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Anyone else done now?

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VeryMuchSo13 · 21/01/2022 19:26

Know I'll get slated but I'm so past caring.

Anyone else just completely done with it now? Ran out of LFTs ages ago and I'll never do another again, wouldn't even go for a PCR now with symptoms tbh. I'd stay in until I felt better like I do with everything else and then crack on.

The only reason I wear masks in shops is because of people moaning if you don't. As soon as it's no longer required that'll be in the bin.

I actually took it really seriously the past two years and did everything we were supposed to. Triple jabbed etc etc... But I can't be arsed giving it anymore headspace now. I'm sick of hearing about it, sick of seeing it on the news, sick of people talking about it.

From today on I highly doubt I'll ever voluntarily think about Covid again, in a way that restricts anything I do anyway.

OP posts:
HariboMaroon · 24/01/2022 11:19

@Blubells

One of my kids is a teen. They were not “forced” to homeschool. We chose not too.

PandorasBex · 24/01/2022 11:25

@VikingOnTheFridge

Nothing about the comment you made, including any attempt at irony, would work without the premise that doing the things you advocate for would make covid go away. Either you think these measures would get rid of covid, or you know they wouldn't and you chose your words badly. It's one of the two.

She is doing nothing, Viking. I don't believe that's a great approach. Of course, one person's response isn't going to make an overall difference. However, all measures combined do. I don't care what your opinion is.

VikingOnTheFridge · 24/01/2022 11:34

[quote PandorasBex]@VikingOnTheFridge

Nothing about the comment you made, including any attempt at irony, would work without the premise that doing the things you advocate for would make covid go away. Either you think these measures would get rid of covid, or you know they wouldn't and you chose your words badly. It's one of the two.

She is doing nothing, Viking. I don't believe that's a great approach. Of course, one person's response isn't going to make an overall difference. However, all measures combined do. I don't care what your opinion is.[/quote]
Goalpost move.

We're talking about your remark on ending covid, not what you think about measures making a difference that you (presumably) reckon stops short of actually making it go away. I don't care what you think on that issue and it isn't relevant to the point being discussed.

ToastofLandon · 24/01/2022 11:41

I feel the exact same OP. I’m done.

beentoldcomputersaysno · 24/01/2022 11:50

If it's any consolation @PandorasBex, I understand what you're saying. I also admire your patience!

VikingOnTheFridge · 24/01/2022 11:53

It's a shame she doesn't appear to understand what she said.

shedevill · 24/01/2022 12:28

YANBU

knobblykneesandturnedouttoes · 24/01/2022 12:36

Don't really understand those who say they are 'done' with covid.

Do they think the rest of us are loving it!?
Unfortunately some people still have to think about covid. Those suffering, those with loved ones dying, those whose livelihoods have been ruined.

Covid is still a major factor in many people's lives and I would imagine not one of them is choosing for that to be the case.

curiousmum3 · 24/01/2022 16:38

@PandorasBex Ohhh maybe Wink... or maybe the people making the rules themselves ?? Cheese and wine anyone ??
I followed lockdown on maternity leave thank you very much. Covid did not go away. I'm done with it. Done following the 'rules' that are so life and death that even the people making them aren't following them.
Vaccine is there if you'd like to project yourself hun!

curiousmum3 · 24/01/2022 16:42

protect*

FoamBurst · 24/01/2022 16:49

Yep. Was done last summer tbh.
I dont wear a mask anyway as exempt.
I go about my life as normal. As is pretty much everyone I know.
Apart from one of my dcs who currently has covid now and tbh he's had worse colds and had his df not have tested him he would have gone to school unbeknown.

And yes I'm one of those who didn't participate in then LD 2 and 3. Because of mine and my dcs MH.

I'm done. If I get it then so be it.

blackcurrantjam · 24/01/2022 18:11

I'm not sure covid is going away. It's certainly doing the rounds round here! It's ripping through the local primary at an extraordinary rate! Seriously, lots of the school have it - teachers, support staff, students, parents of students. My niece is a teacher and she has been what has felt to her SURROUNDED by covid since the beginning. But we are at the point where the show must go on! Our children need to be at school, we need to be at work, life must continue Confused

dippywhentired · 24/01/2022 19:59

I'm reading this thread with a mixture of envy and despair! We live in the US in a rural town in New England where it feels as though we will never be 'done' with Covid. My kids have to wear masks at all times at school, apart from when eating and in the playground. There's talk of them making N95s compulsory for them as well. This is in spite of the town having over 90% of the population fully vaccinated (and children over the age of 5 are eligible here too).

The town has a board of health who put a mask mandate in place for all indoor spaces. The town adjacent to us only has a mask advisory, so I can go to the gym in the next town over with no mask, but have to wear one in the supermarket in our town.

Covid numbers skyrocketed in the schools at the beginning of January, in spite of the compulsory masks and the majority of the kids/staff being fully vaccinated. Now they're coming down again. But listening to some people here, they never want things to go back to normal ever. It's so fucking depressing! If we don't go back to normal now, then when? Covid isn't going anywhere and everyone over the age of 5 (here) who wants to be, is vaccinated. I just don't understand the end game.

