Thanks for thinking it through, and also for replying.
I agree that it isn’t anti-semitic to compare Gaza with other conflicts, so long as it's actually a thoughtful comparison of the conflicts themselves, and not linking them without reflection... simply because people use the same words about them. Genocide. Ethnic cleansing.
Similarly to the Holocaust comparisons, people don't always use those words in good faith.
I mentioned the Rwanda genocide, the persecution of the Uyghurs and the Yazidi genocide. You added Sudan and Bosnia.
Each conflict is as you say is different and horrific in its own way. The horrors of those others don't detract from the devastation and horrors in Gaza. We should respect them all, and not use them as weapons.
I do think that looking at the reality of those other conflicts (rather than hearing only the label) calls the labels of 'genocide' and 'ethnic cleansing' for Gaza into question. That's my opinion.
I think the closest comparison to Gaza is the Gulf war. Both in motivation: given it was triggered by a horrific terrorist attack on US soil, where 2996 innocent US civilians were murdered, but with the conflict obviously also having a wider background. And also in the huge disparity of strength and the devastating consequences. No one calls that a genocide or ethnic cleansing, despite the 100,000 deaths, 5 million displaced persons and over $200 billion in property damage. There are obviously differences between the 2 conflicts, but I think it's worth reflecting on why that is.
So I'd add an extra bit to your comment, which I otherwise absolutely agree with:
You can disagree with the treatment of Palestinians over the past decades without Holocaust denial or accepting what happened in October or calling it a genocide or ethnic cleansing.