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I hope your DH manages not to get covid & his cancer is treatable 🌸
Your DS sounds lovely!!
Limiting tradespeople coming into your house is very sensible in your situation. Don't take any of the comments personally.[/quote]
Thanks for that. Yes, his cancer is treatable but not curable, and requires him to be on chemo permanently (along with a cocktail of other drugs), which really take it out of him, so he'll never be the same again, and will always be limited as to what he can physically do, plus a much reduced life expectancy as the effectiveness of chemo/treatments will start to wane and organs will start to fail.
Just typical that it all started just before Covid, so he's been unable to actually get out and enjoy life whilst he can. He's already struggling healthwise in some ways, so we have to do what we can, when we can, and unfortunately, the high numbers of Covid infections at the moment doesn't help. The chemo has caused suppressed immunity so he's at the highest risk of not surviving covid if he catches it!
We've pushed our son out to live in a student flat at uni, whereas he'd intended to live at home and commute (he'd already chosen our city Uni before DH was diagnosed). We don't want him mixing in lectures and socialising and then coming home potentially with covid.
I've had to scale back my business as I can't risk meeting clients in person, catching it from that kind of contact, and then taking it home to him!
I fully understand people who don't get paid when off isolating, but there are also people who are struggling because of the elevated risk of covid due to the high rates at the moment. It's a shame that it's become so binary as to those taking precautions and those taking no precautions at all because they no longer care!