffered despite the vaccine, compared to the odd handful who regret having the vaccine, but the above are very personal to me.

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I’m so sorry for your loss- that sounds awful. However even you are saying that despite full vaccination he still died. So how exactly did having the vaccination help?

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 08:48

Cornettoninja · 03/04/2025 08:47

Why are you asking that on this particular thread? Do you believe it benefits someone who has medical issues that have carried on longer than the initial vaccine programme and has more things to consider than years old grievances?

I'm asking because it's bizare that if people take all other vaccines but not this one they are ridiculed as being anti vaxxers.
It's odd and I'd like a rational explanation from one of those people

verysmellyjelly · 03/04/2025 08:49

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 08:48

I'm asking because it's bizare that if people take all other vaccines but not this one they are ridiculed as being anti vaxxers.
It's odd and I'd like a rational explanation from one of those people

If you spread misinformation and use antivaxxer rhetoric, you will be called an antivaxxer.

RiversofOtter5 · 03/04/2025 08:49

Community health ain't a personal choice.

Refusing to recognise our responsibility to participate in community health emergency interventions is an active choice to put individualism above the common good and science.

Bye.

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 08:49

fourelementary · 03/04/2025 08:48

I’m so sorry for your loss- that sounds awful. However even you are saying that despite full vaccination he still died. So how exactly did having the vaccination help?

yes, I wondered that

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 08:50

RiversofOtter5 · 03/04/2025 08:49

Community health ain't a personal choice.

Refusing to recognise our responsibility to participate in community health emergency interventions is an active choice to put individualism above the common good and science.

Bye.

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wow.
It's like travelling back in time!

BoredZelda · 03/04/2025 08:51

DaisyChain505 · 01/04/2025 19:49

I’ve met countless people who’ve had the jab and say they regret it yet not one single person who hasn’t had it and says the regret it.

That being said, it’s a personal choice to make.

To be fair, quite a lot of them died from Covid.

Emma543 · 03/04/2025 08:53

verysmellyjelly · 03/04/2025 08:47

How is this relevant to the overwhelming data showing the vaccine is safe and Covid itself carries many risks of complications?

Did I ever say this was ‘relevant to the data’??
I was just expressing my personal choice on a discussion board but I can see you are very quick to jump down peoples throats.
I felt more unwell after the vaccination than with Covid therefore as I stated my personal choice was to not have any further vaccinations.

verysmellyjelly · 03/04/2025 08:54

Emma543 · 03/04/2025 08:53

Did I ever say this was ‘relevant to the data’??
I was just expressing my personal choice on a discussion board but I can see you are very quick to jump down peoples throats.
I felt more unwell after the vaccination than with Covid therefore as I stated my personal choice was to not have any further vaccinations.

So you’re just randomly trying to use an anecdote to manipulate OP’s emotions.

MajorCarolDanvers · 03/04/2025 08:57

I have all my jags including Covid and flu.

both are horrible illnesses and I happily take the jag to lessen my chances of catching them or lessen the effects if I do.

what do you think the con is?

Emma543 · 03/04/2025 09:02

verysmellyjelly · 03/04/2025 08:54

So you’re just randomly trying to use an anecdote to manipulate OP’s emotions.

The OP asked for discussion and I gave my personal experience this is literally what this site is for.. discussion
how is that manipulation?
you know you can have discussions without being aggressive don’t you?

Growlybear83 · 03/04/2025 09:03

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You might find it funny that I was extremely ill last week, but it wasn’t very amusing for me, I can assure you.

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 09:03

verysmellyjelly · 03/04/2025 08:49

If you spread misinformation and use antivaxxer rhetoric, you will be called an antivaxxer.

Again ( this is hard work) if someone has had all other vaccines, how can they be an anti vaxxer?

Parker231 · 03/04/2025 09:06

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Antivaxxers don’t have strong evidence so use the same unsubstantiated narratives repeatedly. You would have thought they would have learned something by now.

BoredZelda · 03/04/2025 09:23

vaccineornot · 02/04/2025 22:47

I’m not misleading? I’m genuinely opening a conversation as I was starting to question myself

“genuinely” 🤔

You are clearly not on the fence. You aren’t asking for advice. There are plenty of more informed places you can go for information, but you chose to ask this viper’s nest, known for having a whole load of anti-vaxxers on it.

