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The positive mental health thread - part 4

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Spudlet · 23/03/2020 19:39

Keeping it positive, keeping our sanity, people 👍

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Millie2013 · 28/03/2020 12:02

How very dare you suggest their kid has a mere common cold or other inconsequential viral infection Grin

Millie2013 · 28/03/2020 12:03

I’m in a very hot and very deep radox bubble bath, the original herbal variety, with a cup of tea. It feels terribly decadent on a Saturday lunchtime, when I’d usually be rushing around

GuyFawkesDay · 28/03/2020 12:10

Had a long lie in.

Ate yesterday's baking spoils for brunch. Yum.

Today I will clean the house and drink much tea

Spudlet · 28/03/2020 12:15

Had a proper lie-in and breakfast in bed today! Started my period and was feeling grim so I was looked after 😊 I even got the iPad so I could watch Netflix guilt free. Have had to get up now though....

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CommanderShepard · 28/03/2020 12:30

Oxford are ready to trial a vaccine. If they'll have me, I'm in.

Bunnyflop · 28/03/2020 12:34

That’s fantastic news @commandershepard

Arcadia · 28/03/2020 12:42

I'm in Oxford @CommanderShepard. We're all very clever here!! And we have three households of doctors living within 6 doors of us!

CommanderShepard · 28/03/2020 12:47

@Arcadia it's a handy place to live, that's for sure! I was in another trial last year, so I don't know if I'll qualify, but I'm in Headington so the Churchill is a quick cycle away 👍

Arcadia · 28/03/2020 13:08

Ooh I'm in Headington too @CommanderShepard - we know loads of NHS people and scientists/academics around here and my partner works at the hospital too

Arcadia · 28/03/2020 13:08

Totally outing myself but never mind! Grin

Bouncingbomb · 28/03/2020 13:25

I have ironed all clean linen bedding here and changed the beds 😳. Ironing only happens at Christmas generally when I have two weeks at home.

I have also put a ‘gloss’ on my hair, bumble and bumble clear gloss - I discovered it last year - my hairdresser charges £30 for a glossing treatment whereas I get 4 treatments out of a £30 tube. #lookinggood 😂😂😂😂

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 28/03/2020 13:47

Hurrah for Oxford!

I am about to embark on an interesting little job. Normally I would simply go and buy new, but that isn't possible just at the moment, so....

My lovely thick comfortable feather pillow that my mother gave me burst some time last week, about four inches along one seam. I discovered this when I was changing the bedding on Thursday and when I took the outer pillowcase off, there were feathers everywhere. So I frantically stuffed them all back into it and put the whole lot outside the back door, outer pillow-case, under-pillow-case and pillow, whilst I thought for a while, then investigated and discovered the split seam... Urgh! Tiny feathers feel horrible when you are rootling among them to find out what's going on inside what amounts to a large cloth bag.

Thank the powers it's been a fine two days. Whenever I've felt strong enough to face it I've gone outside and done a bit more feather-wrangling, which is boring and difficult and sneezy and fiddly and needs a lot of concentration. The outer pillow-case was almost easy, just needing to be taken off carefully and denuded of all its stray feathers, but the rest was a horrible job.

Yesterday afternoon I had finally retrieved the last feathers that I could from the under-pillow-case and corralled them into the ticking case of the actual pillow, then turned the under-pillow-case wrong side out and flapped it in the breeze to get rid of the very last of the feathers, and finally used safety-pins to cobble the side-seam together very carefully so no more feathers could escape, then brought the under-pillow-case in and put it into the delayed bedding-wash with the rest of the bedding, and the pillow in a large cardboard box ready to do the actual repair.

And now I am sitting looking at it and wondering how to mend from inside a pillow full of feathers. I mean, I'd feel safer if it were done by machine, but how? What sort of seam? Argh?

I rather wish if it had to burst it would have done it when it was at the dry-cleaners in the autumn instead of waiting and doing it at me.

Wish me luck. Or else wish me strength of purpose, because I keep thinking of other little household tasks that I really ought to do first, like going up into the loft to see if I can work out why the water-tank is occasionally leaking through the bathroom ceiling!

