Things will improve in terms of what we can and can't do.
I'm pretty straight down the line with what the current situation is and how it is affecting civil liberties and freedom.
But it will improve.
It's just not going to be quick, in the sense that it's going to go on for considerably longer than most people have got their heads around and the government are saying outright and bluntly.
The government are being to prepare the public for this reality and this is apparent from a number of comments that have been made in the last few days.
It's not going to be without cost though. There are a lot of families who are going to lose someone and its going to be particularly hard if you are of a certain age and/or have certain health conditions.
At some point everyone is going to have to come to terms with this, because 'reality'. It's not something we have an active choice in.
I personally am doing OK without an end date, because I have in my head what needs to happen for it to be safe / or to be reassured by science available. And I can see daily progress in that from the data we are given in press conferences. It's a language I understand and although there is no firm end I can process this. Plus I've got my head around how prolonged this might be (which was not easy at first but its something everyone has to deal with at some point)
I also understand that not everyone can read data and politics in the way I do (it's like a picture I can draw in my head of the world). And I understand there is something if a need for people to feel they are moving forward rather than stuck in some sort of limbo. It's psychologically important and I'm not sure the government are really providing this.
I was talking to a friend in New Zealand who said she was looking forward to 'Level 3 of lockdown' where it would be at the level of the UK so she could get a takeaway. I thought that was a really good idea. They have split lock down into levels which are clearly defined in what you can and can't do, and the country can move up and down levels depending on where the outbreak is at. They've been told that if things progress as projected they reach the next level and lockdown can be relaxed a bit. And that stage should last around a fortnight - again with caveats on things going to plan - with schools reopening at that next level.
It makes it easier for everyone to see where things are and almost incentivises people to keep to the plan. It gives people a psychological guide.
If things are tightened up again, that will be tough but I think that's true if everywhere.
I kind of wish the government could draw up some kind of parameters along these lines.
The fact they aren't just highlights to me that they haven't done this, and there isn't a cohesive plan on what happens next. I don't think the leadership vacuum with Johnson on sick leave and Raab determined not to ruffle feathers and make unilateral decisions in Johnson's absence helps in the slightest. It just adds to the overall feeling of 'is this ever going to end' and the government not being in control of the situation which unnerved people even if they don't realise exactly what is unnerving them.
It's frustrating and exacerbates the sense of not being in control of your life.
As I say, despite what others perceive to be my very pessimistic tone, I do think things will relax and improve. Simply because the desire for change for the better isn't going away. Life won't be the same as before - a lot of things needed to change - but we also don't know what those changes will be.
In this sense we will come out of this with a mentality and an idea of the futures we want in a much clearer vision because people have had so much time to reflect on it.
In the midtime, it's about living in the moment and just getting through individual days rather than constantly wishing away your life or constantly dreaming of a future event such as a holiday that's just never going to happen this summer.
This is a long haul. We need mental stamina for it. And for that we psychologically need to understand and prepare for that which is what the government are proving to be poor at.
It won't be like this indefinitely. We just have to learn patience.