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Conflict in the Middle East

How did you get to your current position on the crisis in the Middle East?

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BaMamma · 12/02/2025 21:59

Following a poster's comment about her views on Israel/Palestine changing after October 7th, I wonder if other posters' views have changed or if they've been constant since first learning of this issue?

For my part I've always been left leaning and tended to accept the narrative around in the 80s and 90s about how terrible Israel was and awfully they treated the Palestinians, I recall the phrase 'the prisoners have become the prison guards' being bandied about quite a bit. I'll admit I didn't think about it too deeply, even though I had visited Israel as a kid and loved it.
I was at a friend of a friend's house when the Ramallah incident was playing out on the TV screens, he had 24-hour news on and that's all it seemed to be showing. I was appalled at the violence, but he was chuckling, supporting the barbarians tearing those men apart, raising bloodied hands to the crowds.
So, I started reading and kept on reading and thinking and came to an understanding of Israel as the only democracy in the Middle East and the only home for Jews in the world, surrounded by Muslim neighbors. I began to see the conflict in world history terms rather than just Palestine vs Israel and saw the necessity of a Jewish state.

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statsfun · 14/02/2025 08:46

That it didn’t happen shows that Israel is established and the surrounding Muslim counties aren’t seeking to destroy it.

Well, that and the fact that Israel has nukes.

statsfun · 14/02/2025 08:48

Israel still exists because it puts enormous effort, skill and resources into its continuing survival.

You can't use that as an argument why they should stop doing so.

SharonEllis · 14/02/2025 08:49

Apols for the derail op. I forgot what thread this was but its hard to overlook such egregious and strategic misinformation.

PotaytoPotahhto · 14/02/2025 08:53

statsfun · 14/02/2025 08:46

That it didn’t happen shows that Israel is established and the surrounding Muslim counties aren’t seeking to destroy it.

Well, that and the fact that Israel has nukes.

Well if it was about fear there would be other ways that don’t involve war - sanctions, ending all diplomatic relations, etc. That has happened.

Conversely, Saudi and Israel have actually been working to build a relationship, not destroy it!

AzurePanda · 14/02/2025 08:53

I’ve always gently leaned towards Israel, simply on the basis of its status as the only democracy in the Middle East, attitudes to women and homosexuality etc. I’ve also always admired the family rituals in Judaism. But October 7 and more importantly the reaction to it turned me into a full on Zionist.

All the talk of “open air prisons” “apartheid state” and so on got me reading. I have spent over a year listening and reading to books on the history of the region both ancient and modern.

I am completely staggered by the misrepresentation and lies that have taken hold as well as the lack of attention given to the aggression and intransigence from the Palestinian side.

PotaytoPotahhto · 14/02/2025 08:54

SharonEllis · 14/02/2025 08:49

Apols for the derail op. I forgot what thread this was but its hard to overlook such egregious and strategic misinformation.

To be fair, it wasn’t OP who said this was a state your opinion and leave thread. It was another poster that decided that’s how this thread should go!

statsfun · 14/02/2025 09:03

PotaytoPotahhto · 14/02/2025 08:53

Well if it was about fear there would be other ways that don’t involve war - sanctions, ending all diplomatic relations, etc. That has happened.

Conversely, Saudi and Israel have actually been working to build a relationship, not destroy it!

Because Israel can defend itself, other regional powers pragmatically work with it.

That absolutely doesn't mean that they would continue if Israel was unprotected. History is the best predictor of future behaviour.

Would you bet your children's lives on humans suddenly starting to act differently, because of unicorns and rainbows? No, me neither.

PotaytoPotahhto · 14/02/2025 09:13

statsfun · 14/02/2025 09:03

Because Israel can defend itself, other regional powers pragmatically work with it.

That absolutely doesn't mean that they would continue if Israel was unprotected. History is the best predictor of future behaviour.

Would you bet your children's lives on humans suddenly starting to act differently, because of unicorns and rainbows? No, me neither.