The peer reviewed scientific data, the worldwide statistics on the efficacy and safety of the vaccine is easily found. There is absolutely no evidence the vaccine is harming people in large numbers despite nearly 14 billion doses having been given. The world went nuts when half a dozen people in the U.K. had an issue with blood clots early on. It was thought to be an issue in 0.001% of cases. Don’t you think if even 1% of people had suffered major adverse effects, the sheer number would make it obvious there was a problem and if nothing else, the thousands of scientists who study such things would be researching it?

Anyone who, instead of looking at the easily found data, goes on an Internet forum to find answers to this is definitely not genuine.

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 09:55

BoredZelda · 03/04/2025 09:23

“genuinely” 🤔

You are clearly not on the fence. You aren’t asking for advice. There are plenty of more informed places you can go for information, but you chose to ask this viper’s nest, known for having a whole load of anti-vaxxers on it.

The peer reviewed scientific data, the worldwide statistics on the efficacy and safety of the vaccine is easily found. There is absolutely no evidence the vaccine is harming people in large numbers despite nearly 14 billion doses having been given. The world went nuts when half a dozen people in the U.K. had an issue with blood clots early on. It was thought to be an issue in 0.001% of cases. Don’t you think if even 1% of people had suffered major adverse effects, the sheer number would make it obvious there was a problem and if nothing else, the thousands of scientists who study such things would be researching it?

Anyone who, instead of looking at the easily found data, goes on an Internet forum to find answers to this is definitely not genuine.

Half a dozen people with blood clots?
What a nasty minimising thing to say.
And why are you being so unpleasant to somebody asking a genuine question?
If people can only get comments, advice. Suggestions from official sources why are you offering an opinion on here? Your answer can not be in any way genuine or useful as you are not linking to a peer reviewed paper

Ladamesansmerci · 03/04/2025 10:07

Don't draw conclusions based on anecdotal statements from social media. Spend some time learning how to appraise research literature, use an appropriate database, and have a look at peer reviewed journal articles. There are numerous looking at the safety of the vaccine. There will always be unexpected reactions to medications, because all medications come with risks. It's whether this is statistically significantly. The overwhelming majority of the evidence demonstrates the vaccine is safe.

I have it because I work with the elderly, and I'll continue to have it.

I'm not sure why anyone thinks there is some worldwide conspiracy around COVID and why they think all the world governments would agree to such a thing, tbh.

Ineedcoffee2021 · 03/04/2025 10:19

DaisyChain505 · 01/04/2025 19:49

I’ve met countless people who’ve had the jab and say they regret it yet not one single person who hasn’t had it and says the regret it.

That being said, it’s a personal choice to make.

Exactly this

I have no regrets about not getting it, even though i lost my job and took 2 years to find another, thankfully better job

I know many who regret taking it, for some its been life changing in horrible ways

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 10:23

Ladamesansmerci · 03/04/2025 10:07

Don't draw conclusions based on anecdotal statements from social media. Spend some time learning how to appraise research literature, use an appropriate database, and have a look at peer reviewed journal articles. There are numerous looking at the safety of the vaccine. There will always be unexpected reactions to medications, because all medications come with risks. It's whether this is statistically significantly. The overwhelming majority of the evidence demonstrates the vaccine is safe.

I have it because I work with the elderly, and I'll continue to have it.

I'm not sure why anyone thinks there is some worldwide conspiracy around COVID and why they think all the world governments would agree to such a thing, tbh.

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I'm not sure lots of people think it's a conspiracy. That's a lazy insult from people who for some reason are furious that others don't want it.
For the vast majority it's simply that the risk assessment for them personally means their choice is not to have it. No aliens, no bill Gates, no nanobots, just a look at the data.

Cornettoninja · 03/04/2025 10:26

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 08:48

I'm asking because it's bizare that if people take all other vaccines but not this one they are ridiculed as being anti vaxxers.
It's odd and I'd like a rational explanation from one of those people

Maybe start a generic thread about that then instead of shoehorning your personal beefs into discussions where someone is clearly trying to make a personal decision and your rhetoric is completely redundant given they’ve already had numerous vaccines to date.

Mightymoog · 03/04/2025 10:28

Cornettoninja · 03/04/2025 10:26

Maybe start a generic thread about that then instead of shoehorning your personal beefs into discussions where someone is clearly trying to make a personal decision and your rhetoric is completely redundant given they’ve already had numerous vaccines to date.

It's a discussion board.
The op was asking opinions.
I take it you have no rational explanation fir why people are called anti vax if they have all vaccines except the covid one?

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