"From the river to the sea" has been a common, and virtually unchallenged, chant everywhere in the last year. That is a call for the total destruction of Israel, not the settlements. I've also seen maps of Israel where the entirety of Israel is crossed out and coloured as Palestine. Lots of people loudly and proudly claim "I'm not antisemitic, I'm just anti Israel / anti zionism.” Zionism is the political movement for the existence of a Jewish state, not for the existence of settlements.
I am strongly for a 2 state solution and as soon as the Paelstinains can elect a leader who is also advocating for a 2 state solution, I will support that leader. In the meantime, Gaza is led by Hamas whose constitution literally incorporates a clause about being committed to the destruction of Israel and the death of all Jews. I do not think Hamas, or anyone connected with them, can realistically be involved in negotiations to find a 2 state solution.
Arabs have historically considered anyone who is not Muslim to inferior to them. There was only ever “peace” for Jews (and other minorities) in the various eras of the caliphate if they consented to being treated as 2nd class citizens and paid extra taxes while being unable to enter certain professions, own land or access certain resources. The British treatment of Irish people was horrific and shameful, but so was the Arab treatment of Jews and other non-Muslims.