I am struggling with this so much. I have no right to complain at all but its hard and I have no where else to moan!
My husband worked out of the home every day before covid. Then it swapped to working from home where possible through 2020. It was so so tough having 2 kids off homeschooling and him working from home expecting absolute silence during his meetings etc. Luckily I'm a sahm so didn't have to worry about my work on that front. It was just something we all had to get through wasn't it? I didn't think it would be for long.
Life slowly returned more back to normal, kids went back, and husband decided he was going to work from home probably 95% of the time. He will go in now and again as he is senior management at a food production company. But he mostly chooses not to.for no reason apart from laziness which he admits. He has become extremely lazy. He doesn't get dressed or shower very often. He sits on the sofa under a blanket with his laptop and basically never moves. Never leaves the house. I feel absolutely smothered.
Before covid I suffered with depression and anxiety. Covid made it a lot worse. I am very introverted and I get very mentally drained being around people for a long time. I have to spend an hour or so by myself every now and again to reset myself and then I'm OK for another few days. Now I can't do this at all because there is always someone here. I have no life of my own because I don't work.
My son has just recovered from covid so I've had all that to deal with. Due back to school tomorrow. I felt like there was a light at the end of the tunnel. Then it snowed. Now husband saying I'll stay home this week when he had planned on going in for a couple of days. I feel like screaming. I've had to come upstairs for a few mins. I feel terrible saying I don't want my own husband here! It's not his fault! Bit work and homelife should be kept seperate. It's just ground hog day with no end to it 