@BelleSausage
“hmm really? You’ll give up going to Cornwall forever just because it has been suggested that it was selfish to go now and spread a possibly deadly disease.
Honestly, the entitlement.”
No not at all. I’ve never objected to not going during COVID. And if people had just talked about COVID I might feel differently.
But it’s become apparent that the residents of the lovely places where I was spending vast quantities of money loathe people like me. Properly loathe us. Clearly tolerate us in the good times only under sufferance.
I’m afraid it has changed my view completely. I was trying to think of a birthday or Christmas gift I’ve bought for my parents, siblings, nieces and nephews in the last 5 years that wasn’t bought in some crafty/arty/pottery/artisan place at a far higher price than I could get something perfectly ok from a high street shop and I could only think of one Christmas when I’d been ill for most of October and November so bought stuff online.
So no it’s not entitlement. I used to feel entitled to go to places from Devon and Cornwall. A branch of my family hails from the north Devon coast. But I don’t feel welcome. Not just during COVID. That’s a given - I would never visit during COVID. But I now don’t feel welcome at all. Because the things that have been said make clear many people there really don’t like visitors and don’t feel grateful we visit. My great aunt lived in Devon and was always horrid about tourists. I just bought it was her. It clearly wasn’t.
So I doubt I will visit often. I’m not sure I’ll visit at all. The group is planning a series of UK city breaks for post- Covid.
Current planned itinerary is Edinburgh, Bath, Oxford, Canterbury, Dundee and Cambridge. Planning to stay in lovely hotels and visit all the tourist spots! Dates will depend on COVID of course.
But this is the reality. 12 people don’t want to visit those places any more. And interesting that you particularly mention Devon and Cornwall as everyone agrees they are the places we all feel most strongly we don’t want to return to now.
The Welsh seem not to have pissed any of us off so there might well be trips there too.
Other places are a mixture.
But it’s not because we couldn’t visit during COVID. It’s because we realise we were never really welcome.