Respectfully I disagree it’s so black and white. Nuclear weapons hasn’t stopped countries from severing relationships with Russia so I struggle to accept that having nuclear weapons has caused Israel’s neighbours to do absolutely nothing.

There are other ways to damage a country other than bombs and war.

Choofh · 14/02/2025 09:17

mouthpipette · 14/02/2025 00:22

Thank you for the ref, I was aware of him, but brushed up after the link. Yes, he did a lot for the Jews in Palestine in the mid 1800's. He was a philanthropist and helped the Jewish population there. But they were still the minority and very much so. When they started coming in in great numbers, that's when the problems started.

From WIKI
According to the 1871-72 census, the total population of Palestine, excluding the Bedouin, was 381,954 residents. Of them, about 85 percent were Muslims (Druze were included in that category by the Ottomans), 11 percent were Christians and 4 percent Jews.

I find it really interesting when people make comments like this in relation to Israel, that the large numbers of migrants caused problems. I'm sure it's true whether or not you agree that they had the right to go there.

But the exact same people who say this would be outraged if anyone said that large numbers of migrants into Europe were causing problems. They'd say it was racist. I know it's human to be inconsistent at times, but I do think there is a huge dissonance there. Particularly when you consider that the Jews entering Israel in the 1940s were usually stateless refugees whose entire families had been murdered.

ArtTheClown · 14/02/2025 09:36

I was always really anti-Israel, and that their claims that Hamas wished to annihilate them was propaganda to give them an excuse to behave as they did. I went to pro-Palestine demonstrations, and believed and reposted every claim that painted Israel in the worst possible light.

On 7 October 2023 I was scrolling twitter and saw footage of a girl's lifeless, broken body on the back of a pickup truck with armed, triumphant men. It was so horrific I could barely make sense of it. The young woman was Shani Louk.

More and more unimaginably horrific footage, much of which has now probably been deleted, came up on my feed. It was like a portal into hell. The revulsion especially that I felt as a woman, was intense.

And at that point I saw, really saw, what Israel had been dealing with. From then onwards I have completely supported Israel as I understand now that they're actually in a battle to ensure their ongoing existence. I feel like the scales fell from my eyes, and feel ashamed of my previous views.

1dayatatime · 14/02/2025 09:42

There are polarised views from both sides reinforced by echo chamber social media so the days of viewing any topic from the other side's perspective are fast disappearing.

However as a general rule of thumb I find that any "side" that shouts a lot, uses buzzword insults and wears a face mask at public demonstrations doesn't get my support, are to be wary of and seemingly are unwilling to publicly own their opinions or actions.

statsfun · 14/02/2025 09:47

PotaytoPotahhto · 14/02/2025 09:13

Respectfully I disagree it’s so black and white. Nuclear weapons hasn’t stopped countries from severing relationships with Russia so I struggle to accept that having nuclear weapons has caused Israel’s neighbours to do absolutely nothing.

There are other ways to damage a country other than bombs and war.

You do know that Saudi Arabia currently has no diplomatic relations with Israel, and doesn't recognise it as a country, right?

They're tried 'damaging Israel' without guns and war. It didn’t work, so their self interest means they are looking at starting diplomatic relations.

Qatar fund Hamas - a terrorist organisation dedicated to destroying Israel - to the tune of $0.5 Billion a year. Iran give a further $1 Billion to Hezbollah and Hamas each year, purely in order to destroy Israel.

The UN table a ridiculously disproportionate number of resolutions against Israel, compared to countries committing worse atrocities.

In 2022, Russia invaded Ukraine, attacked the Zaporizhzhia Nuclear Power Plant and committed the seige of Mariupol. Remember that?

The Gaza war hadn't started.

In that same year - 2022 - there were 15 UN resolutions against Israel. 13 UN Resolutions against the rest of the world.