DockOTheBay · 24/01/2022 21:44

Yep I've had enough and have done since about July when I had my second jab.

We have done a PCR test in that time because DD was sent home from school with a temp so we had to get one so she could return. And I did LFTs when we saw relatives at Christmas, because they asked us to and I don't want to make people I love uncomfortable.

I couldn't care less about masks, regular LFTs and so on.

treeflowercat · 24/01/2022 22:08

@dippywhentired

I'm reading this thread with a mixture of envy and despair! We live in the US in a rural town in New England where it feels as though we will never be 'done' with Covid. My kids have to wear masks at all times at school, apart from when eating and in the playground. There's talk of them making N95s compulsory for them as well. This is in spite of the town having over 90% of the population fully vaccinated (and children over the age of 5 are eligible here too).

The town has a board of health who put a mask mandate in place for all indoor spaces. The town adjacent to us only has a mask advisory, so I can go to the gym in the next town over with no mask, but have to wear one in the supermarket in our town.

Covid numbers skyrocketed in the schools at the beginning of January, in spite of the compulsory masks and the majority of the kids/staff being fully vaccinated. Now they're coming down again. But listening to some people here, they never want things to go back to normal ever. It's so fucking depressing! If we don't go back to normal now, then when? Covid isn't going anywhere and everyone over the age of 5 (here) who wants to be, is vaccinated. I just don't understand the end game.

The USA really does seem like a land of extremes when it comes to Covid. Those advocating continuing restrictions here seem rather mild compared to some of the Covid apocalypse attitudes that seem prevalent in the US.
dippywhentired · 24/01/2022 23:26

@treeflowercat
Definitely! The states can make rules/recommendations but towns also have a lot of power to be more cautious than the state. MA is vastly different to the complete lack of restrictions in FL, for example.

Emergency73 · 25/01/2022 05:20

@VikingOnTheFridge
@User387598621

No - I’m not ‘done’ with Covid.

There was a comment earlier about “ring fence the vulnerable” which made me recoil. I then looked at another thread which had a similar theme, or was dismissing the vulnerable and there was a link to this:

People with pre-existing conditions are real people. Their lives matter. They are your parents, your grandparents, your friends, your children. Very possibly you.
If you are seriously making the argument that only 17,371 people have really died from COVID then you are saying that the ~140,000 people who died with pre-existing conditions were expendible and didn't matter.
I hope it's obvious that that is an utterly repulsive and morally indefensible position.

Don't even think about trying to make that argument to me.

It’s just hideous that people are so dismissive of the vulnerable. What kind of society are you looking for - a world that is full only if the ‘hearty henchmen” that were mentioned on another thread?

It is only on these Mumsnet threads that I hear these sort of appalling suggestions or perhaps if I tried to read the manifesto of an extreme political party.

We work together as a society, those vulnerable to Covid are NOT just expendable. They are loved, have loved ones, are part of families.

We appear to have forgotten about the gift of being alive - to have conscious thought, to experience life, to think, feel, to care, to love. It IS a repulsive idea to suggest that some are more ‘worthy’ of this gift than others - and to keep pushing for a course of events that could have resulted in many millions more dying, and losing that gift worldwide.

NothingIsWrong · 25/01/2022 06:43

[quote Emergency73]@VikingOnTheFridge
@User387598621

No - I’m not ‘done’ with Covid.

There was a comment earlier about “ring fence the vulnerable” which made me recoil. I then looked at another thread which had a similar theme, or was dismissing the vulnerable and there was a link to this:

People with pre-existing conditions are real people. Their lives matter. They are your parents, your grandparents, your friends, your children. Very possibly you.
If you are seriously making the argument that only 17,371 people have really died from COVID then you are saying that the ~140,000 people who died with pre-existing conditions were expendible and didn't matter.
I hope it's obvious that that is an utterly repulsive and morally indefensible position.

Don't even think about trying to make that argument to me.

It’s just hideous that people are so dismissive of the vulnerable. What kind of society are you looking for - a world that is full only if the ‘hearty henchmen” that were mentioned on another thread?

It is only on these Mumsnet threads that I hear these sort of appalling suggestions or perhaps if I tried to read the manifesto of an extreme political party.

We work together as a society, those vulnerable to Covid are NOT just expendable. They are loved, have loved ones, are part of families.

We appear to have forgotten about the gift of being alive - to have conscious thought, to experience life, to think, feel, to care, to love. It IS a repulsive idea to suggest that some are more ‘worthy’ of this gift than others - and to keep pushing for a course of events that could have resulted in many millions more dying, and losing that gift worldwide.[/quote]
Ah. But those of us vulnerable to mental health issues who have been denied face to face appropriate care, told to be more resilient, failed by mental health services, and basically told we aren't making enough effort to take care of the vulnerable? Abused for being selfish when we point out how we struggled?