Roussette · 28/03/2020 14:19

AskingQuestions that sounds a job and a half!

Arcadia · 28/03/2020 14:48

Reasons to be hopeful link from today ...
www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/world-52068233

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 28/03/2020 15:00

It has been and will be. And until I have done it I have only a rather pathetic thin little pillow, and I am not sleeping well with that, so I really must do it today.

I thought that it might amuse people to think of me feather-wrangling in the sunshine, though. The wind has risen today, and it would have been truly impossible instead of just difficult and messy.

You know that old Leapy Lee song, Little Arrows? Well, it was like that:

Here they come, pouring out of the case,
Little feathers aimed straight for your face:
Little feathers in your nostrils, little feathers in your hair;
When pillows burst you find those little feathers everywhere...

I suspect the neighbours will also be finding feathers in their washing and wondering where on earth they may have come from, not to mention panicking about their own pillows and duvets, but there really isn't anything I could have done to stop at least some from escaping!

Callybrid · 28/03/2020 15:34

Ha! Asking I have a split feather cushion hanging out in my utility room - it’s been there for weeks or possibly months whilst I work out what to do with it. It’s next to the big sheepskin flokati rug which I tried to shake out the window and got a load of black water off the roof on it...

Unfortunately isolation has not made me productive enough to get on with random household jobs; rather the opposite. Today I have mostly coloured, read and lain in bed... in my defence I have a very sore neck after sleeping in a peculiar position and don’t feel up to much. But also I am fairly lazy.

Alsohuman · 28/03/2020 15:35

So pleased I’ve been spared feather wrangling! Just been out for my daily dose of sunshine (it’s come out here now), blossom and birdsong with Gladys, who’s now asleep on my lap. All’s well in my world.

foxessocks · 28/03/2020 16:15

I lost the thread! Accidentally started reading stuff in the other area but then found you again phew, take me back!!!

I just keep unfollowing people on FB at the moment it's very therapeutic

Spudlet · 28/03/2020 16:32

I’ve been weeding, hoeing, raking out stones and sowing seeds today. Hope they take. It’s very therapeutic. If they do, I should have patches of cornflower, Canterbury bells, alyssum (I think that’s how you spell it?) and marigolds dotted around some of the borders. I stuck some sunflower seeds in too, although they’d been hiding in the garage for quite a few years so I don’t have many expectations that they’ll grow!

Got a beef and Guinness casserole in the oven, and having a Sarah and Duck marathon with DS while DH does more weeding. It’s a bit chilly for me out there now!

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Noooblerooble · 28/03/2020 17:42

This is a lovely post on fb about a vulnerable 86 year old surviving her brush with the virus

m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=3751797958226825&id=100001899721578

Noooblerooble · 28/03/2020 17:49

Today I had pancakes for breakfast (new weekend treat. I used to do that years ago and fell out of the habit)

I have also been relaxing and planning projects. I needed a change from my weekday routine. Planning a hot bath and a glass of something nice tonight in front of Malory Towers on iplayer. It's lovely comfort viewing if you read the books as a child.

I feel I'm settling into this way of life as much as anyone can. I'm not so panicked. I was so scared two weeks ago, I was having all sorts of thoughts. I am focusing on my own things and visualising a few week's time when the worst is behind us. I keep picturing myself sitting in my friend's kitchen and us tucking into a lovely chocolate cake and some nice coffee saying to eachother 'aren't we lucky we got through this?' It's really calming.

Noooblerooble · 28/03/2020 17:50

Spudlet your garden sounds like it'll be beautiful. I have all sorts germinating. It is so good for the soul.

M0reGinPlease · 28/03/2020 17:51

Agree with all you've said there @Noooblerooble especially Malory Towers- DD and I are loving it!!

Aberforthsgoat · 28/03/2020 17:51

Oh god i am SO glad I found you. I just started another thread about my health anxiety and how it's taken a grip today, I'm having such low, dark thoughts, all kicked off by browsing for clothes for my DS of all things.

This thread is like a tiny chink of light.