  • 6 against Russia, which had invaded a country and besieged a city, deliberately starving civilians for 3 months.
  • just 1 against Syria, where the Assad regime had murdered 1000 civilians that year, including 133 tortured to death.
  • Just 1 against Afghanistan, where in 2022 the Taliban banned girls from getting an education, banned women from working in offices or professionally, stopped womens driving licences, closed womens public baths and banned women from parks and gyms. It's got worse since then of course
  • And 15 against Israel. Where the war in Gaza had not yet started.

Are you seriously suggesting that other countries aren't doing absolutely everything in their power to harm Israel, every single day?

quantumbutterfly · 14/02/2025 10:14

statsfun · 14/02/2025 09:47

You do know that Saudi Arabia currently has no diplomatic relations with Israel, and doesn't recognise it as a country, right?

They're tried 'damaging Israel' without guns and war. It didn’t work, so their self interest means they are looking at starting diplomatic relations.

Qatar fund Hamas - a terrorist organisation dedicated to destroying Israel - to the tune of $0.5 Billion a year. Iran give a further $1 Billion to Hezbollah and Hamas each year, purely in order to destroy Israel.

The UN table a ridiculously disproportionate number of resolutions against Israel, compared to countries committing worse atrocities.

In 2022, Russia invaded Ukraine, attacked the Zaporizhzhia Nuclear Power Plant and committed the seige of Mariupol. Remember that?

The Gaza war hadn't started.

In that same year - 2022 - there were 15 UN resolutions against Israel. 13 UN Resolutions against the rest of the world.

  • 6 against Russia, which had invaded a country and besieged a city, deliberately starving civilians for 3 months.
  • just 1 against Syria, where the Assad regime had murdered 1000 civilians that year, including 133 tortured to death.
  • Just 1 against Afghanistan, where in 2022 the Taliban banned girls from getting an education, banned women from working in offices or professionally, stopped womens driving licences, closed womens public baths and banned women from parks and gyms. It's got worse since then of course
  • And 15 against Israel. Where the war in Gaza had not yet started.

Are you seriously suggesting that other countries aren't doing absolutely everything in their power to harm Israel, every single day?

Agree..
All my life I've been aware of terror attacks in and against Israel and Israelis and Jews abroad, 7/10 was a culmination of that horror. I've seen the rise of aggressive antisemitism in the UK and it horrifies me that it has become so mainstream. When I read clueless posters saying that the PLO were not a terrorist organisation I realise how little they're aware of the history of the region and the conflict.
I wonder if the same people call for the dissolution of other nation states formed as recently as, or even later than Israel, and if not, why not.

LetThereBeLove · 14/02/2025 11:25

Potato Not when the enemy use rockets on a permanent basis against your country which is what Hamas has been doing for years. October 7th meant that Israel could no longer let this state of affairs continue.

mouthpipette · 14/02/2025 11:32

statsfun · 14/02/2025 08:46

That it didn’t happen shows that Israel is established and the surrounding Muslim counties aren’t seeking to destroy it.

Well, that and the fact that Israel has nukes.

Exactly. Israel is armed to the teeth and has the backing of one of the worlds strongest superpowers. There is no realistic threat to its continued existence. Israel is there to stay.
The question is, within which borders ?
The most popular Palestinian leader (MB) suggests the 1967 borders.
However the present Israeli government will not accept this.

dairydebris · 14/02/2025 11:38

mouthpipette · 14/02/2025 11:32

Exactly. Israel is armed to the teeth and has the backing of one of the worlds strongest superpowers. There is no realistic threat to its continued existence. Israel is there to stay.
The question is, within which borders ?
The most popular Palestinian leader (MB) suggests the 1967 borders.
However the present Israeli government will not accept this.

Israel is there to stay precisely because of it's military strength. Had it not armed itself to the teeth and defended itself aggressively it wouldn't actually be here. I think it's worth remembering that.

wordsworthundercover · 14/02/2025 11:44

mouthpipette · 14/02/2025 11:32

Exactly. Israel is armed to the teeth and has the backing of one of the worlds strongest superpowers. There is no realistic threat to its continued existence. Israel is there to stay.
The question is, within which borders ?
The most popular Palestinian leader (MB) suggests the 1967 borders.
However the present Israeli government will not accept this.