That's perfectly OK. Gotcha.

Also, countless vulnerable children who have been abandoned to abusive parents at home because schools and social services shut down? That's absolutely fine and couldn't possibly have been predicted at all. Women and children forced into their homes with abusers A O FUCKING K.

That's all fine because we are protecting those who YOU deem vulnerable.

And then those missed cancer diagnoses, limited maternity services leading to women giving birth alone, people denied the ability to see their parents, siblings and even a child in once case while they died in hospital? Care home residents left to deteriorate without visits?

That's all just fucking fine.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 25/01/2022 06:57

[quote Emergency73]@VikingOnTheFridge
@User387598621

No - I’m not ‘done’ with Covid.

There was a comment earlier about “ring fence the vulnerable” which made me recoil. I then looked at another thread which had a similar theme, or was dismissing the vulnerable and there was a link to this:

People with pre-existing conditions are real people. Their lives matter. They are your parents, your grandparents, your friends, your children. Very possibly you.
If you are seriously making the argument that only 17,371 people have really died from COVID then you are saying that the ~140,000 people who died with pre-existing conditions were expendible and didn't matter.
I hope it's obvious that that is an utterly repulsive and morally indefensible position.

Don't even think about trying to make that argument to me.

It’s just hideous that people are so dismissive of the vulnerable. What kind of society are you looking for - a world that is full only if the ‘hearty henchmen” that were mentioned on another thread?

It is only on these Mumsnet threads that I hear these sort of appalling suggestions or perhaps if I tried to read the manifesto of an extreme political party.

We work together as a society, those vulnerable to Covid are NOT just expendable. They are loved, have loved ones, are part of families.

We appear to have forgotten about the gift of being alive - to have conscious thought, to experience life, to think, feel, to care, to love. It IS a repulsive idea to suggest that some are more ‘worthy’ of this gift than others - and to keep pushing for a course of events that could have resulted in many millions more dying, and losing that gift worldwide.[/quote]
What course of action would you take then?

It's clear that low level restrictions are not working. It's just lip service at this point. But harsher restrictions are not sustainable long term. So seriously, what is your solution?

tigger1001 · 25/01/2022 08:15

"worldwide.
Ah. But those of us vulnerable to mental health issues who have been denied face to face appropriate care, told to be more resilient, failed by mental health services, and basically told we aren't making enough effort to take care of the vulnerable? Abused for being selfish when we point out how we struggled?

That's perfectly OK. Gotcha.

Also, countless vulnerable children who have been abandoned to abusive parents at home because schools and social services shut down? That's absolutely fine and couldn't possibly have been predicted at all. Women and children forced into their homes with abusers A O FUCKING K.

That's all fine because we are protecting those who YOU deem vulnerable.

And then those missed cancer diagnoses, limited maternity services leading to women giving birth alone, people denied the ability to see their parents, siblings and even a child in once case while they died in hospital? Care home residents left to deteriorate without visits?

That's all just fucking fine."

I agree. People have forgotten there is more than covid out there. Mental health services, which were already struggling, are overwhelmed with work. I honestly think we are walking into a massive mental health crisis but little will be done.

Lockdown itself caused issues re mental well-being.

VikingOnTheFridge · 25/01/2022 09:41

@Emergency73 I'm replying to you here rather than on the other thread where you posted a duplicate. In case you miss me pointing it out there, following people round the board trying to have the same argument on multiple threads is weird stalker shit and @MNHQ don't allow it.

And now to your point.

It's equal parts hilarious and revolting that you imagine yourself to have the moral high ground here. Your post contains no acknowledgement whatsoever of the suffering caused to the vulnerable by lockdowns, or of the inevitability that giving the state powers like these would mean them being exercised in racist, classist ways, against those with least power. That's just fine then! Clearly no fucks given about the elderly and sick people who died because the breakdown in normal social activity meant they had nobody looking out for them (eugenics, anyone?) or those locked in with their abusers for months on end. The entrenching of inequality that inevitably results from school closures, inequality being something that steals years off lives just as sure as covid, but not even a mention of this from you. Because you don't even recognise it.

You've got a faith based approach that it would've been even worse without lockdown, so their suffering doesn't even merit a mention. Because only the lives of some people matter, and if yours was ended, is liable to be shorter or worse because of the long term impact of restrictions or was made a living hell by restrictions instead of covid, oh well. Collateral.

UnicornsReal · 25/01/2022 09:49

Had a conversation with a friend who hasn’t been anywhere for two years apart from to see her elderly mother. She tells me she is fine having a coffee outdoors but won’t go inside anywhere. She foresees no end to that and is happy with it. This is what lockdown has done to people.

VikingOnTheFridge · 25/01/2022 09:49

@UnicornsReal

Had a conversation with a friend who hasn’t been anywhere for two years apart from to see her elderly mother. She tells me she is fine having a coffee outdoors but won’t go inside anywhere. She foresees no end to that and is happy with it. This is what lockdown has done to people.
Poor woman.
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