Dusty I feel your pain. Apparently the ages in ICU range from 46-83. I just turned 46......... although also isn't patient zero in Italy seriously ill and IIRC is about 38 and a marathon runner so super fit? (I do hope he recovers fully as his wife is pregnant....)
I do think with a novel virus like this all bets are off. Some super fit young people will die too. Some Octogenarians will survive.
I get the human instinct to try and imagine it's not going to happen to you but it is very distasteful and - I'm sorry - also very, very, very stupid because it gives people a false sense of security and stops them doing sensible things like social distancing.
I can't believe it when I see people still posting on facebook about going to the cinema and theatre. It just seems an insane thing to do - so very not essential (and yes, I think the gov't should step in to economically help theatres / actors affected and maybe pay them to do tv programmes instead - it is likely that there will be more movie downloads if people stop going to cinema so some offset economic activity).