I think the government don't want to give up the West Bank, or East Jerusalem. I don't know where they think the Bedouin and Palestinian people there will go. They are not leaving any space for a two state solution. I always thought there was hope for that, and it seemed the best option, but I don't if any land will be left for it.

LindorDoubleChoc · 14/02/2025 11:58

I arrived at my current position on Israel and Palestine when I was grown up enough to read long newspaper articles on the subject, probably late twenties. 30+ years later my feelings/views haven't altered. Probably become more entrenched to be honest in the light of the past 18 months.

wordsworthundercover · 14/02/2025 12:06

I do think the Palestinian Bedouin get rather forgotten in this situation. considering they are increasingly regarded as an indigenous group, with a long history in the area. They are also having homes demolished and villages destroyed. As far as i know they largely made an effort to get along in Israel and many served in the IDF, yet they are still being attacked in the West Bank.

ImmediateReaction · 14/02/2025 12:35

Blue278 · 14/02/2025 06:30

I start with the viewpoint of someone who values democracy and abhors militant Islamism.
Accepting Israel needs to fight relentlessly to exist. Knowing that the Jews are the most persecuted group in history. Knowing that the Islamists want them gone from the area. Those are just inescapable facts.

My viewpoint on Gaza comes from those positions. That the Israelis have to fight or die.

Sadly this is true.

SharonEllis · 14/02/2025 12:35

LetThereBeLove · 14/02/2025 11:25

Potato Not when the enemy use rockets on a permanent basis against your country which is what Hamas has been doing for years. October 7th meant that Israel could no longer let this state of affairs continue.

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Exactly. Its amazingly complacent at best to say that because Israel hasnt allowed itself to be destroyed its all ok and tbey should be expected to sit there fending off attacks forever. Especially when they cant defend themselves against terrorism (the suicide bombs, the knife attacks, the 7 Octobers) without enacting incredibly draconian measures that nobody would find acceptable. Why should they live like that?

ImmediateReaction · 14/02/2025 12:36

AzurePanda · 14/02/2025 08:53

I’ve always gently leaned towards Israel, simply on the basis of its status as the only democracy in the Middle East, attitudes to women and homosexuality etc. I’ve also always admired the family rituals in Judaism. But October 7 and more importantly the reaction to it turned me into a full on Zionist.

All the talk of “open air prisons” “apartheid state” and so on got me reading. I have spent over a year listening and reading to books on the history of the region both ancient and modern.

I am completely staggered by the misrepresentation and lies that have taken hold as well as the lack of attention given to the aggression and intransigence from the Palestinian side.

Indeed.

LetThereBeLove · 14/02/2025 12:43

However the present Israeli government will not accept this I think you'll find it's Hamas, Hezbollah, Houtis and their backers in Iran who will not accept anything less than the eradication of the Jewish state.

wordsworthundercover · 14/02/2025 12:46

LetThereBeLove · 14/02/2025 12:43

However the present Israeli government will not accept this I think you'll find it's Hamas, Hezbollah, Houtis and their backers in Iran who will not accept anything less than the eradication of the Jewish state.

Why are they encouraging settlements in the West Bank then? There can't be a 2 state solution if that land is swamped by settlements under Israeli authority.

1dayatatime · 14/02/2025 12:53

@wordsworthundercover

"I do think the Palestinian Bedouin get rather forgotten in this situation. considering they are increasingly regarded as an indigenous group, "

I fully agree and arguably the Bedouin have more claim to the land than either the Israelis or Palestinians.

Let's not forget the little Bedouin girl killed in the Iranian missile attack and the Bedouin who came to help prevent the terrorist attacks on 7th October.

I really think that it would be very much in Israel's interest to be seen to be doing more to help the Bedouin in Israel.

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